FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on getting replies from messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, can someone review my profile and give me some advice on getting replies from messages. I seem to send a lot of messages but hardly get any responses.

Many thanks

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Most women will check out your profile before reading your messages. There’s your answer.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Your profile is all about you... Read it back and emphasise every 'I'.

Try replacing some of these with the word 'My'

Also think about what you want to give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drop the cock pics. You'd be amazed how much they will irk anyone browsing your profile.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile says you are a dom looking for cuck couples so this will reduce the number of people interested.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Don’t send a face pic, cuz every time I do that, the messages stop lol

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By *wink loverMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

You may want to explain why you can't accommodate. There may be a valid reason but some will assume you are married or cohabiting.

Other than that, there's a million other threads on here similar to this one and they tend to get some fairly detailed feedback.

First rule seems to be no cock pics. I spend much more time on fabguys where the first rule is the exact opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets put this way you may have a great profile but some people here saying they will reply after you send a face picture and after say if i dont reply take it as a no...others ask face picture and their profile only have a black avatar...gets used to it all kinda of people here but im sure theirs some great people here aswell who actually reply and are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, can someone review my profile and give me some advice on getting replies from messages. I seem to send a lot of messages but hardly get any responses.

Many thanks

Just be yourself to be honest, don’t overthink it and don’t send them anything you wouldn’t normally say to a random women face to face lol.

Include a face pic and if you’re even slightly compatible you’ll get a reply. Otherwise, you’re probably going for the wrong women.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi all, can someone review my profile and give me some advice on getting replies from messages. I seem to send a lot of messages but hardly get any responses.

Many thanks

You are getting a response! No response means they are not interested.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Attached and playing away won't help your cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attached and playing away won't help your cause"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be what they are looking for. "

Exactly.

I do wonder what some peoples expectations are when joining the site.

Single males massively outnumber women and couples. You'llfind tgat the majority of people on fab are not here to shag anyone and everyone.

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