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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys and girls.

Been on here a couple of weeks now and I’m not really getting very far.

Doesn’t seem to matter how nice you are re and respectful to the women on here it never seems to get you anywhere.

Not one for sending cock pictures and I’m always polite,. I’m really chatty and would love to make some connections on here but it’s proving very difficult.

Any ideas why this could be happening?

Had a few hello replies but that’s as far as conversations go.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

When you joined what were you expecting to happen?

As it can take months to get a meet.

Why it get to a club to start you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re write up says nothing about you. If people read that, they will see lack of effort put in. You can then expect lack of effort on a meet. Competition is very strong on here and you’re profile at the moment will not cut it against the competition. Read other forum posts on how to improve your profile.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Any ideas why this could be happening?

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"Not gonna fill this full of shit" is an offputting phrase to start a profile.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


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Any ideas why this could be happening?

"Not gonna fill this full of shit" is an offputting phrase to start a profile. "

Yeah imagine if j.k Rowling started her books like that

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

Go to socials. Go to clubs. Write a better bio. Don't expect women to be gagging for your cock instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was looking for meets I wouldn't even read your message as I would read your profile and instantly delete

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"If I was looking for meets I wouldn't even read your message as I would read your profile and instantly delete "

Do you look at the profile before reading the message? I often wonder how people approach things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys I’ll amend my profile soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve fixed it, does that look better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does that now look better? X

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Does that now look better? X"

I know this sounds very picky but you have ten paragraphs all beginning with "I".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks is nothing!

What were your expectations when joining the site?

That all you need do was knock up a profile and be drowning in offers within hours?

That's not how fab works. This isn't Instashag!

Most single guys wait around 6 months to a year to get their first meet.

You can be as charming as you like in your messages, most will check your profile out first before even thinking about reading it. If they don't like what they see, why would they then bother to read it or reply to it?

How many of those takeaway menus that come through your door do you take the time and effort to get in touch to say thanks but no thanks.

You can tick all the requirements someone has on their profile, but they still have to find you attractive enough to want to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was looking for meets I wouldn't even read your message as I would read your profile and instantly delete

Do you look at the profile before reading the message? I often wonder how people approach things. "

It’s very easy to get by on here. There’s one rule, don’t be a dick. That’s means personality and also don’t evolve your profile around your cock. Men like boobs and bum. Ladies like chests and smiles. Be a gentleman and it’s a doddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does that now look better? X"

I like your new profile. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's much better but take off the first and last paragraphs not needed

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Take out the part at the end about permission to use photos, it means nothing and is pretty pointless.

Rest looks good, good luck!

Sassy

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By *hona75Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well said

And there is way more guys on here to women so we get swamped with msgs which means we can afford to be really picky on here not good for u guys but just the way it is good luck x

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

You say “I like to think I’ve tried most things when it comes to sex and I’m now at an age where I firmly know what I do and don’t like” but don’t then expand upon that. Let’s hear your preferences.

You say that you don’t send cock shots and yet that’s exactly what your first public photo is, gripped so tight as if you’re trying to force each last drop of blood to the end. It’s not a flattering look.

Lots of ‘me’ not a lot of ‘you’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest this part comes out too it's off putting. Otherwise job well done good luck

"I’ve been round the block a few times, and got the T-shirt in every size and colour"

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