FabSwingers.com forum: Unicorns

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

"nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx"

I'm not actually a unicorn, but have been approached by couples.

#1 turnoffs

--fancy a fuck messages

--NO personality, messages could've been written by a robot

--man sends message, saying partner is up for x, y, z. No proof.

---woman sends message, and is boring as fuck

I am a straight woman, with no intention of meeting couples (however, women tend to be fluid in their sexuality, I'd consider meeting a couple if they interested me!).

SO--my advice is:

be friendly and personable, go for friendly first and leave sexual for later.

Some women DO like an upfront approach, but most I've known prefer the friendly start.

Take it slow and go from there.

Patience and good luck!

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Advice wrong place but good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never worked out what a unicorn is!!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I believe unicorns aren't that fond of being seen as a third wheel, think of what you can do for them and how you can enhance their experience not just about what they can do for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A decent profile would be a good start. One with pics of both of you together. And a good bio, as the one you have on now, with a pointless warning, tells me nothing about you.

Last but not least- you are looking for the rarest category on Fab, bisexual women who play with couples.

Good luck.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"A decent profile would be a good start. One with pics of both of you together. And a good bio, as the one you have on now, with a pointless warning, tells me nothing about you.

Last but not least- you are looking for the rarest category on Fab, bisexual women who play with couples.

Good luck. "

Agree with this. A much better profile that tells more about yourselves and what you can bring to the table for a meet, will increase your chances of finding a single bi woman.

A one line profile with a huge legal warning paragraph with 2 uninteresting pictures would not be very appealing, as it shows no effort to some people.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

"Never worked out what a unicorn is!! "

I do believe it is a new type of dildo. Think I seen one on lovehoney website or it may have been some other sex toy website.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Need to work on your profile.

That "Warning" is nonsense and achieves nothing but taking up space.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Thought I was a single fem ... unicorn mythical creature

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Apart from mythical creature, what is a unicorn in this context?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Never worked out what a unicorn is!!

I do believe it is a new type of dildo. Think I seen one on lovehoney website or it may have been some other sex toy website."

Cool i check it out thanks

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Never worked out what a unicorn is!!

I do believe it is a new type of dildo. Think I seen one on lovehoney website or it may have been some other sex toy website."

Just seen it... Erm i think i pass on it. Looks painful

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

"Never worked out what a unicorn is!!

I do believe it is a new type of dildo. Think I seen one on lovehoney website or it may have been some other sex toy website.

Just seen it... Erm i think i pass on it. Looks painful "

But you must admit that it looks interesting very different from the normal dildos. Maybe ok if you find one at a size you like hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A unicorn is a women looking for a couple xxx

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

They don't exist but couples do keep persevering....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A unicorn is a women looking for a couple xxx"

And most of them prefer not to be called unicorns.

I'm treating hubby to ffm in a few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being called a unicorn.

What I do not like is couples messaging:

I want to treat my boyfriend

Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa

I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me

We are soft swap.

The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift

I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A unicorn is a women looking for a couple xxx

And most of them prefer not to be called unicorns.

I'm treating hubby to ffm in a few weeks.

It's not treat in that sense. He's just looking forward to it. Agreed, everyone has to be involved.

We are actually quite lucky and have experienced ffm quite a few times

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"I like being called a unicorn.

What I do not like is couples messaging:

I want to treat my boyfriend

Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa

I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me

We are soft swap.

The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift

I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else."

Fully agreed to all above

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By *ee pandaWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I have played with couples and i am single xx

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx"

Don't call them unicorns for a start maybe? At least not to their faces.

You cant approach this sort of thing from your own personal desires prospective. You have to consider what she wants as well.

Firstly, if a woman is looking for a couple then more often than not she wants to play with the couple. Not one whilst the other watches. Secondly she's also not going to take kindly to be called "a treat" for someones husband or wife. It's as much about her pleasure as yours. Lastly, don't expect a woman to just fall into your lap. Single women on this site are bombarded with messages and get their pick of whoever they want. You need to stand out and catch her eye.

Personally for us, we've never met a single lady directly through messaging on the site. It's usually been via a party, club, large social event or just part of a couple we've met before playing solo (with permission of course) and then they got in touch through the site. We don't do 3somes often but are enjoying them more lately.

So...since you're so new to this, from a seasoned pair who've been at it all for 24 years, maybe change your profile a bit, make sure you read the profile of who you are messaging and try to stand out when you do message them based on whatever is in their profile and compatibility to what you two are into.

If that fails, got to a local social event, a club or a party. Do your research and see what your options are.

Plus...get properly verified. A lot of single women (at least with the ones we know) do not trust accounts that are only photo verified as photos can be faked and the site does have it's share of wannabe's, dreamers and catfishers. Pop on the webcams and get at least a cam verification and display it on your profile.

The more effort you put in, the greater your chances will be.

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

It’s a struggle on here your best bet is to go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard to achieve. Ladies to play with couples are in heavy demand and there are not many of them. Club will give you the best chance. We are looking...

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By *reativecouplederbyCouple
over a year ago

Derby

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By *reativecouplederbyCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"I like being called a unicorn.

What I do not like is couples messaging:

I want to treat my boyfriend

Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa

I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me

We are soft swap.

The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift

I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else."

Hi - we're a couple in Derby looking for a long term partner or playmate, we're ALL about equality of all kinds - would lvoe to chat either if you're interested or if you can help us meet like minded folk nearby?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx

Don't call them unicorns for a start maybe? At least not to their faces.

