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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey,

It would seem that I need to meet with someone on here to get verified but nobody wants to meet as I’m not verified! Any help/ideas?

Shall I just delete my profile and start again as I don’t seam to be getting anywhere.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Best possible advice is that you go to a club. The manager will verify you most times (if you behave.) Also, you will get a chance to chat with lifestyle folks who may also verify you as a real human being.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best possible advice is that you go to a club. The manager will verify you most times (if you behave.) Also, you will get a chance to chat with lifestyle folks who may also verify you as a real human being. "

Thanks, it’s just frustrating to start off with as I can see loads of likeminded people that I’d love to meet up with!

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Best possible advice is that you go to a club. The manager will verify you most times (if you behave.) Also, you will get a chance to chat with lifestyle folks who may also verify you as a real human being.

Thanks, it’s just frustrating to start off with as I can see loads of likeminded people that I’d love to meet up with!"

Just have to pay your dues. Too many single guys join the site for a good wank but have no courage or willingness to put out the effort. Hence, most "real" swingers on here ignore single males with no verifications. (Also, video chat verifications don't count to lots of folks.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Clubs and socials are the way to go OP. Good luck. X

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport

Also, maybe look for organised socials in your area or purely concentrate on having a social meet with a lady or couple.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

How will deleting your profile improve the situation? You’d be a newbie and less likely to get meets.

A veri is not the magic ticket that some guys think. Maybe you need to look elsewhere at why you can’t get meets. Do you think you’re selling yourself well for starters. attending clubs and socials will help get you known.

If you’re desperate for a veri try the cam rooms. But lots of people don’t regard a cam veri as an indication as to whether a guy is genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cannot accommodate and have a female in your pictures. Is that a partner? Whoever she is, does she know you're using pictures of her on an adult site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The only reason I can’t accommodate is my residence is also my business

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your help

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Why don't you go to a swingers club? You'll get verified that way and also meet some nice people.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Why don't you go to a swingers club? You'll get verified that way and also meet some nice people. "
this ... Your not far from the Attic.. LC or purple mamba

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Veris aren’t a magic bullet. There are plenty of women who will meet with unverified men. All of us were unverified at some point and yet many of us have met with women who were willing to take the risk. Having a genuine profile and writing respectful and honest messages will see you through. You haven’t asked for profile advice, so I can’t give it, but I would seriously suggest that that is hindering you more than your lack of veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm brand New to all of this, it's been something I have wanted to do for a while and I thought new start of the year try something new, I'm a cockney living in Bridgend Wales.

I'm looking for Clubs and pubs to go too that will go easy on me as a newbie ???????

I'm going to Newport Chams soon, I was looking at dogging also, if anyone could recommend pubs and places to go that would be very helpful

Thanks in advance

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Why don't you go to a swingers club? You'll get verified that way and also meet some nice people. this ... Your not far from the Attic.. LC or purple mamba"

and PM are doing a single guys workshop tonight...

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"I'm brand New to all of this, it's been something I have wanted to do for a while and I thought new start of the year try something new, I'm a cockney living in Bridgend Wales.

I'm looking for Clubs and pubs to go too that will go easy on me as a newbie ???????

I'm going to Newport Chams soon, I was looking at dogging also, if anyone could recommend pubs and places to go that would be very helpful

Thanks in advance "

Please don’t hijack someone else’s thread. Start your own.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"You haven’t asked for profile advice, so I can’t give it"

Keep seeing this but it's not true. As long as it's relevant to the post you can.

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By *itsAndTangentsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I know it's not a full verification as such but you could also go into the cam rooms and pick up a verification in there?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You haven’t asked for profile advice, so I can’t give it

Keep seeing this but it's not true. As long as it's relevant to the post you can."

"Hey,

It would seem that I need to meet with someone on here to get verified but nobody wants to meet as I’m not verified! Any help/ideas?

Shall I just delete my profile and start again as I don’t seam to be getting anywhere." This was the original post, I didn't think it was relevant in this particular one and didn't want to break any rules.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"You haven’t asked for profile advice, so I can’t give it

Keep seeing this but it's not true. As long as it's relevant to the post you can.

"Hey,

It would seem that I need to meet with someone on here to get verified but nobody wants to meet as I’m not verified! Any help/ideas?

Shall I just delete my profile and start again as I don’t seam to be getting anywhere." This was the original post, I didn't think it was relevant in this particular one and didn't want to break any rules. "

I thought

"nobody wants to meet as I’m not verified!"

And

"I don’t seam to be getting anywhere."

Made it relevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you get a veri the next thing is to hope they don’t leave Fab. I had a really good veri but they left and it ceased to show on my list. I still have the 2 verifications but only one shows.

Not that they are the be all and end all. I don’t ask the people I meet at clubs if they’re on Fab.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish


"Hey,

It would seem that I need to meet with someone on here to get verified but nobody wants to meet as I’m not verified! Any help/ideas?

Shall I just delete my profile and start again as I don’t seam to be getting anywhere."

Hi OP.

Not sure deleting your account and starting again will do very much. It will just put you with all the others "Left but couldn't stay away people"

Totally understand your predicament of not being 'meet'verified and of course we all had to start somewhere.

As pointed out above you will either have to go to a party or a Club and hope you will get verified by someone or just keep hanging in there.

You see, the site unfortunately is not what it was. Amongst all the genuine people here there are 100 x more fakes, picture collectors and those that love the thrill of the chase and have no intention to meet.

So most people that won't meet those that are not verified by meeting others, usually have been let down so many times in the past they have taken that stance

Perhaps drop some of those Cockshots might help. 7 out of 8 pictures of a Cock, does that really portray you ?

Maybe put up a sample message on this forum of the typical message you might send, maybe it is what you are saying doesnt help your cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey,

It would seem that I need to meet with someone on here to get verified but nobody wants to meet as I’m not verified! Any help/ideas?

Shall I just delete my profile and start again as I don’t seam to be getting anywhere."
be patient

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