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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all hope everyone is doing ok out there ? I'm not. I didn't think I looked that bad lol. Why don't any women reply to my messages or take an interest in me? If anybody can tell me where I'm going wrong and point me in right direction would be good .

Thanks guys

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You seem to have written an dating profile, not a swinging profile. You are going into your history too much, rather than selling yourself and being hilarious and witty. Maybe you'd be better off on a real dating site?

You also imply that you want women to message you, so maybe you're not putting enough effort into decent messages to women? Reading between the lines there of course.

More, interesting, photos would be good of course, tasteful body shots etc. Although well done for the face pic, so much received paranoia about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they dont like your kitchen who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starting off your profile by asking if there are any genuine women on here would put us off for a start. As a poster above said, its written like a dating profile. Maybe you would have more luck with tinder or pof

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for advice. I've changed my profile now so fingers crossed

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Thank you for advice. I've changed my profile now so fingers crossed "

Your profile photo doesn't reflect your sexual style etc which reduces the amount of women interested. But don't stick just a dick pic as a main pic as thats off putting too

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Thank you for advice. I've changed my profile now so fingers crossed "

That seems significantly worse now TBH! where's the personality? Where's the fun? where's the chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's starts like that try posting in a forum you get replies, keep at pal,

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've been on and off a couple of times and it can be infuriating sometimes.

I found getting to the local socials in my area helped immensely.

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford

This is my 3rd and final profile i get the views just no one is interested im thinking its just me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hust seem to get mostly men viewing mine. Not interested in men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did not see the original profile, but the current one is not enticing one bit. Also, how come you haven't got a single verification, despite being here for over a year? Is it because you put all your effort into the online presence, neglecting the possibility of organised socials or clubs?

I think if I were you, I would just start over, with a new profile. And try clubs and/or organised social, get to know people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess he'll be back with a new profile.

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By *ittle-black-dressWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I hust seem to get mostly men viewing mine. Not interested in men lol"

Sorry, but I'll show little interest in a profile called 'clit teaser' or 'pussy lcker' etc

Genuine name + genuine person = attractive profile

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By *bonybbwWoman
over a year ago

London

This might sound off but I think at times it's better not to have any new messages coming in especially when some are lame and end up being a game of endless chat that leads to nowhere.

Why not contact them first? You might get lucky.

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