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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " Ever thought of getting a proof reader before you post? ![]() | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. Ever thought of getting a proof reader before you post? ![]() It's an unfortunate consequence of typing with the left hand whilst the right is otherwise occupied! ![]() | |||
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"Pick me, pick me. " I’ll pick u, now reply to me, wench ![]() | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " This just sounds like someone who wants to abuse a woman rather than being Dom | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " Jesus christ! ![]() | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " Form an orderly queue ladies. This man wants to "dose your pusay" lol, who could resist ![]() | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. Ever thought of getting a proof reader before you post? ![]() My comedy obsessed brain read this as poof reader, which would have been the perfect joke on so many levels.... | |||
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"Never knew swingers could set themselves on such a moral high horse. Lol " I'm not sure what you mean? Do swingers not have morals then? | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here " There is absolutely nothing related to BDSM in the original post. Not one iota. Anyone who thinks otherwise is sadly miss-informed. | |||
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"Well that's a question for them. " No it's a question for you based on your post | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here There is absolutely nothing related to BDSM in the original post. Not one iota. Anyone who thinks otherwise is sadly miss-informed." Ir has watched Pascal's subsluts and confused that for BDSM | |||
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"I think you will find that it is. " Err..no. A BDSM relationship is built on trust and communication. There is none in the original post. | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here There is absolutely nothing related to BDSM in the original post. Not one iota. Anyone who thinks otherwise is sadly miss-informed." Or has been influenced by the same porn as the OP. Or read 50 Shades ![]() | |||
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"I think you will find that it is. " Sadly deluded. And this sort of attitude is prevalent both on swinging and BDSM sites. Dim-doms are everywhere. | |||
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"If you are seeking trust from a post then I don't think you are looking in a right place Bondage Domination Sadism and masochism all have over lapping areas and some prefer more individual to others. It may not be for you but just as people do to swingers don't belittle it. " Are you referring to the OP? | |||
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"The activities mentioned can form part of a BDSM relationship, but only after communication, respect and trust have been built, with limits agreed upon. Jumping in with two feet, without establishing the above is tantamount to abuse and is endemic of those who don’t have a true understanding of BDSM. " Exactly this. | |||
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"The activities mentioned can form part of a BDSM relationship, but only after communication, respect and trust have been built, with limits agreed upon. Jumping in with two feet, without establishing the above is tantamount to abuse and is endemic of those who don’t have a true understanding of BDSM. " I agree. However, the OP stated nothing about a relationship. Obviously due to the wants of the OP, one would hope, even in play/prior to play, communication occurs and the setting of boundaries. | |||
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"Agree with you somewhat however an open post on bdsm is an advert. I'd like to think the guy would discuss all these important points in pms as swingers would really get to know their play partners through private messaging I do believe he has sent a post to see if it tickles anyone's fantasy he hasn't implied it to anyone specifically so there for is an open ended invitation. I do however think bdsm is just not a thing on this site which is fair enough as it's not marketed on that. " The last paragraph is irrelevant. Members use this site for escapism, dating, cheating, chatting, kinks as well as swinging. | |||
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"If you are seeking trust from a post then I don't think you are looking in a right place Bondage Domination Sadism and masochism all have over lapping areas and some prefer more individual to others. It may not be for you but just as people do to swingers don't belittle it. " BDSM: Bondage and discipline Domination and submission Sadism and Masochism Just a FYI. | |||
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"Agree with you somewhat however an open post on bdsm is an advert. I'd like to think the guy would discuss all these important points in pms as swingers would really get to know their play partners through private messaging I do believe he has sent a post to see if it tickles anyone's fantasy he hasn't implied it to anyone specifically so there for is an open ended invitation. I do however think bdsm is just not a thing on this site which is fair enough as it's not marketed on that. The last paragraph is irrelevant. Members use this site for escapism, dating, cheating, chatting, kinks as well as swinging. " Well it is relevant considering the attitudes of some in the post. | |||
