FabSwingers.com forum: How to get my wife into swinging

By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Hi guys I'm wondering how to introduce my wife into some soft swinging and I think that she would like to have some fun with a lady as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be open and honest and ask her if she would like to do it.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

We just talked about it about 17 yrs ago. Tried it, went away, came back, now I do parties and we go to the odd club but she does not play with others now.be sure of how well you know her before you ask.

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

Communication communication communication.

you don’t get someone to swing, you talk about it then make a plan together.

Molly

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

cant be forced... if she isn't into it then not a lot you can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her a really sexy younger guy who can whisk her around a dance floor and who isn't pushy and has some experience, she'll soon start to see the positives lol ground work!

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I would think that she would be interested in having a couple for a foursome and she loves watching lesbian porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure it's not you that would like her to have some fun with another woman?

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

No not at all

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Has she expressed an interest with playing with other woman to you?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

If she didn't, would you give up swinging?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'd say having a conversation with her would be the best place to start.

Does she know you are on here?

Has she expressed any interest in swinging?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Be open and honest and ask her if she would like to do it. "

Don't pressure. If she says no, respect it

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

But surely she knows that you’re on here, and you tell her all that you’ve been up to?

Oh, wait.....

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

In the many many years we have been on this site our advice has always been the same. You don't get anybody into swinging they do it out of their own free will and the simple way is to talk to them.

There are many different ways to bring the subject up from asking about fantasies to watching porn but if they say no then drop the subject.

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By *evilmademedoitMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"In the many many years we have been on this site our advice has always been the same. You don't get anybody into swinging they do it out of their own free will and the simple way is to talk to them.

There are many different ways to bring the subject up from asking about fantasies to watching porn but if they say no then drop the subject."

I was just about to say pretty much the same thing, it has to be a mutual choice or decision.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Show her the really cool website you joined.

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By *evilmademedoitMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Show her the really cool website you joined."

Savage.....love it.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Hi guys I'm wondering how to introduce my wife into some soft swinging and I think that she would like to have some fun with a lady as well "

Have you tried talking to her?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"No not at all "

Well, that's just not honest, is it?

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I'm trying to find the right moment to slip the idea into a conversation when we are both getting horny and watching some porn together

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Show her the really cool website you joined."

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