FabSwingers.com forum: Why carnt i meet another woman on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help

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By *rimKardashianMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help"

Possibly because they might appreciate accurate spelling and punctuation as an indication of your prowess as a potential sexual partner.

Anyway rather than mercilessly drag you (Be Kind); quick spell check on Microsoft Word & you'll hopefully improve your odds.

Good luck brave soldier.

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By *UPASOAKERandMASTERCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help"

You sound desperate my friend. For a single man like you, the secret to meeting people on this site is to go to clubs and socials around you. From that, you get verified, that would increase your chances of setting up a successful meet in future.

Goodluck my friend.

Mic

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP.

Drop the pointless threat of legal action. Firstly you don't have any pictures, and secondly it is not enforceable and usually indicates someone that doesn't know what they are talking about.

Once you have done that your profile consists of "I am a nice clean genuine guy looking for naughty fun". Eleven words are not going to attract any attention, so maybe that should be your starting point to answer your question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ther are some nasty people on this site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are nasty people on this site I’m sure and in life in general. But all the comments, in my opinion, were offering constructive criticism. Your profile offers absolutely nothing to help u stand out from the many other people on here seeking the same thing. I would heed their advice and try and improve your profile.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help"

Prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ther are some nasty people on this site . "

If you think that three people making very fair and valid comments about your profile, or rather lack of one, justifies your comment, then you are in for one heck of a shock and maybe this site isn't for you.

You need to be pretty thick skinned here, especially as a single man.

You've made little to no effort on your profile and people are picking up on it.

And think about it this way, if three people have actually commented, how many others do you think are out there that have thought the same but are thinking that, like most of the other single men who come on the forums asking for help, you're going to ignore any and all advice given to you.

Or were you perhaps expecting people to lavish praise on you for creating such a magnificent profile.

You've asked for help. People have taken the trouble to suggest areas to improve your prospects and instead of taking their comments on board, you lash out at them calling them 'Nasty'

That tells anyone else who reads this thread that you're beyond help.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Ther are some nasty people on this site . "

There's also a lot of lazy guys that think they deserve a woman, just for stringing 20 words together in an unpunctuated sentence.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

No one on fab is here to give someone “a chance” you have to deserve a meet, and so far you’ve done nothing to do that. Describing yourself as ‘genuine’ or the ‘nicest’ is pointless. You’ve done nothing to prove that either. You’ve not said what you’re looking for nor what you can bring to the table. I’m sort, this is one of the laziest profiles I’ve ever seen on here, and you wonder why you’re not getting way. Desperation and entitlement are not attractive qualities, and if your messages mirror your profile you’ll not get anywhere at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one on fab is here to give someone “a chance” you have to deserve a meet, and so far you’ve done nothing to do that. Describing yourself as ‘genuine’ or the ‘nicest’ is pointless. You’ve done nothing to prove that either. You’ve not said what you’re looking for nor what you can bring to the table. I’m sort, this is one of the laziest profiles I’ve ever seen on here, and you wonder why you’re not getting way. Desperation and entitlement are not attractive qualities, and if your messages mirror your profile you’ll not get anywhere at all. "

Agreed. Perhaps the OP is better on a more traditional site where maybe he would feel more comfortable showing some photos and finding someone matched to him

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Hi OP, having looked at your profile there is very little information on there to make you stand out amongst the thousands of other single males.

You say you are one of the nicest, most genuine, guys on here, but to be frank anyone could make that claim. Your profile tells the reader very little about you & really doesn't

You cannot accommodate which certainly won't help your situation as a lot of people will assume from that you are married. Indeed, following your green arrow took me to posts which confirm that to be the case, & assuming your wife does not know you are on here, kind of contradicts the genuine, nice guy claim.

The lack of pics is also very likely to make people pass you by.

I'd say the profile needs a total rethink to be honest.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"You cannot accommodate which certainly won't help your situation as a lot of people will assume from that you are married. Indeed, following your green arrow took me to posts which confirm that to be the case, & assuming your wife does not know you are on here, kind of contradicts the genuine, nice guy claim. "

This is infuriating. No wonder single females looking for the actually honest and genuine single guys on here end up spending so much time vetting....

