FabSwingers.com forum: ???????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are probably like 50 men per woman in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there are so many of you.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

¿Be unique?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are probably like 50 men per woman in here."

400 to 1more like

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

They are all meeting me. Sorry!

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Try Tinder.

I did and I found Ess. Found out we had both swung before. Bingo

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

*Mr Krabs plays worlds smallest violin*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are probably like 50 men per woman in here.

400 to 1more like

Didn't know it was that bad

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"They are all meeting me. Sorry! "

Room or another..I'll just take a ticket

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"*Mr Krabs plays worlds smallest violin*"

https://youtu.be/0lzqRVuRqN0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't that hard.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"*Mr Krabs plays worlds smallest violin*"

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

It takes time for guys on here so be patient. Also remember that most women browse in stealth mode so you’re most likely getting a skewed result from your “who’s looked at me” tally.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"They are all meeting me. Sorry!

Room or another..I'll just take a ticket

Is there a queue?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

More men than women. Most men don't put in effort

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Don’t know what the problem is OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a women’s world

And I’m more then happy about that

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Yeah, us women have it easy.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"They are all meeting me. Sorry!

Room or another..I'll just take a ticket

Is there a queue?"

sounds like there well could be

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"They are all meeting me. Sorry!

Room or another..I'll just take a ticket

Is there a queue?

sounds like there well could be

Fab straight ??

. Queue getting longer

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"They are all meeting me. Sorry!

Room or another..I'll just take a ticket

Is there a queue?

sounds like there well could be

Oh good, I'll wait right here.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"They are all meeting me. Sorry!

Room or another..I'll just take a ticket

Is there a queue?

sounds like there well could be

Oh good, I'll wait right here.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

If you don't train you can't expect to win the race, besides did you think you would just sign up and be inundated with horny housewifes with husbands that are to busy with golf to sexual satisfy their sex hungry wives.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

"*Mr Krabs plays worlds smallest violin*

https://youtu.be/0lzqRVuRqN0"

Beautiful

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"They are all meeting me. Sorry! "

I'm glad you like sloppy seconds

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"They are all meeting me. Sorry!

Room or another..I'll just take a ticket

Is there a queue?

sounds like there well could be

Oh good, I'll wait right here.

Great...I'll budge up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here 8 weeks OP.

What were your ecpectations of the site?

Did you think that all you need do was type a couple of lines of text and upload a couple of pics and be srowning in offers by lunchtime?

Instashag this is not.

Men massively outnumber women and couples on here. Depending on who you talk to it ranges from bewtween 50 and 500 to 1, so yes, the women can afford to be extremely choosy.

Most sungle guys wait around 6 months before getting their first meet. Some fair better, others not so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem. The reason about the verification is to identify who you are. The best way to get verified is through an arranged meet or venue which you can search for on the Fab site. A number of women will do a social non sexual meet, a get to know you meet, which can be either at a club or another location. Just remember to untick the categories that you aren’t interested in. Most want to meet at a club or other venue for a sexual meet. If you choose to go to a club venue, which isn’t for everyone, the first time is just looking round and chatting to people and you get a lot of people from fab on there who will happily verify you. There is also coffee meets, which are harder to get, but sometimes happen. You can get verified that way. Good luck in getting verified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Again definitely not I’m not even fussed about a sexual meet it’s not all about sex it’s about experience and exploration for me.. i am fairly new yes I’m here at the reference of a friend

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf "

Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.

Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf

Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.

Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand. "

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf

Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.

Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand. "

Think most women can accommodate a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are all meeting me. Sorry! "

All???

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By *ushy 99Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

"Why is it difficult for straight men on here ??????? Women get a right pick of the bunch and all I seem to be getting is men at me, don’t mind the attention but where is the girls at ?? I need verifying ??"

Stand out from the rest bro.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf

Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.

Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand.

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards. "

Definitely, I agree. But he doesn't seem to get that everyone else will want that as well, so they won't be rushing to meet him.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"Definitely not women are more picky than men and everyone has a preference I signed up at the reference of a friend to see what it’s like I’m fairly new tbf

Women are more picky than men... says the guy looking for an 18-28 year old woman who can accommodate.

Not saying you shouldn't, but you need to get some perspective and realise that what you want will be in very high demand.

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.

Definitely, I agree. But he doesn't seem to get that everyone else will want that as well, so they won't be rushing to meet him. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you *need* verifying?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe sound more interested in the woman your wanting to meet rather than just desperate for a verification

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

It’s all about the other app he is promoting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow women are selective on here! I am surprised that's allowed.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Try not having a sense of entitlement. Chill.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth mode??? Didn’t know about that one!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I must apologise OP it would seem that I have cornered the market in this area!

