FabSwingers.com forum: Notts bicurious lady

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m Completely new to this, my BF and I would like a 3 Som but as Iv never been With a woman before my BF suggested why don’t i on my own a few times have a one to one with a lady... boost my confidence. Then when I’m ready we look for the right person to join us for a 3som.

I’m so nervous, but I know I’ll be fine and enjoy it as it’s something Iv wanted to do for years. I’m really attracted to woman, probably more than a man lol.

Does anyone have any tips or experiences to share with me. Thanks x

By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Lou was in the same situation, it's something she's always wanted to try but until we got together she never felt able to.

If you want to ask her anything just drop her a message and she'll happily chat to you, just to share her apprehensions, thoughts and her experiences and what we found the best way for her to approach the situation

One key is component is discuss EVERYTHING with your partner and set ground rules of what's allowed and not allowed although this is your fantasy and journey your partner needs to be fully onboard with it as playing is not the main focus of your relationship it's just an added bonus x

Ray