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Is this the place for the less experienced?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not a virgin but I'm hardly a been there done that type either.

I've noticed it's fairly common for the women here to write on their profiles they want men with loads of experience.

Are there women here who aren't put off by that?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

It depends what you class as experience.

Does it mean many sexual partners/confidence in clubs/group sitiautions/certain fetishes.

There are many ways 'experience' can be taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends what you class as experience.

Does it mean many sexual partners/confidence in clubs/group sitiautions/certain fetishes.

There are many ways 'experience' can be taken "

That's true, I'm sure all those women have their own definition of that anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way to be is honest then people can make an informed decision dont sell yourself short. But be upfront about what you have done and what you might like to do in the future

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Think your find women will be put off by "I like teens" more anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is that really a turn of for someone who's barely 30 to still be interested in an 18 year old? Doesn't seem that shocking to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that really a turn of for someone who's barely 30 to still be interested in an 18 year old? Doesn't seem that shocking to me"

I like teens means I like teenagers which is essentially age 13 to 19. 16 - 19 legal ages. 18/19 is right at the end of the teenage years and marks the transition to adulthood.

Your not barely you are 30 years old so to say you like teens doesn't seem right to us.

Just an opinion.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a virgin but I'm hardly a been there done that type either.

I've noticed it's fairly common for the women here to write on their profiles they want men with loads of experience.

Are there women here who aren't put off by that?"
of course some want pure natural inexperienced enthusiasm keep plugging away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is that really a turn of for someone who's barely 30 to still be interested in an 18 year old? Doesn't seem that shocking to me

I like teens means I like teenagers which is essentially age 13 to 19. 16 - 19 legal ages. 18/19 is right at the end of the teenage years and marks the transition to adulthood.

Your not barely you are 30 years old so to say you like teens doesn't seem right to us.

Just an opinion.

KJ "

I'd have thought it was pretty obvious that 'teens' means 18 or 19 given the context of the site.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

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I wouldn't want someone inexperienced personally. What have you got to offer the other person? Your profile is all about what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want someone inexperienced personally. What have you got to offer the other person? Your profile is all about what you want. "
is yours not about what you want?

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

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"I wouldn't want someone inexperienced personally. What have you got to offer the other person? Your profile is all about what you want. is yours not about what you want? "

My profile is actively trying to put people off messaging me, not sure that's quite what the OP is looking for

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Is that really a turn of for someone who's barely 30 to still be interested in an 18 year old? Doesn't seem that shocking to me

I like teens means I like teenagers which is essentially age 13 to 19. 16 - 19 legal ages. 18/19 is right at the end of the teenage years and marks the transition to adulthood.

Your not barely you are 30 years old so to say you like teens doesn't seem right to us.

Just an opinion.

KJ "

This is how I read it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want someone inexperienced personally. What have you got to offer the other person? Your profile is all about what you want. is yours not about what you want?

My profile is actively trying to put people off messaging me, not sure that's quite what the OP is looking for "
so your answer is 'yes' lol as that is what you want

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

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"I wouldn't want someone inexperienced personally. What have you got to offer the other person? Your profile is all about what you want. is yours not about what you want?

My profile is actively trying to put people off messaging me, not sure that's quite what the OP is looking for so your answer is 'yes' lol as that is what you want "

Yes, but the OP wants messages, so he definitely shouldn't follow my example

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

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And I still get messages anyway. Because I'm female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want someone inexperienced personally. What have you got to offer the other person? Your profile is all about what you want. is yours not about what you want?

My profile is actively trying to put people off messaging me, not sure that's quite what the OP is looking for so your answer is 'yes' lol as that is what you want

Yes, but the OP wants messages, so he definitely shouldn't follow my example "
well true but he shouldn't follow my example either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that really a turn of for someone who's barely 30 to still be interested in an 18 year old? Doesn't seem that shocking to me

I like teens means I like teenagers which is essentially age 13 to 19. 16 - 19 legal ages. 18/19 is right at the end of the teenage years and marks the transition to adulthood.

Your not barely you are 30 years old so to say you like teens doesn't seem right to us.

Just an opinion.

KJ

This is how I read it as well"

Also how I read it and see it.

Seems wrong to me.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

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"I wouldn't want someone inexperienced personally. What have you got to offer the other person? Your profile is all about what you want. is yours not about what you want?

My profile is actively trying to put people off messaging me, not sure that's quite what the OP is looking for so your answer is 'yes' lol as that is what you want

Yes, but the OP wants messages, so he definitely shouldn't follow my example well true but he shouldn't follow my example either "

Yours is pretty funny

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Welcome to fab and the forum.

There are thousands of people here, with a huge range of diversity, including who and what they want. When you find someone who is clear that you aren't for them, be grateful and move along to the many others who want you.

Lots of experience doesn't necessarily make someone a better lover- they can master the art of being crap. The better lover is interested in you and motivated to satisfy you. If your mindset is right, you'll be great to spend time with.

We're all still exploring and learning. There are people with many years behind them, as well as partners and lots of sex, who can be ritualistic or formulaic, in how they have sex. It's tedious.

All sex is one moment at a time. As long as each moment you and your partners are enjoying each others company, whether trying something new or not, then the sex is good. All sides can help the others increase their enjoyment, usually by being open and communicating.

You're really new here and all single men take a long time to become established - it's worth ensuring that you don't blame yourself or supposed inexperience, when you likely find the same for you, to some extent.

Many of us do not want someone who is stale, has an inflated ego due to their self-assumed talents. All new partners are a new journey. Hop on board, now you have the ticket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure that everyone was inexperienced at some point in time and that experience is gained by engaging in an activity. Some people start early and other are late developers. This is the way of the world. You may find that you have experienced situations others have not.

The biggest thing is are you open to experience or are you just trying to get a quick leg over?

I was on here about 6 years ago and had a whale of a time by being honest and patient.

Have to say I agree with the teen comment thing. Looks a bit dodgy

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