FabSwingers.com forum: Bi woman looking for a Bi women

By *ummingbirdGreen OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Jack can easily get another guy for fun. Yet, I am struggling to get many other women.

I have played with one or two, but on the whole guys just seem easier!

Specifically, I am struggling to find women to play with alone. PLENTY of couples who want to watch me and a woman, but I just want woman-on-woman for now.

What can I be doing differently?

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By *urhamgurlWoman
over a year ago

Durham

You sound great to me so maybe just be patient and the right woman will come along. For me the smoking photo is a turn off but I’m sure there are still some smokers around.

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Think the majority of fab are in the same situation hun, amongst the fakers and Time wasters single fems seem hard to come by xx

Stick with it and I'm sure you will be lucky in the end

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By *ummingbirdGreen OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I can't tell you how reassuring your responses are, even though they both amount to little more than "wait."

Some people have said that the fact my 1 verification is from a man disputes my stated desire to only find a woman. Yet, can't people change what they want? Especially based on whether or not their previous experiences satisfied them?!

Sorry, I'm ranting!

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

Hi I am bi female too ??

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By *ummingbirdGreen OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Hi I am bi female too ??"

Feel free to message me, if you want F-F fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't tell you how reassuring your responses are, even though they both amount to little more than "wait."

Sorry, I'm ranting!

Erm...are you saying the man who's verification you're displaying didn't satisfy you?

Mrs

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"I can't tell you how reassuring your responses are, even though they both amount to little more than "wait."

Sorry, I'm ranting!

If you are bisexual why shouldn’t you have verifications from both?! People say the strangest things sometimes!

I’m in the same boat as you though - definitely not alone. Xx

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By *ntraditionalwomanWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

id love one to one with a women..so hard to find

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By *ummingbirdGreen OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Erm...are you saying the man who's verification you're displaying didn't satisfy you?

Mrs"

I'm not sure why you're asking.

It satisfied me at the time. However, I am now looking for something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found it hard to meet women solo and many others have, and posted on here about it. There was a suggestion to set up a north west social for women looking to meet women but I don’t think it went anywhere. Maybe you could organise one OP?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Try mainly meeting daytimes and also looking for a single bi lady on here.... now that's really a quandry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all just wondering if there’s any bi ladies In the north west fancy chatting and seeing how things go, maybe meet for drinks? X

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Hey all, bi girl over here too

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By *nya888Woman
over a year ago

London

It can be hard to know how to approach women on here. Sometimes I'm unsure if the women messaging me are real, or guys posing. If the messages seem a bit off or the person is aggressive, I tend to assume it's a man using a woman's account. Even if there are pictures.

Other times it comes up after initial conversation that the woman actually wants me to join her in a mff with her partner. But she is using a single woman profile..

I only use my couple's profile if we are looking for a mff, just to not confuse the message.

Instead I've joined a women only club.. and had some lovely meets and play time with pther bi females (pre pandemic)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet women to play - so a very small section of the swinging cohort, but the ones we have been lucky enough to meet odd here have been brilliant and lovely people.

Lots chasing a few - just takes time to find the right person to join/suit your dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many lovely ladies but all so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try searching in North Wales- literally impossible!

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By *assionatelySoWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've found it really difficult to meet anyone that genuinely wants a female only meet. I've spoken to women, have met a couple for socials but either they want their partner involved or have just disappeared without saying anything.

I'm not awful looking, can hold a conversation but still no luck! I'll just keep trying I guess but it's good to see that others have found it tricky too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a separate page for bi sexual /bi curious maybe have a 2nd account?

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Hello I’ve been on here for a good few months and hve not had much luck in finding women interested in FF meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am finding it exactly the same.

