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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm currently looking for a lady to meet my husband but run into problems with many ladies thinking I'm fake. We are photo verified and verified by meet as recently as thursday what more can I do?

Em x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Maybe he will have more luck on his single profile OP. Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe he will have more luck on his single profile OP. Good luck. X"

He has one we set up. But he is honest about it on there and people dont believe that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's just something they use as an excuse, for not meeting your husband... I find this tends to be the case with alot of this kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just something they use as an excuse, for not meeting your husband... I find this tends to be the case with alot of this kind of thing"

I did consider that. Just find it weird being accused of being fake

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By *heNerdyCyclistMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER


"Maybe he will have more luck on his single profile OP. Good luck. X"

I highly doubt that, tbh.

It's quite hard to be a single guy. A lot of profiles block single guys from contacting them.

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By *heNerdyCyclistMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

If i was you I would send single girls messages with photos of you two with a piece of paper with the girl's user name on there. It's important it's the two of you to assure the profile you aren't pretending to be a couple profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If i was you I would send single girls messages with photos of you two with a piece of paper with the girl's user name on there. It's important it's the two of you to assure the profile you aren't pretending to be a couple profile."

Will try that thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried this for A once...even with all of verifications...we still got called fake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tried this for A once...even with all of verifications...we still got called fake. "

It sucks we met 1 girl for Ashley for a social Wednesday luckily and she verified both our couples and his singles account but still get labelled as fake

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

Have you tried putting in messages that you as the lady of the couple perhaps be willing to speak on the phone to verify this? I would also suggest to remove his email address on your profile, as this may be viewed as a ‘red flag’.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've been asked by men to meet their girlfriends/wives and by women to meet their boyfriends/husbands. It makes us suspicious, why can't the person ask for themselves?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've been asked by men to meet their girlfriends/wives and by women to meet their boyfriends/husbands. It makes us suspicious, why can't the person ask for themselves?"

Ashley does ask as well but sometimes ladies prefer to hear it's ok from me

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Speaking for myself, I don’t like it when a couple profile messages me asking me to meet the man alone. The reason people assume you’re fake is that there are a lot of fake couple profiles where it’s really a man who thinks he’ll have more success that way than on a solo male profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Speaking for myself, I don’t like it when a couple profile messages me asking me to meet the man alone. The reason people assume you’re fake is that there are a lot of fake couple profiles where it’s really a man who thinks he’ll have more success that way than on a solo male profile."

Leaving him to try on his single profile for now

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By * Your PleasureMan
over a year ago

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Plenty of fakes on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont think fake is right word there is alot of chancers

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Part of a married couple here ...my take on things

Over the years I've always done my own looking and chatting (if the lady I'm chatting to wants to chat n check with wife then that's not a problem) ..never once has the good lady wife done the chatting for me .. however 1 thing of note tho ..a lot of ladies can feel uncomfortable getting involved with a married man even with wife's knowledge so will tend to stick to single guys not all mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly the fakes on here spoil it for genuine people like yourselves.

You can’t do much more to prove who you are, just a matter of preserving and the right people will come along.

Good luck to you both. Fab can be challenging at times.

Miss V x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Speaking for myself, I don’t like it when a couple profile messages me asking me to meet the man alone. The reason people assume you’re fake is that there are a lot of fake couple profiles where it’s really a man who thinks he’ll have more success that way than on a solo male profile.

Leaving him to try on his single profile for now"

Perhaps reference your couples profile on his single profile and vice versa, that may help too. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I dont think fake is right word there is alot of chancers "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is doable, I've seen it happen. Not a clue how? Be patient best of luck to you

That's not helping is it? Sorry

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Good luck to you both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck to you both x"
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been asked by men to meet their girlfriends/wives and by women to meet their boyfriends/husbands. It makes us suspicious, why can't the person ask for themselves?"

Surprise perhaps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently looking for a lady to meet my husband but run into problems with many ladies thinking I'm fake. We are photo verified and verified by meet as recently as thursday what more can I do?

Em x"
i think its best he looks for himself any clues to what she looks like and where he last saw her?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe he will have more luck on his single profile OP. Good luck. X

I highly doubt that, tbh.

It's quite hard to be a single guy. A lot of profiles block single guys from contacting them. "

Good point.

Effectively the OPs partner's meeting as a single male which is hard enough as it is, him having a partner who approves of him meeting alone doesn't make the single male 'offer' any more attractive.

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston


"Maybe he will have more luck on his single profile OP. Good luck. X

I highly doubt that, tbh.

It's quite hard to be a single guy. A lot of profiles block single guys from contacting them.

Good point.

Effectively the OPs partner's meeting as a single male which is hard enough as it is, him having a partner who approves of him meeting alone doesn't make the single male 'offer' any more attractive."

My wife is a good woman. I can tell you it it definitely hard being on a singles profile

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