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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice would be welcome I’m a bit lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the cock pics, add some pics of yourself- body etc.

Do fill in your bio- it is your shop window, and at the moment I would definitely not be interested to look what's in the shop. You compete for attention with thousands of men on here, you need to stand out if you want to be successful.

The fact that you cannot accommodate will put some people off as that's usually the sign the person is in a relationship and their other half know nothing about them being on here.

You're saying in your status that you need to get verified- for a lot of men, it takes much more than 2 weeks for that. But if you get yourself to an organised social or a club near you, they'd verify you as genuine.

Happy fabbing.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

You have been on here 2 weeks, which is nothing in fab time.

Fab is not instant sex, it is about creating contacts, building friendships and going from there.

As the previous lady said, get along to a club and get verified, but that does not mean you will get more meets.

As has been said your profile is your little window of fab.

Look at your profile from a woman's point of view and think would I meet this person?

My opinion from your one picture and blurb is I would not meet you.

Be a bit imaginative with your profile and pictures to show your personality.

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By *ivingTheLife6365Couple
over a year ago

East Mids.


"Any advice would be welcome I’m a bit lost"

A profile photo with your tongue sticking out????

And a couple of lines simply saying what you want.

Do you think that will gain you attention?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

That picture just makes you look immature in my opinion. The text is generic that unimaginative men use on this site.

Sorry to be brutal but I'd be shocked if you get any meets at all.

Keep it as it is, improve it or even better go to a social or club and sell yourself in the flesh,as you're wasting your time until you do.

Good luck Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh if you messaged us it would be an instant block... not in a nasty way.

You have roughly 3/4 seconds to make an impression and get someone to look deeper than just your profile pick.

Look at yourself from the outside - right now if your current profile messaged you would you respond?

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great avatar and a status.

You'll get meets in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice would be welcome I’m a bit lost

A profile photo with your tongue sticking out????

And a couple of lines simply saying what you want.

Do you think that will gain you attention?"

Says the couple with no pictures

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By *ivingTheLife6365Couple
over a year ago

East Mids.


"Any advice would be welcome I’m a bit lost

A profile photo with your tongue sticking out????

And a couple of lines simply saying what you want.

Do you think that will gain you attention?

Says the couple with no pictures "

We aren't posting on here moaning that no one wants to meet us. There is the difference.

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