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"If you are seeking trust from a post then I don't think you are looking in a right place Bondage Domination Sadism and masochism all have over lapping areas and some prefer more individual to others. It may not be for you but just as people do to swingers don't belittle it. BDSM: Bondage and discipline Domination and submission Sadism and Masochism Just a FYI. " I think this post goes to prove my point thank you. | |||
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"He didn't cross his ts and dot his i's however the responses of some on here are alot to be desired. More so from the people who don't approve of it. They should really understand that if they don't understand be curious and ask not judge. That's the point I'd make at the end. " Many people have a narrow view of BDSM ie their own view being the "true" view. BDSM is not a one size fits all. | |||
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"He didn't cross his ts and dot his i's however the responses of some on here are alot to be desired. More so from the people who don't approve of it. They should really understand that if they don't understand be curious and ask not judge. That's the point I'd make at the end. Many people have a narrow view of BDSM ie their own view being the "true" view. BDSM is not a one size fits all. " But for someone that has a specific kink it's exactly one size that fits him or her and he's seeking that of whom wants that. | |||
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"Agree with you somewhat however an open post on bdsm is an advert. I'd like to think the guy would discuss all these important points in pms as swingers would really get to know their play partners through private messaging I do believe he has sent a post to see if it tickles anyone's fantasy he hasn't implied it to anyone specifically so there for is an open ended invitation. I do however think bdsm is just not a thing on this site which is fair enough as it's not marketed on that. The last paragraph is irrelevant. Members use this site for escapism, dating, cheating, chatting, kinks as well as swinging. Well it is relevant considering the attitudes of some in the post. " My point is that people use the site, albeit according to site rules, how they wish. The overriding theme is swinging. | |||
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" I agree. However, the OP stated nothing about a relationship. Obviously due to the wants of the OP, one would hope, even in play/prior to play, communication occurs and the setting of boundaries. " I’m with you on this one ![]() | |||
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"Agree with you somewhat however an open post on bdsm is an advert. I'd like to think the guy would discuss all these important points in pms as swingers would really get to know their play partners through private messaging I do believe he has sent a post to see if it tickles anyone's fantasy he hasn't implied it to anyone specifically so there for is an open ended invitation. I do however think bdsm is just not a thing on this site which is fair enough as it's not marketed on that. The last paragraph is irrelevant. Members use this site for escapism, dating, cheating, chatting, kinks as well as swinging. Well it is relevant considering the attitudes of some in the post. My point is that people use the site, albeit according to site rules, how they wish. The overriding theme is swinging. " When I stated before that bdsm isn't marketed on this site you told me that's irrelevant. But I glad we agree on something it's based on swinging. | |||
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"He didn't cross his ts and dot his i's however the responses of some on here are alot to be desired. More so from the people who don't approve of it. They should really understand that if they don't understand be curious and ask not judge. That's the point I'd make at the end. Many people have a narrow view of BDSM ie their own view being the "true" view. BDSM is not a one size fits all. But for someone that has a specific kink it's exactly one size that fits him or her and he's seeking that of whom wants that. " This is then tailored to the person(s), proving my point. | |||
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"Agree with you somewhat however an open post on bdsm is an advert. I'd like to think the guy would discuss all these important points in pms as swingers would really get to know their play partners through private messaging I do believe he has sent a post to see if it tickles anyone's fantasy he hasn't implied it to anyone specifically so there for is an open ended invitation. I do however think bdsm is just not a thing on this site which is fair enough as it's not marketed on that. The last paragraph is irrelevant. Members use this site for escapism, dating, cheating, chatting, kinks as well as swinging. Well it is relevant considering the attitudes of some in the post. My point is that people use the site, albeit according to site rules, how they wish. The overriding theme is swinging. When I stated before that bdsm isn't marketed on this site you told me that's irrelevant. But I glad we agree on something it's based on swinging. " It is irrelevant due to how the site is used. | |||