Can meet guys easily. Couples are a plenty but women, impossible. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy FF your right it’s difficult to find that one special F to join for solo fun !!! Took me 3 years to find f !!! Still on the look to explore more it’s been difficult to find again !!!! Why is all the lovely available F so far away xxx

Mrs S

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By *iteCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I am looking too ladies and finding similar issues unfortunately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single bi female and I'd love to meet with just another woman but I never receive messages from women looking to meet. I only ever get approached by guys and couples.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

My wife struggled on fab but found a woman who isn't a swinger to meet occasionally for sex 1 on 1 they are alternatives to fab depends if you want something regular or lots of one off meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only just starting to explore my bi side so unsure where to start really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a solo profile but found it absolutely impossible to get beyond the messaging stage with other females.

At times it seemed promising then came the usual “My boyfriend/husband would love to watch”

Always a deal breaker.

Add into the mix time wasters, fake profiles and pure fantasists and it just wasn’t worth keeping the profile going.

Who knew it would be so difficult?

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

Evening everyone x

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Have say it’s interesting seeing women struggling as much as single guys do on here.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It isn't easy to meet like minded ladies for one to one.

I have met a couple and look forward to a social with another lady in the (hopefully) not too distant future.

Most single ladies profiles are looking for men and those in couples usually want to meet as a couple.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Some couples are OK with the lady going off with another lady by themselves. We're fine with that. I (Luke) don't feel any need muscle in on a situation where the vibe is a girl-girl thing. I'm not offended by that at all - in fact I find it very sexy when Hannah has been with another woman with my full knowledge and consent.

The difficulty with all these things is so often distance between the ladies who are seeking each other.

In our situation the added difficulty is that Fab is not a place Hannah feels particularly comfortable starting up a conversation. Usually I have talked to somebody for a while and when I think Hannah would really get on with them then I'd bring the conversation to her attention.

If any ladies like Hannah you are welcome to try to start a conversation, and it wouldn't be a ploy to turn it into a threesome, but it is difficult to get her chatting on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jack can easily get another guy for fun. Yet, I am struggling to get many other women.

I have played with one or two, but on the whole guys just seem easier!

Specifically, I am struggling to find women to play with alone. PLENTY of couples who want to watch me and a woman, but I just want woman-on-woman for now.

What can I be doing differently? "

You might want to edit your profile. It seems very geared to attracting males. I am not sure there is anything there to attract a female with an interest in other female.

Good luck finding what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that finding ladies is much harder than finding men.

My bi bf can get a guy at the drop of a hat, but finding a lady for just myself is much more difficult.

The bf also has the option of fabguys.

Is it about time there was a fabgirls? X

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I agree that finding ladies is much harder than finding men.

My bi bf can get a guy at the drop of a hat, but finding a lady for just myself is much more difficult.

The bf also has the option of fabguys.

Is it about time there was a fabgirls? X"

I don't know if the demand of women seeking women would be enough to entice somebody to create a version of Grindr for females, but it would be good if they did. There are things like Tinder which allows women to look for women. That might be worth a look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dreaming of the day the clubs open back up. easiest way for a bit of girl girl

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss

"Dreaming of the day the clubs open back up. easiest way for a bit of girl girl

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we agree ?? lol

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By *rish CougarWoman
over a year ago

Bray

Its very hard to find genuine bi fems in Ireland

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Some couples are OK with the lady going off with another lady by themselves. We're fine with that. I (Luke) don't feel any need muscle in on a situation where the vibe is a girl-girl thing. I'm not offended by that at all - in fact I find it very sexy when Hannah has been with another woman with my full knowledge and consent.

The difficulty with all these things is so often distance between the ladies who are seeking each other.

If any ladies like Hannah you are welcome to try to start a conversation, and it wouldn't be a ploy to turn it into a threesome, but it is difficult to get her chatting on here. "

That

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By *iscoveredWoman
over a year ago

South East

Same here I find it's been impossible to find a woman for a one to one, let alone find an attractive one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same here I find it's been impossible to find a woman for a one to one, let alone find an attractive one!"

With you that one! Don’t know why it’s so difficult xx

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By *rankyandbennyCouple
over a year ago

Belgium

impossible task where I am, so gave up quite some time ago

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

I’ve looked for 1 on 1 girly fun on many occasion when Mr has been working away (with his knowledge obviously). However, not even received a single message or reply when I’ve been looking. So I know exactly how frustrating and disheartening it can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve looked for 1 on 1 girly fun on many occasion when Mr has been working away (with his knowledge obviously). However, not even received a single message or reply when I’ve been looking. So I know exactly how frustrating and disheartening it can be."

