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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hey guys and gals I was wondering if it would be possible for someone to review my profile and give me some advice, I get that fab is more than likely massively male dominated and women get swamped by messages but none of my messages ever get read which is quite deflating so any help would be much appreciated

Thanks M

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Theres not much to it.

2 tevent photos 2 old photos and 4 lines of text... theres profile help to other fab threads in my profile. But

You need to make your profile stand out. It's your shop window to draw people inside

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

What are you offering? What makes you so different from the hundreds of other guys?

You need to make your profile stand out that tells people about you. Teasing pics like jeans and open shirt etc seem to go down well.

Good luck op

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber

I always wonder with profiles that have no lower or upper age limit, if you would actually meet someone old enough to be your mums granny; I know it’s the 21st century and it’s all about inclusivity and diversity and we’re not allowed to be ageist, but really?

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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Ok thanks that’s one point I can change by the looks of things I need all the help I can get lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mention in your text about looking for people to 'expose your naughty side' but you haven't actually made any mention of what it is that you're particularly looking for - or indeed what you have to offer.

I'm afraid it's rather bland and generic - it could have been written by anyone

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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’ve just this second re-written it so any opinion is welcome

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"I’ve just this second re-written it so any opinion is welcome"

All you have written is what you want. Why would any women be interested in providing your ‘needs’ when you have made no effort in explaining how you can provide their’s.

You are have to do considerably more work on this to be in with a chance.

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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Point taken, wouldn’t that come across as being a little big headed Braggy if you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Braggy yes, but women want guys to make an effort for them, they need to see/hear that. So what if you brag a bit, just don’t exaggerate.

Never cum from a bj, you’ve either had shit bj’s or problems cumming haha. The latter could deter as opposed to attract women!

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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’m guessing I’ve just had shit bjs don’t have a problem cumming I thought it might put a challenge out there

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Point taken, wouldn’t that come across as being a little big headed Braggy if you know what I mean"

There’s a big difference between being all “I’ll make you cum with my awesome technique” and respectfully explaining how you like to please a woman.

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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’m adding things all the time lol keep the advice coming fabbers it’s helping we’ll I hope it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are your newest photos recent? You don't look 37 in them. Could be a baby face - just wondered.

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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes I’m 37 all the photos are within the last 6 months

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I’m guessing I’ve just had shit bjs don’t have a problem cumming I thought it might put a challenge out there"

We dont raise to challenges makes it sound like an entitled sympathy bj which a lot of wemon despise x

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Yes I’m 37 all the photos are within the last 6 months"

I would meet you for a social only no play just to verify your age lol there is no way you look 37 I want your moisturiser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I’m 37 all the photos are within the last 6 months

I would meet you for a social only no play just to verify your age lol there is no way you look 37 I want your moisturiser "

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Yes I’m 37 all the photos are within the last 6 months"

Apart from the 2 from 2016!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys and gals I was wondering if it would be possible for someone to review my profile and give me some advice, I get that fab is more than likely massively male dominated and women get swamped by messages but none of my messages ever get read which is quite deflating so any help would be much appreciated

Thanks M"
you look a very youthful 37 profile seems ok good luck

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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Yes I’m 37 all the photos are within the last 6 months

Apart from the 2 from 2016!"

Yes two are from back then the rest are within the last 6 months!

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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Yes I’m 37 all the photos are within the last 6 months

I would meet you for a social only no play just to verify your age lol there is no way you look 37 I want your moisturiser "

I know I don’t look 37 lol is what is I guess

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Hey guys and gals I was wondering if it would be possible for someone to review my profile and give me some advice, I get that fab is more than likely massively male dominated and women get swamped by messages but none of my messages ever get read which is quite deflating so any help would be much appreciated

Thanks M"
. Your profile looks ok to me and the fact you can accommodate is a plus for us single guys.You have been on the site over a year yet you have no verifications you need to get a few verifications.The best way to do that is to go organised socials or clubs in or near your area get chatting to people face to face give them a verification and they will probably give you a verification back.The verifications will show what a nice social guy you are and will hopefully get you noticed.Best of luck with your time on Fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder with profiles that have no lower or upper age limit, if you would actually meet someone old enough to be your mums granny; I know it’s the 21st century and it’s all about inclusivity and diversity and we’re not allowed to be ageist, but really?"

Personally I do like old men and if a 99 year old were capable I would certainly be interested. To a lesser extent with the ladies, but still wouldn’t rule it out. I’m not really interested in younger men, but would meet a younger woman.

My age range is set at 18-99 because I wouldn’t rule a woman of 18 out or a man of 99.

I wouldn’t rule out a 99 year old woman either, but an 18 year old man would have to have an astonishingly good profile to get my attention.

In reality I’m not likely to meet a 99 year old but mainly because I doubt there are many on here who have an active profile.

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By *-D-H OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hey guys and gals I was wondering if it would be possible for someone to review my profile and give me some advice, I get that fab is more than likely massively male dominated and women get swamped by messages but none of my messages ever get read which is quite deflating so any help would be much appreciated

Thanks M. Your profile looks ok to me and the fact you can accommodate is a plus for us single guys.You have been on the site over a year yet you have no verifications you need to get a few verifications.The best way to do that is to go organised socials or clubs in or near your area get chatting to people face to face give them a verification and they will probably give you a verification back.The verifications will show what a nice social guy you are and will hopefully get you noticed.Best of luck with your time on Fabs."
thanks very much for that I did have one veri but she left the site so I’m guessing it’s gone

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Hey guys and gals I was wondering if it would be possible for someone to review my profile and give me some advice, I get that fab is more than likely massively male dominated and women get swamped by messages but none of my messages ever get read which is quite deflating so any help would be much appreciated

Thanks M. Your profile looks ok to me and the fact you can accommodate is a plus for us single guys.You have been on the site over a year yet you have no verifications you need to get a few verifications.The best way to do that is to go organised socials or clubs in or near your area get chatting to people face to face give them a verification and they will probably give you a verification back.The verifications will show what a nice social guy you are and will hopefully get you noticed.Best of luck with your time on Fabs. thanks very much for that I did have one veri but she left the site so I’m guessing it’s gone"
. If someone leaves the site then I believe the verification goes as well. If someone blocks you l believe that verification disappears

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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago

Mancetter?


"Hey guys and gals I was wondering if it would be possible for someone to review my profile and give me some advice, I get that fab is more than likely massively male dominated and women get swamped by messages but none of my messages ever get read which is quite deflating so any help would be much appreciated

Thanks M"

Can't contact you privately so having read your profile these are my initial thoughts......

A) Smoker

B) Opening talking about your past failed relationship

C) Again pointing out that you have never been fully satisfied with a BJ

D) Very explicit about your oral skills .....leave a little to imagination

E) look at better quality pics

Summary: move on leave the past there in the past dont come across as kiss n tell and finally accept that you can only please some of the people some of the time not all the people all the time so be more precise in what you are looking for ..... hope this helps x

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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago

Mancetter?


"What are you offering? What makes you so different from the hundreds of other guys?

You need to make your profile stand out that tells people about you. Teasing pics like jeans and open shirt etc seem to go down well.

Good luck op "

Ha ha whats your picture of ?? Did you drop the camera as it went off ??? Just asking

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