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By *ongue2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dereham

Why is it so hard to meet, I get inundated by guys (as I'm bi) but never women or couples, any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women and couples are in the same boat as you - get inundated by men but never by women or couples. Hard init?

Mrs

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Advice... Improve your profile.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Women need tantalising. Intrigue and enticement.

Arty photos and a carefully crafted profile.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Women need tantalising. Intrigue and enticement.

Arty photos and a carefully crafted profile."
Advice on my profile would be much appreciated and a female to take pictures of me would be a great help to cheers have a lovely day

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Call me old fashion but I prefer the guy to find me rather than vice versa as I know men like to chase

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Call me old fashion but I prefer the guy to find me rather than vice versa as I know men like to chase"
Jas I think you will find your self well chased and by lots of studs , But it's always lovely to see a lady that has a opinion on what you like to chase to , Even if it's only coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ongue2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dereham

Thanks for all the advice so far

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

There’s nothing appealing about your profile.

Are you expecting women and couples to message you? You’ll have a long wait!

As someone else has mentioned for the most part women and couples will not initiate contact. I certainly don’t unless I stumble across an exceptional profile that ticks all my boxes and then some!

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By *inelovers mk2Couple
over a year ago

northampton

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By *ongue2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dereham

Just an update, no I'm not expecting couples and singles to message first, but possibly a reply would be good once in a while lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reading your profile, you aren’t saying what you could offer a woman, just what you won’t accept.

Try and think of it from the perspective of how someone else reads it.

Your veris are just two guys, so may not give women/couples an idea about you.

Try attending a club or social and talk to couples/women and see how it goes.

Good luck.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Just an update, no I'm not expecting couples and singles to message first, but possibly a reply would be good once in a while lol"

A lot will look at your profile before they open a message, if the profile does not capture their interest they will likely not even bother to read the message, so your profile is your main chance to sell yourself.

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Your profile tells me everything I need to know.

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By *ongue2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dereham

Right well thanks for that, I think that's enough "advice" for one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is not enticing at all. No hint of personality. Pics are uninspiring. Ladies aren’t so keen on a pair of scruffy jogging bottoms. You wouldn’t sell a car without giving it a wash and tidy up. It’s the same. Put some nice clothes on. Think about the background of the pic (it tells more about a person than you think). And redo the write up. Look at successful guys and see how they write their profiles. Plus lose the cock pic.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Go to the pub and have a beer... sorted

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By *aterinaWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Follow the rules. I automatically delete anyone who posts a phone number in first message. Read profile- don’t contact if you don’t fit. Ensure you have Veris - May have to visit a club to get verified by ladies before any will meet. Look for group meets .. great way to meet and get verified x

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By *ongue2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dereham

Thanks

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