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"He didn't cross his ts and dot his i's however the responses of some on here are alot to be desired. More so from the people who don't approve of it. They should really understand that if they don't understand be curious and ask not judge. That's the point I'd make at the end. Many people have a narrow view of BDSM ie their own view being the "true" view. BDSM is not a one size fits all. But for someone that has a specific kink it's exactly one size that fits him or her and he's seeking that of whom wants that. This is then tailored to the person(s), proving my point. " In addition to this, people's likes and dislikes evolve. Eg I was disgusted at the thought of DP in my 20s. Now I get turned on by the thought ![]() | |||
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"I think sometimes with some people you got to know when to call it a day today is the day... " Discussing of opinions is healthy ![]() | |||
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"Never knew swingers could set themselves on such a moral high horse. Lol " I'd still love you to expand on this comment explorer888. Particularly the lol | |||
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"Pick me, pick me. " Damn...you got in 1st | |||
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"I'm still trying to visualise the physical contortions required to have your arse kicked whilst wanking over the lickers face at the same time ![]() lmao | |||
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"Never knew swingers could set themselves on such a moral high horse. Lol I'd still love you to expand on this comment explorer888. Particularly the lol" I already did if you read back | |||
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"Never knew swingers could set themselves on such a moral high horse. Lol " Swingers actually get to meet people. | |||
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"Never knew swingers could set themselves on such a moral high horse. Lol Swingers actually get to meet people. " That would be the point in any sexual act swinging or not, no? | |||
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"It’s not easy trying to rite a massage while havin a wink wifh yourr write hand and tiping wifh yourr lift hand" that's made me chuckle.. just the sort of man you want to take home to meet your mum lol | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here " No that very much sounds like abuse not bdsm. | |||
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"It seems that the only person who has not contributed to this discussion is the OP. Seemingly he has thrown his grenade, and run... ![]() Is throwing his grenade a synonym for cumming? ![]() | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here No that very much sounds like abuse not bdsm. " Joining an alternative site would open your eyes. There are extremes in BDSM, consensual extremes. | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " When you free? Love that shit | |||
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"Sounds like a right charmer!" This x | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " Gross. | |||
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"Im genuinely curious as to how many replies he got for this! " Tbh same like for all we knoe theres a bunch who dont talk on the forums but have seen this and expressed an interest ![]() | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here " Difficult, Yes, but I've spotted at least one on here. You just have to dig,be patient, and be prepared to wait? Certainly not expect a shortcut via forum posts? Strikes everyone as lazy as seem by the sarcastic replies? | |||
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"I am massively sub but wouldn’t dream of doing it for someone who posts something like that. I want to be used and abused by someone I adore and they adore me. Cos we will cuddle afterwards and eat cake. X" absolutely brilliant answer x that's exactly the way that it should be with dom and subs x | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " While I am here just hoping for a wank and a blowjob from a nice lady ![]() | |||
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"I am massively sub but wouldn’t dream of doing it for someone who posts something like that. I want to be used and abused by someone I adore and they adore me. Cos we will cuddle afterwards and eat cake. X" What kinda cake is the important question | |||
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"I am massively sub but wouldn’t dream of doing it for someone who posts something like that. I want to be used and abused by someone I adore and they adore me. Cos we will cuddle afterwards and eat cake. X" Wait, no one mentioned cake before ! | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. This just sounds like someone who wants to abuse a woman rather than being Dom" What I thought | |||
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"Sounds a right nob lol" And think this... Slut face language ![]() | |||
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"Who knows maybe he got what he was looking for for christmas although i do doubt it" maybe he did there was a lady who would turn up at a fetish event at partners real housewives of cheshire posh bird would get naked collar and blindfold on chain herself to the toilet and spend the day being pissed spat and cum on would offer to ckean anyone after they used the loo wanted them to be as nasty as possible she would be soaked in piss and cum with if leaking out of her when she was happy and satisfied collar off shower get dressed and leave .there are some people who realy get off on that type of thing | |||
