FabSwingers.com forum: Not getting many responses.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any tips on what we could do to get people’s attention? Quite a few read messages but not many responses.

Thanks in advance.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You're an attractive couple so you will eventually get some interest, but it does take time, a lot longer than one week.

As this site has more Men than Women then factor distance to where you live, it will narrow your chances even more.

It's not all bad news, you'll get interest at socials and clubs if you decide to try that route or contribute to the forums so your profile gets seen. Be patient your age ranges are good I'm sure you'll get some interest soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips on what we could do to get people’s attention? Quite a few read messages but not many responses.

Thanks in advance. "
you'll be ok your wife looks gorgeous

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By *aughtiecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

V surprised. Great photos. And we would certainly chat with a view to meet. U r just a long way from us .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nice looking profile, and couple. Give it time.

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By *owandthen321Man
over a year ago

dublin

Having problems getting responses too

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

its very difficult online, its worth considering going to clubs and socials so you have more than one tool in your swinger tool kit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its very difficult online, its worth considering going to clubs and socials so you have more than one tool in your swinger tool kit."
clubs are very public though........ what if you're shy or short on money?

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By *owandthen321Man
over a year ago

dublin

Thanks nice tits

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I think the issue is you are only looking for women. There isn't as many single women on here and they can have several messages a day that unfortunately some messages get missed or bumped down the list.

Try a club maybe ?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

You have only been here a week and you are only looking for women. Many couples look for women to join them and find it difficult.

Just remember not to make women feel like the only reason you are talking to them is because you want them to fulfill your fantasies. Just talk as friends. Build rapport. If somebody knows you like them in themselves then you are much more likely to take the next step with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to lose the disclaimer

And open up to couples, you'll have more luck as you're a good looking couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You like most couples are chasing the mythical unicorn... your profile is ok - great pics, but limited bio.

Stick with it and don’t take this place to seriously.

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By *harlottes ChurchTV/TS
over a year ago

Toy me town

You might want to try camming and chatting to folk in the chat rooms.

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By *unessexblMan
over a year ago

Colchester

There are some really nice genuine couples in our area - they do take a bit of searching and I won’t call out names for you in here, but they are in Colchester/Ipswich area when I was part of a couple we met some lovely local people.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"Any tips on what we could do to get people’s attention? Quite a few read messages but not many responses.

Thanks in advance. "

You're looking for a woman - the most rare entity on fab.

Of the comparatively few who are on here, majority are looking for men, not couples.

The best thing to do is to make your profile and pics amazing.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Your pics are nice but your profile is a little limiting.

Maybe add a little of what you like to do, or what you might like to try?

Also some folk have their filters set so that new members can’t message them, or they don’t look for new members on their searches.

Give it time, start slow and organise a social drink or two with some people. Get a couple of verifications (even just for a social drink) and things will soon get busy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tell me.

Just be yourselves, eventually you will find people you click with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attend Social events . Easy to get acquainted with like minded ppl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, I applaud the bravery about showing your faces. I would never want that creepy guy from the Esso garage down the road winking at me because he’s seen me on here, but if you don’t care about that, kudos!

Personally - I am very visual, And as you look at the site you’ll notice, most profiles contain photos of people’s bodies, even if they’re in lingerie/underwear. People want to see your bodies.

Also, describing more detail of what kind of experience you’re looking for - do you want social drinks first? Will it be full sex for all, or just soft swap between females? Do you like sensual sex, or rough? Are you happy to go with the flow of what the woman wants? Kinky? Do you like toys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips on what we could do to get people’s attention? Quite a few read messages but not many responses.

Thanks in advance. "

Just as others are saying xx write just a little more description about whats your looking for or want to do xx its harder on here for new couples with no verifications xx people are very suspicious xx with some good cause as well xx if you go to a couple of socials xx talk to people ask there advice xx but above all have fun xx keep safe xx

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford

Couples and single females get the most messages i get one or two a month which lead to nowhere its hard when your George Clooney looks dont win people over but i can fall back on my gsoh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try offering incentives

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford

"You could try offering incentives

I have tried throwing a full body massage + but to no avail i think its just me lol

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Any tips on what we could do to get people’s attention? Quite a few read messages but not many responses.

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Your profile does not state exactly what your after with the women I certainly would be interested looking at your pics but your profile would put me off msg you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know why not you are a good looking couple, I'm surprised your inbox isn't overflowing.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"its very difficult online, its worth considering going to clubs and socials so you have more than one tool in your swinger tool kit.clubs are very public though........ what if you're shy or short on money?

That is true, although they can be a good place to start getting to know people and if it did happen to go that way many of them have private rooms.

Some of them start from £10 per couple on certain nights as well, and if it's a club where you can take your own alcohol it's in my opinion a worthwhile investment if the lifestyle.

(of course only my opinion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is true, although they can be a good place to start getting to know people and if it did happen to go that way many of them have private rooms.

Some of them start from £10 per couple on certain nights as well, and if it's a club where you can take your own alcohol it's in my opinion a worthwhile investment if the lifestyle.

(of course only my opinion)"
exactly...... clubs suit you obviously but they don't suit everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with what others have said your searching for a unicorn and unfortunately they are difficult to come by. We have had loads of fun opening up to couples. Don’t assume everyone wants a full swap some couples are happy for FF play and then to have full sex with there own partners us included and we are in the same town. People will respect your boundaries xxx

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Your trying to find the lock mess monster lol. Both of you look good but finding a single female to join you will be very hard.

