FabSwingers.com forum: First Timer

By *m Game1991 OP Man
over a year ago

Newton Aycliffe

Hey, First timer on a swingers site

, Just wanted to ask whats the best way to approach this?

I'm no Mr innocence but The messages i do send don't seem to attract attention. any pointers?

Cheers

By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Make sure you read profiles and only message people if you definitely match what they are looking for. Personalise the message in a way that shows you have read their profile & try to make it interesting enough to catch their attention.

Understand that no reply generally means they aren't interested.

Treat your profile like your shop window, make it as appealing as possible in order to sell yourself. You need to try to stand out amongst the sea of other single men.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time. Be patient and things will eventually click into place. Contribute to forums and get to know people in the chat rooms