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"Who knows maybe he got what he was looking for for christmas although i do doubt itmaybe he did there was a lady who would turn up at a fetish event at partners real housewives of cheshire posh bird would get naked collar and blindfold on chain herself to the toilet and spend the day being pissed spat and cum on would offer to ckean anyone after they used the loo wanted them to be as nasty as possible she would be soaked in piss and cum with if leaking out of her when she was happy and satisfied collar off shower get dressed and leave .there are some people who realy get off on that type of thing " True but i get the impression that finding people like that isnt as simple as a post like this on a forum | |||
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"Who knows maybe he got what he was looking for for christmas although i do doubt itmaybe he did there was a lady who would turn up at a fetish event at partners real housewives of cheshire posh bird would get naked collar and blindfold on chain herself to the toilet and spend the day being pissed spat and cum on would offer to ckean anyone after they used the loo wanted them to be as nasty as possible she would be soaked in piss and cum with if leaking out of her when she was happy and satisfied collar off shower get dressed and leave .there are some people who realy get off on that type of thing True but i get the impression that finding people like that isnt as simple as a post like this on a forum" true having talked with this lady she wasnt interested in anything out side of that event .was her little secret realy got off on being as dirty & debased as possible . | |||
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"Who knows maybe he got what he was looking for for christmas although i do doubt itmaybe he did there was a lady who would turn up at a fetish event at partners real housewives of cheshire posh bird would get naked collar and blindfold on chain herself to the toilet and spend the day being pissed spat and cum on would offer to ckean anyone after they used the loo wanted them to be as nasty as possible she would be soaked in piss and cum with if leaking out of her when she was happy and satisfied collar off shower get dressed and leave .there are some people who realy get off on that type of thing True but i get the impression that finding people like that isnt as simple as a post like this on a forumtrue having talked with this lady she wasnt interested in anything out side of that event .was her little secret realy got off on being as dirty & debased as possible ." I feel like its definaterly a private thing so cant see forum posts working out | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " Isn't it sad what the Milk Tray man became? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/12/19 14:43:06] You was tempted wasn’t you?" Tempted to say something but trying not to get banned in the remaining few days of this year ?? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 27/12/19 14:43:06] You was tempted wasn’t you? Tempted to say something but trying not to get banned in the remaining few days of this year ??" ![]() | |||
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"I have to admit the op probably could of phrased it a bit better and perhaps used something like consensual humiliation but who are we to judge!? To much of this getting on someone's case as they are not a proper "dom". Is there such a thing really?? Surely if comes down to those involved in play consenting and agreeing whats best for them. Yes, one will more than likely be dominant, the other submissive but there are so many different levels of play, trust, scenarios but as long as it works between the willing parties who cares if it is proper or not! Really starting to get fucked off with certain terms and labels as i feel there is more pressure to conform and be "proper". I prefer being a kinky deviant and going with the flow and the mood and see where it takes me without the need for labels and i hope everyone else can explore and do what works for them without being judged! I do have sick kids to deal with and feeling a bit shit myself so perhaps im feeling a bit ranty today...." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I am massively sub but wouldn’t dream of doing it for someone who posts something like that. I want to be used and abused by someone I adore and they adore me. Cos we will cuddle afterwards and eat cake. X" ![]() | |||
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"I have to admit the op probably could of phrased it a bit better and perhaps used something like consensual humiliation but who are we to judge!? To much of this getting on someone's case as they are not a proper "dom". Is there such a thing really?? Surely if comes down to those involved in play consenting and agreeing whats best for them. Yes, one will more than likely be dominant, the other submissive but there are so many different levels of play, trust, scenarios but as long as it works between the willing parties who cares if it is proper or not! Really starting to get fucked off with certain terms and labels as i feel there is more pressure to conform and be "proper". I prefer being a kinky deviant and going with the flow and the mood and see where it takes me without the need for labels and i hope everyone else can explore and do what works for them without being judged! I do have sick kids to deal with and feeling a bit shit myself so perhaps im feeling a bit ranty today.... ![]() ![]() It's usually women, warning other women, about abusive dickheads in the community, who prey on newbies, don't listen to safewords and are generally horrible people. It's not generally a commentary on their 'conformity' to 'proper' domming. | |||