If you wanted a single male you would have 1000 replied by now no question including myself lol.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not very seductive or enticing if your trying to get a single female to have sex with you , you’ll need to offer a bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips on what we could do to get people’s attention? Quite a few read messages but not many responses.

Thanks in advance. "

By looking at your pictures you don’t mind showing face so just change it about I say change twice a week it just gets people looking when they see change of picture.

Good luck

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By *rank33Man
over a year ago

London

"Any tips on what we could do to get people’s attention? Quite a few read messages but not many responses.

Thanks in advance. "

Well guys! I am

Surprised you aren’t getting any responses! I would have imagined that to be a problem for a single male !

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By *rank33Man
over a year ago

London

"Attend Social events . Easy to get acquainted with like minded ppl."

Yes that I would agree !!!

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By *rank33Man
over a year ago

London

That is true, although they can be a good place to start getting to know people and if it did happen to go that way many of them have private rooms.

Some of them start from £10 per couple on certain nights as well, and if it's a club where you can take your own alcohol it's in my opinion a worthwhile investment if the lifestyle.

(of course only my opinion)"

Clubs want more couples and single ladies and do the entrance is very low in comparison to a single guy !

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By *indful indulgenceMan
over a year ago

Wymondham

"Any tips on what we could do to get people’s attention? Quite a few read messages but not many responses.

Thanks in advance. "

I agree with others, you're an attractive couple.

It can be worth putting up adverts, even if it's for a social or to see who's going to a club. just be wary of those that talk the talk but don't turn up.

If you ever go to Vanilla Alternative or Jaydees, let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that I'm incredibly surprised as Mrs is stunning but on reading your profile I note that you are looking for the holy grail of playmates.

If, on the other hand you'd been looking for single men, your inbox would be overflowing

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You are looking for the smallest group on fab. Personally speaking, as a single female, your profile pics and bio did nothing to grab my attention. Good luck, hope you find what you are looking for. Maybe try what others have already suggested, clubs and socials. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

That is true, although they can be a good place to start getting to know people and if it did happen to go that way many of them have private rooms.

Some of them start from £10 per couple on certain nights as well, and if it's a club where you can take your own alcohol it's in my opinion a worthwhile investment if the lifestyle.

(of course only my opinion)exactly...... clubs suit you obviously but they don't suit everyone

There's always the option of organised socials if they don't want to attend clubs to meet people. Great for networking.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Bleeding obvious why i wouldn't meet you.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Bleeding obvious why i wouldn't meet you.

Just read your profile, you've been a busy lady! Best of luck to you. Xx

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

thank you xx

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

OP broaden your search criteria.

Lose the silly face photos and get some erotic/lingerie photos (no crudity).

Expand your written profile.

Try messaging some folk, make the first move.

Follow the good advice above.

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Good luck looking for the elusive unicorn may be put looking for a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow or eternal youth might help too only gesting hope you find what your looking for x

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim

The Forums definitely helped me! I hadn’t received any Messages then I joined in on some of the Interactive Threads and Games interacting with other members. Gradually started receiving messages and built up my confidence to send Women/Couples messages outside of Interactive Theeads.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Welcome to the real fab, all talk and pictures, with very little content and real meets ... getting worse by the day.. so don’t panic, it’s normal

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"Bleeding obvious why i wouldn't meet you.

I see several reasons, too.

Op: you are an attractive couple, but if your profile text isn’t enticing, it will be difficult to find someone. Have a look at other couples’ profiles that have been successful meeting single bi women to get some ideas.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Welcome to the real fab, all talk and pictures, with very little content and real meets ... getting worse by the day.. so don’t panic, it’s normal

Actually, quite a few of us meet, just those who match our preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bleeding obvious why i wouldn't meet you.

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time of the month?

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Bleeding obvious why i wouldn't meet you.

I see several reasons, too.

To me all the "reasons" just show that they're far more likely to be "our type" of people than the average couple. Love that the clothes are on, love that they are happy to show their faces, love they don't have a tirade of petty nonsense filling their profile.

If they were closer, we'd be all over them, exactly because of these reasons.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"Bleeding obvious why i wouldn't meet you.

I see several reasons, too.

If they were closer, we'd be all over them, exactly because of these reasons."

Indeed. We also value those ‘reasons’, too.

I’m not here to tell them exactly what they need to put on their profile - it’s just our opinion. After all, it’s up to them what they feel is the best way forward. Which is why when they asked for advice, I gave them a suggestion and it’s up to them whether to act upon it or not.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

This is fab. Full of people who think they’re all that! don’t worry, your a fab looking couple, but people tend to think they’re out of your league, so may not bother. Patients guys. We’re fugly, but we enjoy ourselves on here. X

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Hi, being a couple in here for just over a month now and have had one play and a few socials, we are struggling to get play dates as folk have busy lives...but we have found if u keep adding pics and vids tmyoy will see the numbers rise and have more msgs..good luck xx

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Well there's not a lot on your profile, that doesn't say much about you. You like fun and being silly which shows from your photos. Maybe a few sexy photos, to show a different sexier side to you. Maybe also have some photos that maybe demonstrate you like it a bit rough.

Just a little imagination

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’ve come to the conclusion I must be shit at txting new people

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By *rank33Man
over a year ago

London

"I would say that I'm incredibly surprised as Mrs is stunning but on reading your profile I note that you are looking for the holy grail of playmates.

If, on the other hand you'd been looking for single men, your inbox would be overflowing"

Agree with this !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend I chat to, she is looking for a couple like you and lives in or near your area, I could give your her kik so you could chat, but would ask her permission first.

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