FabSwingers.com forum: Profile/message tips

By *indguy91 OP Man
over a year ago

Coseley

Hi guys

Been on here for a while now but not having much luck with replies to my messages.

Can someone give me tips on how to improve my profile and how to improve messaging. Much appreciated.

By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago

Southcoast Gosport

"Hi guys

Been on here for a while now but not having much luck with replies to my messages.

Can someone give me tips on how to improve my profile and how to improve messaging. Much appreciated. "
Hundreds of posts in the forums on this subject op, do a search and apply, the advice is often very generic. Also you’ve had a meet so suggestion would be to use what you did to get that meet in regards to messages

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice I can give would be to think about what your expectations of the site are, and then realign them.

All of these types of thread have one thing in common. They all think that there's some magic formula to getting a meet, while failing to appreciate one of the most important factors of all - if someone doesn't fancy you, it doesn't matter how good your profile is, or how thoughtful a message you've written.

You have to appreciate that not everyone is going to fancy you. In fact, I'd go one further and say that you have to be prepared that MOST won't - only a few will.

Once you get your head around that....

By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Looking at your profile I wouldnt return a message. I dont accom and neither do you. Happy to have a social if needed rings a few alarm bells for me. I'm interested in quality over quantity but this sounds like you maybe arent as selective

By *indguy91 OP Man
over a year ago

Coseley

Thanks for the advice guys. Definitely need to rethink my profile