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"I have to admit the op probably could of phrased it a bit better and perhaps used something like consensual humiliation but who are we to judge!? To much of this getting on someone's case as they are not a proper "dom". Is there such a thing really?? Surely if comes down to those involved in play consenting and agreeing whats best for them. Yes, one will more than likely be dominant, the other submissive but there are so many different levels of play, trust, scenarios but as long as it works between the willing parties who cares if it is proper or not! Really starting to get fucked off with certain terms and labels as i feel there is more pressure to conform and be "proper". I prefer being a kinky deviant and going with the flow and the mood and see where it takes me without the need for labels and i hope everyone else can explore and do what works for them without being judged! I do have sick kids to deal with and feeling a bit shit myself so perhaps im feeling a bit ranty today.... ![]() ![]() I apologise as i was merely saying we shouldnt judge as there will be people into that type of play. I would imagine not many and the op certainly hasn't done himself any favours by the way he has put it and if that puts people off then its his own fault. I would like to think he would discuss it all before hand with whats on and off limits and all boundaries respected as well as a safe word. If that wasnt the case i dont think any sensible woman would go near him. Anyway, who knows. From reading his post again i get the impression he is looking for filthy chat more than anything! | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here There is absolutely nothing related to BDSM in the original post. Not one iota. Anyone who thinks otherwise is sadly miss-informed." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " Holy Jesus! What is that? What the f-uck is that?! | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here There is absolutely nothing related to BDSM in the original post. Not one iota. Anyone who thinks otherwise is sadly miss-informed." Agree 100% | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " Where have you been all my life ? | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here " Not really, there's plenty on here that do indulge in BDSM. However, they normally come across as slightly more intelligent and display a knowledge of the brain and how to trigger it's synapses for thrills through pleasure, pain and denial? Whereas the OP comes across as someone with no relevent experience who merely gets off on watching such porn and wants to act like he's the Big Swinging Dick with very little knowledge of why a sub actually chooses to give themselves? Or about how to ensure that their needs as a sub are actually met. This will tempt very little BDSM aficionados whatsoever and believe me, there's a fair few on this site. B | |||
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"Not really this is more Bdsm style as your style is swinging. It's just this isn't a bdsm site hence people's either disgust or confusion and possibly sarcasm. Hard to find bdsm type women or couples on here Not really, there's plenty on here that do indulge in BDSM. However, they normally come across as slightly more intelligent and display a knowledge of the brain and how to trigger it's synapses for thrills through pleasure, pain and denial? Whereas the OP comes across as someone with no relevent experience who merely gets off on watching such porn and wants to act like he's the Big Swinging Dick with very little knowledge of why a sub actually chooses to give themselves? Or about how to ensure that their needs as a sub are actually met. This will tempt very little BDSM aficionados whatsoever and believe me, there's a fair few on this site. B" In the manner of Churchill the dog: Ohhhh yesssss! ![]() | |||
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"He didn't cross his ts and dot his i's however the responses of some on here are alot to be desired. More so from the people who don't approve of it. They should really understand that if they don't understand be curious and ask not judge. That's the point I'd make at the end. Many people have a narrow view of BDSM ie their own view being the "true" view. BDSM is not a one size fits all. " Agreed 100%...despite his poor grammar, which others shouldn't really mock, ALL sexual tastes are totally individual. We're often informed (bored) by self appointed bdsm 'experts' about what exactly our kinks make us...truth is we're just kinky swingers who enjoy elements of D/s, rough, bdsm, group sex and more. And as for communication and trust, whilst I (Steve) agree is best, I've also been regularly asked to Dom women who wanted to surrender with as little communication as possible. They were happy with a safe word and just wanted to completely surrender and not think or take time building trust...like a quickie, but with restraint, spanking, slapping, choking and rough sex. Some here like meets to involve lotsa socialising, discussion, teasing and sensual massage...others want to be grabbed, spanked, slapped, used happy and left marked and bruised. As long as its all consensual and everyone has a voice then its all good...roll with it people...chuckling now. | |||