Honest and genuine. Try it somewhere else!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

You say another woman, are you cheating?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"You say another woman, are you cheating?"

Yep, green arrow confirmed you're married, that makes me question your nice guy claims, nice men don't cheat on their wives.

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"You say another woman, are you cheating?

Yep, green arrow confirmed you're married, that makes me question your nice guy claims, nice men don't cheat on their wives."

And genuine guys dont claim to be single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's the nice guy now then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help"

Me too - but I'm not the most handsome guy on the site... not everyones' type... but patient friendly.

General rule of thumb - dating sites of any nature -

370 men to one woman

90% can spell

50% are really handsome guys.

10% are single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Figures are based on discussions with site admins on other dating sites - and do not necessarily reflect the figure of FAB.

Figures are purely estimates and examples to show that any guy looking needs to do something to stand out from the rest.

(please don't use my profile as an example - it only does what "I" want from it)

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No pics

Can't accommodate

Short

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help

Me too - but I'm not the most handsome guy on the site... not everyones' type... but patient friendly.

General rule of thumb - dating sites of any nature -

370 men to one woman

90% can spell

50% are really handsome guys.

10% are single

And may I add 2% has a good personality, humble and is a gentleman

When women have at least 50 new requests from men, are they really going choose to use their precious time chatting to someone clearly putting very little effort into it and hoping women just have their legs open because it's a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help"
I'm one of the genuinely nice guys to

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help"
pictures and a bit of personality goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are well while ther having ago at me they are leaving someone else alone i suppose its just human nature bla bla bla

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Genuine or nice tell me almost nothing about someone, they are not really personality traits. Being a nice person is the bare minimum you'd expect from a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help"

And the other "really genuine nice guys" feel exactly the same no doubt.

Saying you are genuine,doesn't make you any more genuine than anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help

And the other "really genuine nice guys" feel exactly the same no doubt.

Saying you are genuine,doesn't make you any more genuine than anyone else"
i am more genuine

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Profile tells the reader absolutely nothing about you. No sign of your personality, no suggestions whatsoever as to what you have to offer a woman or couple or why they should pick you to meet rather than the thousands of other single men on here. No pictures. Age range 18-99 which suggests that you will meet pretty much anyone.

You can't accommodate ( & Green arrow shows that is because you are married) which will definitely put people off.

The best description of your profile would be bland or non-descript

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ther are some nasty people on this site . "

You cannot take constructive criticism?

You're going to hate what I have to say even more as you cannot do anything about it - lots of women like tall guys.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi i am one of the realy genuine nice guys on here i just want to meet a nice local lady i will treat them with respect any ladys help"

I can’t give you profile advice as you haven’t asked for it OP. My advice is when messaging ladies give examples of how you are ‘genuine’ and see how that works or go to Clubs and meet them there.

Good Luck, chin up.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

There should be a category for real nice genuine guys on here.

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

"There should be a category for real nice genuine guys on here."

The 'not like all the other guys' guys.

OP - Go to some organised socials. There are many brilliant people on Fab. I've made some great friends on here at socials.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"There should be a category for real nice genuine guys on here."

With a sub-division for 'real nice genuine guys that are cheating on their wife'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, just clicked on your ‘green arrow’, interesting read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There should be a category for real nice genuine guys on here."

There is, it's a site called Fabswingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Ther are some nasty people on this site .

If you think that three people making very fair and valid comments about your profile

Calling him desperate is valid? I would call it rude and not acceptable

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Attacking people is against forum rules.

If you are going to give " advice / constructive criticism " on threads were people are asking for help please do so without attacking people or being nasty just for the hell of it.

If you don't think you can do that then don't post on these type of threads

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

OP...I am going to shut this as I don't think it was pleasant or helpful to you, especially the posts I removed

Maybe have a nose at some of the other help threads that did have polite and helpful posts on them

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