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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try to construct well thought messages after reading profiles but don't get any response.

This is why I left last time.. No matter what you try/say no one will talk. Atleast that's what I find.

I know my username is numbers but I won't pay for a site that I don't get conversation on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to all of us.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Only one photo, short,bland bio. You need to sell yourself...

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Confusing location maybe? North Bristol and Chepstow are not the same place.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Terrible username, change it.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

OP ,emphasising discretion twice on your profile indicates rightly or wrongly that you are married and safe sex is not one of your "interests" . These may have something to do with reducing the pool size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whinging definitely won’t help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all.

Location is twice because I'm between both.

Discretion is twice due to my work.

Username is like it is because I've given up with paying for fab when I don't even get conversations.

Completely missed the safe sex option.. It is my interest so I've changed it.

Simply asking for constructive feedback so thank you to those who provided.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Am 7 months & nothing

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Am 7 months & nothing "

Your descroption is 7 words, what on earth do you expect to get!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there I kinda see your problem as it's very hard as a single guy.

When my wife was alive we had a couples profile on a different site but got 100s of messages every day from men and women and coupled all wanting to play and the amount of women and couples that would ask me if I would play alone surprised me my wife got most of the attention as was expected she was beautiful how ever I had my fair share.

It was a shock to the system to join on as a single and get little to no messages or replays when I messaged. It is hard as a single guy to get noticed because of many reason women and couples are spoilt for choice on here limited messages mean they cant reply to everyone and also some women and couples are very picky.

I'm sure you will find someone and gave some fun god knows I'd like some but keep tour chin up it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here 3 years (with breaks) and only met 5 people. That's after spending some time personalizing my profile to portray at least a tiny part of my personality and messaging probably 100s...

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