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"He didn't cross his ts and dot his i's however the responses of some on here are alot to be desired. More so from the people who don't approve of it. They should really understand that if they don't understand be curious and ask not judge. That's the point I'd make at the end. Many people have a narrow view of BDSM ie their own view being the "true" view. BDSM is not a one size fits all. Agreed 100%...despite his poor grammar, which others shouldn't really mock, ALL sexual tastes are totally individual. We're often informed (bored) by self appointed bdsm 'experts' about what exactly our kinks make us...truth is we're just kinky swingers who enjoy elements of D/s, rough, bdsm, group sex and more. And as for communication and trust, whilst I (Steve) agree is best, I've also been regularly asked to Dom women who wanted to surrender with as little communication as possible. They were happy with a safe word and just wanted to completely surrender and not think or take time building trust...like a quickie, but with restraint, spanking, slapping, choking and rough sex. Some here like meets to involve lotsa socialising, discussion, teasing and sensual massage...others want to be grabbed, spanked, slapped, used happy and left marked and bruised. As long as its all consensual and everyone has a voice then its all good...roll with it people...chuckling now. " I agree. OP has posted what he’s looking for and someone will either be into it or not. Peoples kinks are their business. That kind of thing isn’t for me at all, but I’m not going to judge how gets someone else off. | |||
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"He didn't cross his ts and dot his i's however the responses of some on here are alot to be desired. More so from the people who don't approve of it. They should really understand that if they don't understand be curious and ask not judge. That's the point I'd make at the end. Many people have a narrow view of BDSM ie their own view being the "true" view. BDSM is not a one size fits all. Agreed 100%...despite his poor grammar, which others shouldn't really mock, ALL sexual tastes are totally individual. We're often informed (bored) by self appointed bdsm 'experts' about what exactly our kinks make us...truth is we're just kinky swingers who enjoy elements of D/s, rough, bdsm, group sex and more. And as for communication and trust, whilst I (Steve) agree is best, I've also been regularly asked to Dom women who wanted to surrender with as little communication as possible. They were happy with a safe word and just wanted to completely surrender and not think or take time building trust...like a quickie, but with restraint, spanking, slapping, choking and rough sex. Some here like meets to involve lotsa socialising, discussion, teasing and sensual massage...others want to be grabbed, spanked, slapped, used happy and left marked and bruised. As long as its all consensual and everyone has a voice then its all good...roll with it people...chuckling now. I agree. OP has posted what he’s looking for and someone will either be into it or not. Peoples kinks are their business. That kind of thing isn’t for me at all, but I’m not going to judge how gets someone else off. " The man is a fantasist clearly. Hasn't even been arsed to come back on his own thread. I'm amazed at the number of people defending him | |||
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"He didn't cross his ts and dot his i's however the responses of some on here are alot to be desired. More so from the people who don't approve of it. They should really understand that if they don't understand be curious and ask not judge. That's the point I'd make at the end. Many people have a narrow view of BDSM ie their own view being the "true" view. BDSM is not a one size fits all. Agreed 100%...despite his poor grammar, which others shouldn't really mock, ALL sexual tastes are totally individual. We're often informed (bored) by self appointed bdsm 'experts' about what exactly our kinks make us...truth is we're just kinky swingers who enjoy elements of D/s, rough, bdsm, group sex and more. And as for communication and trust, whilst I (Steve) agree is best, I've also been regularly asked to Dom women who wanted to surrender with as little communication as possible. They were happy with a safe word and just wanted to completely surrender and not think or take time building trust...like a quickie, but with restraint, spanking, slapping, choking and rough sex. Some here like meets to involve lotsa socialising, discussion, teasing and sensual massage...others want to be grabbed, spanked, slapped, used happy and left marked and bruised. As long as its all consensual and everyone has a voice then its all good...roll with it people...chuckling now. I agree. OP has posted what he’s looking for and someone will either be into it or not. Peoples kinks are their business. That kind of thing isn’t for me at all, but I’m not going to judge how gets someone else off. The man is a fantasist clearly. Hasn't even been arsed to come back on his own thread. I'm amazed at the number of people defending him " I wouldnt say im defending him personally but perhaps defending his right to be into what he chooses. Think its fair to say in this thread there have some who have attacked him for what he wrote and others who have defended him. Suppose its what side of the fence you sit on. I dont really want to write this next bit or admit to it but here goes... I myself get turned on by a pissy pussy, i like the smell and taste. Now i know hardly anyone else will be into this and i feel embarrassed by the fact that it turns me on. To me i think it is wrong and the majority of people will too but i am who i am. We all have kinks and desires but whats to say is wrong or right as long as boudries are respected?? It comes down to individual choice and i know many will be disgusted by my kink but i would hope on this forum i wouldnt get attacked for admitting it. I would expect plenty of " not for me" chat and hopefully not just judged on one kink that i have. I like to think im an alright fella that just happens to like a pissy pussy ![]() | |||