Just had a quick peek at your pics. If you’ve got problems finding a lady for fun then I’ve no chance

Seriously hot pics

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By *ull_on_4_funCouple
over a year ago

Town Centre

My wife wants a local ish woman to play with. One who can accom, doesn't smoke and has no man pulling strings. My involvement ends when I give over her phone number. I don't need to watch or play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello,

Same here its a struggle finding a local genuine female- any ladies in Greater Manchester, here i am

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By *horley GirlWoman
over a year ago

Local-ish

We do exist

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

The difficulty with all these things is so often distance between the ladies who are seeking each other.

If any ladies like Hannah you are welcome to try to start a conversation, and it wouldn't be a ploy to turn it into a threesome, but it is difficult to get her chatting on here. "
we too are ok for our Hannah to meet single ladies alone, and like the gent said, would find it quite arousing imagining what they'd be getting up to. But find it difficult to find ladies who'd be happy to meet. I've no need to be there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do exist

Your not far from me

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

All our bi woman meets have been at clubs! Probably not helpful right now. I think it’s because the lady in question can see our dynamic and relationship and see that we’re both ok with it.

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By *ishygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"You sound great to me so maybe just be patient and the right woman will come along. For me the smoking photo is a turn off but I’m sure there are still some smokers around. "

I’m inclined to agree.

I could be completely wrong here but there doesn’t “seem” to be as many women looking for women, more couples looking for a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a fair few of us out there.

The tricky part iv found is It often starts as a woman contacting me and we have a chat and possibly arrange to meet. Then all of a sudden a boyfriend or husband is mentioned. They usually say oh he will only watch.

I have met a fair few women from this site and others but I find it's easier at clubs and parties because you don't have to sift through the time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife wants a local ish woman to play with. One who can accom, doesn't smoke and has no man pulling strings. My involvement ends when I give over her phone number. I don't need to watch or play."

So if you give over her phone number that suggests that you make the initial contact.

That would put me right off to be honest.

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"My wife wants a local ish woman to play with. One who can accom, doesn't smoke and has no man pulling strings. My involvement ends when I give over her phone number. I don't need to watch or play.

So if you give over her phone number that suggests that you make the initial contact.

That would put me right off to be honest. "

Same, I'm not interested in starting up chat with a fella. I'm in a couple but want to meet a lady just on my own (obviously only in a covid safe way for now). If there is anyone out there interested after viewing my profile, just drop me a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife wants a local ish woman to play with. One who can accom, doesn't smoke and has no man pulling strings. My involvement ends when I give over her phone number. I don't need to watch or play.

So if you give over her phone number that suggests that you make the initial contact.

That would put me right off to be honest.

Personally I would say to all couples that if one person wants to meet on there own it might Work better if you had a singles profile just to meet women.

The reason I say that is it can be so hard to know if you're talking to the woman or the man.

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"My wife wants a local ish woman to play with. One who can accom, doesn't smoke and has no man pulling strings. My involvement ends when I give over her phone number. I don't need to watch or play.

So if you give over her phone number that suggests that you make the initial contact.

That would put me right off to be honest.

Personally I would say to all couples that if one person wants to meet on there own it might Work better if you had a singles profile just to meet women.

The reason I say that is it can be so hard to know if you're talking to the woman or the man.

This is very true, but like it says in our profile I do all the talking and I'll often sign it off as me in the forums (unless I forget!)

I've been toying with the idea of getting a single female profile xxher

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

Bi female here x

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By *orneycouple18Couple
over a year ago

Eastleigh

Let us know if you find a women for 121 fun, been looking for a while with no luck! It’s the hardest thing to find I’m sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in the same boat. I'm able to meet alone and have set up a single profile just for that but it is proving rather difficult to find someone.

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