You cant approach this sort of thing from your own personal desires prospective. You have to consider what she wants as well.

If that fails, got to a local social event, a club or a party. Do your research and see what your options are.

The more effort you put in, the greater your chances will be.

I got shot down for having cam verifications. No idea why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully agree also...

A bi male could be a unicorn also?

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

All the 'unicorns' we have had, have come through vanilla life.

Our latest is with a girl my wife used to work with.

They kind of flirted with eachother. Used to go out dancing, driving and things went from there.

There must be someone close you'd both like to be with-she doesn't need to think your swingers either. Ours doesn't

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You often have better luck finding a couple where the woman plays alone as well, it’s very common , the women are often more into meets / sex than the guys. Get to know them well as a couple then male the offer

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Fully agree also...

A bi male could be a unicorn also?"

A dudicorn.

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

The whole "Unicorn" thing is a bit of a myth.

I think the first mistake you make is calling them that, sounds like a trophy hunt.

They are people, not something to be ticked off a list.

Go to any gathering of swingers, like an organised social, and most of the single ladies there will be bi, or curious.

We make friends, and sometimes we are lucky enough to play with our friends, and if it so happens that they are single, female, and bi, then that's great, but we don't label them.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

The word 'unicorn' is just a name. Call it what you want,ffb etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said a few times, clubs and organised socials will help a lot. I've no idea on the club scene in your area, but I'm sure you can search through. The other important point... what can you offer them in terms of fun. In my experience everyone is on here to enjoy themselves, not for your enjoyment only. There are lots of bi fems that enjoy playing with couples

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Agree with those that have said try socials & clubs. All couples I've played with I have met in this way or through mutual friends, as a single female I find it safer that way (or certainly less risky than meeting totally unknown people via this site) .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx"

If you find one, don't kill it whatever you do. It was nearly the end of Arthur.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I like being called a unicorn.

What I do not like is couples messaging:

I want to treat my boyfriend

Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa

I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me

We are soft swap.

The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift

I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else."

We are struggling to find a single female

definitely no treats here other than both of us wanting her.

In an ideal world we would want all 3 of us involved as much as the others.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Never worked out what a unicorn is!!

I do believe it is a new type of dildo. Think I seen one on lovehoney website or it may have been some other sex toy website."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really????

Wow....can’t understand why?if we see someone on cam it’s just as verified as someone we meet in person I think

Cguy

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Really????

Wow....can’t understand why?if we see someone on cam it’s just as verified as someone we meet in person I think

Cguy"

Nothing wrong with cam veris to help people get started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like being called a unicorn.

What I do not like is couples messaging:

I want to treat my boyfriend

Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa

I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me

We are soft swap.

The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift

I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else."

Yes!!!

I am sick of messages like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like being called a unicorn.

What I do not like is couples messaging:

I want to treat my boyfriend

Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa

I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me

We are soft swap.

The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift

I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else.

Yes!!!

I am sick of messages like this! "

See we are soft swap... But there will be no mr just watching... And definitely not a treat for him, as we both want to play... I was a unicorn on fab before meeting Mr, and the best 3somes I had were tactile, intimate, and focused on me as a unicorn... They were great. If we are lucky enough to meet a lady who wants to join Mr amd I, I want to make her feel appreciated, feel like the most important person in the room, where Mr and I both spoil her. Her pleasure. Having a laugh and a giggle along the way too would be fantastic.

CGirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do exist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like being called a unicorn.

What I do not like is couples messaging:

I want to treat my boyfriend

Will you just play with the mrs and mr watches or vice versa

I am bi-curious, no experience with women, will you teach me

We are soft swap.

The answer is no to all, I play with couples and my veris show this, but I expect all 3 if us to be equal and I am not a sex toy or a birthday gift

I am here for my pleasure just like everyone else.

Yes!!!

I am sick of messages like this!

CGirl "

I've been third many times. I've had a couple of difficult situations. The dynamic has to be right how could could anything sexual work if not. It's great to be able to have a Giggle and chill as well

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"nyone any advice for a couple new to this looking for a unicorn finding it hard any help would be great xxxx"

What do you define as a unicorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots bisexual women on here who will consider meeting a couple problem is there had to be a 3 way attraction which reduces the odds some what

Your age may also be an issue along side being new no one wants a drama to unfold

Keep chatting make sure you chat as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on the scene quite some time now and in all that time only managed to arrange 3 meets with unicorns. 2 where no shows.

So if you are here just to chase unicorns, good hunting but many are fake accounts, they are much sought after creatures & can pick n choose who they want to meet, and on top of all that are just as unreliable as anyone else here.

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Their a Mythical creature...

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By *ibble74Man
over a year ago

newtownabbey

Good luck!! When you find one please let us all know.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Good luck!! When you find one please let us all know."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop using the term unicorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the 'unicorns' we have had, have come through vanilla life.

Our latest is with a girl my wife used to work with.

They kind of flirted with eachother. Used to go out dancing, driving and things went from there.

There must be someone close you'd both like to be with-she doesn't need to think your swingers either. Ours doesn't"

Would she feel the same if she found out you are swingers but didn't tell her?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Bloody hate the term ... I’m a female for gods sake !!!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Bloody hate the term ... I’m a female for gods sake !!!"

I do find it interesting how different words annoy different people. I don’t mind being called a unicorn (I just don’t like unicorn hunters lol), but I loathe being called a female because I always think “female what?” as it can apply to any species. Woman is a perfectly good word!

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