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Try not having a sense of entitlement. Chill..... "

Exactly this, I hear the types of opening messages ladies receive from guys and it's just plain to see why they struggle to get a meet.

Women on here aren't prices of meat for our enjoyment, soooo much lack of respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have the pick of the bunch ???

I would rather say it would depend if the ‘bunch’ were attractive to you - surely?

What utter nonsense

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

" I need verifying ??"

A verification isn't the golden ticket that people (without one) seem to think it is. There are too many fakes ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my way, OP!!

Hang on. You cannot accommodate.

Damn.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards. "

So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Be careful not to sound whiney and entitled...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zzzzzzz its not its piss easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.

So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......"

Not our original comment, but you'd shag a 98 year old would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is your perception of it honestly, us women do not have pick of the bunch at all. I

It isn't Lidls, Men are not bananas...

It can be hard work for any gender to find decent people to meet with.

Just stick around, be respectful and be patient

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.

So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......

Not our original comment, but you'd shag a 98 year old would you?

I doubt it very much but the nowhere do we say we would shag anyone that contacts us either but the message button still shows on our profile and allows anyone to contact us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is your perception of it honestly, us women do not have pick of the bunch at all. I

It isn't Lidls, Men are not bananas...

It can be hard work for any gender to find decent people to meet with.

Just stick around, be respectful and be patient

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.

So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......"

Yeah, 18-99 suggests (to me) that you don’t give a fuck who you meet and literally anyone will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.

So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......

Yeah, 18-99 suggests (to me) that you don’t give a fuck who you meet and literally anyone will do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.

So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......

Not our original comment, but you'd shag a 98 year old would you?

I doubt it very much but the nowhere do we say we would shag anyone that contacts us either but the message button still shows on our profile and allows anyone to contact us."

So why leave it at 18-99 then?

No one outside our age range can contact us, so you're inviting everyone in and saying message us, obviously it's your choice but if that's something we see, it makes us think twice about messaging.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

So why leave it at 18-99 then?

Because we are not hung up on age.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I’d say that’s better than guys who have 18-99. Least it shows he has some standards.

So people with 18-99 have no standards? What a complete crock ......

Yeah, 18-99 suggests (to me) that you don’t give a fuck who you meet and literally anyone will do. "

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By *artyanna16TV/TS
over a year ago

seacroft

Pertinent !!

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By *artyanna16TV/TS
over a year ago

seacroft

Im listening intently , but all i can hear is meeeeow meeeow meeow meeow meeeow!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

The 'pick of the bunch' is like finding a needle in a haystack. It isn't necessarily easier for women here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my way, OP!!

Hang on. You cannot accommodate.

Damn."

This and his chosen username suggest he is on this site hoping to cheat on his partner so those factors will put a lot of potential women off.

If you are cheating by been on here then at least be fair and explain that upfront in your profile so potential meets can make an informed choice.

If you are genuinely single then explain why you can't accommodate e.g house share, live with parents etc. Also maybe change your username aswell.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

You really need to oust some effort in fella. And that starts with your profile.

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By *artyanna16TV/TS
over a year ago

seacroft

I like having unacceptably low standards, it helps keep the choosey fuckers away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of advice OP..... women read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t help mate I get more men look and offer me sex or blow jobs than women

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By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago

some where near shropshire

you joined 8 weeks ago ! No profile really mòre men than ladies and you sound a bit cocky sorry just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To start with it can be hard to get a reply as your fighting against a full inbox of "fancy a fuck" and "Meet now" messages. Stand out from the crowd! Everyone is looking for something different just have to keep searching and putting the effort in and im sure your efforts won't be in vain. Goodluck OP

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Just give up and get yourself to Wetherspoons. You probably stand more chance in there to be honest.

Your Profile is Crap. You look like a Chav and there are 1 Zillion Gazzilion Guys to choose from on here who are offering so much more than you.

Sorry. Just saying what a lot of people are thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just give up and get yourself to Wetherspoons. You probably stand more chance in there to be honest.

Your Profile is Crap. You look like a Chav and there are 1 Zillion Gazzilion Guys to choose from on here who are offering so much more than you.

Sorry. Just saying what a lot of people are thinking "

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are probably like 50 men per woman in here.

400 to 1more like

Seems more realistic

OP, you've only been here 9 weeks - which is nothing.

Most guys wait 6 months to a year before getting their first meet.

Some do fair better, some worse.

Have patience.

Be realistic about your expectations of the site.

This is not instashag.

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