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"The activities mentioned can form part of a BDSM relationship, but only after communication, respect and trust have been built, with limits agreed upon. Jumping in with two feet, without establishing the above is tantamount to abuse and is endemic of those who don’t have a true understanding of BDSM. I agree. However, the OP stated nothing about a relationship. Obviously due to the wants of the OP, one would hope, even in play/prior to play, communication occurs and the setting of boundaries. " Tbh I think it’s obvious the Op just wants a fantasy sub figure to step out of a humiliation porn film and into his bedroom - whereupon he’ll probably piss in his pants - not on her! ![]() | |||
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"The activities mentioned can form part of a BDSM relationship, but only after communication, respect and trust have been built, with limits agreed upon. Jumping in with two feet, without establishing the above is tantamount to abuse and is endemic of those who don’t have a true understanding of BDSM. I agree. However, the OP stated nothing about a relationship. Obviously due to the wants of the OP, one would hope, even in play/prior to play, communication occurs and the setting of boundaries. Tbh I think it’s obvious the Op just wants a fantasy sub figure to step out of a humiliation porn film and into his bedroom - whereupon he’ll probably piss in his pants - not on her! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Looking to chat with filthy submisive female slut that that get off on being used and abused as a nasty slut. Dose you pusay get wet at the more you are humiliate. Must be a proper filthy fuckpig. Just a set od holes to use and abuse ass a disgusting piss and cum dump. I want my ass licked while i watch porn and wank over your pretty slut face. " Have you ever thought about writing greetings cards? You have a way with words. | |||
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"It is a pretty common misconception that the Dom is 100% charge because in actual fact the Sub is in control as the Dom only works within the boundaries that a Sub sets before hand and if you are meeting a Dom without any discussions before hand about limits and boundaries then I can only exclaim as to how foolish such a thing is not to mention proclaiming that you have no limits what so ever. I have been with degradees in the past and you don't kink shame them as they get off being the center of attention even if they want what others think to be a step too far hell some people like to dress up as babies, you may not understand it but why do you need to its their personal kink. Even Dominant partners have limits themselves as I could never enjoy doing things that involve poop or beating someone,even needle play is too much for me but its all in personal preference. The only thing I hope is that the OP isn't just some jumped up over excitable porn watcher and understands having a Sub even one who likes to be fully degraded demands mutual respect as they are still a human being and safe words are a must or are even the traffic light system. Above all though is aftercare and it's something never shown in porn as if you are going to dehumanise someone you need to take the time to being them back so to speak and this should be more well known outside of the BDSM scene. " Aftercare, yes. I have seen the post filming interviews, where the sub is asked how she, (the few I saw were female subs) felt during and afterwards. Insight carries a lot when it comes to videos like this. The more you learn about the other person, the better the outcome. Power is nothing without control, self control that is. Consent is key here. | |||
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"It is a pretty common misconception that the Dom is 100% charge because in actual fact the Sub is in control as the Dom only works within the boundaries that a Sub sets before hand and if you are meeting a Dom without any discussions before hand about limits and boundaries then I can only exclaim as to how foolish such a thing is not to mention proclaiming that you have no limits what so ever. I have been with degradees in the past and you don't kink shame them as they get off being the center of attention even if they want what others think to be a step too far hell some people like to dress up as babies, you may not understand it but why do you need to its their personal kink. Even Dominant partners have limits themselves as I could never enjoy doing things that involve poop or beating someone,even needle play is too much for me but its all in personal preference. The only thing I hope is that the OP isn't just some jumped up over excitable porn watcher and understands having a Sub even one who likes to be fully degraded demands mutual respect as they are still a human being and safe words are a must or are even the traffic light system. Above all though is aftercare and it's something never shown in porn as if you are going to dehumanise someone you need to take the time to being them back so to speak and this should be more well known outside of the BDSM scene. Aftercare, yes. I have seen the post filming interviews, where the sub is asked how she, (the few I saw were female subs) felt during and afterwards. Insight carries a lot when it comes to videos like this. The more you learn about the other person, the better the outcome. Power is nothing without control, self control that is. Consent is key here." ![]() | |||
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