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By *jrodes338 OP   Man
over a year ago

wednesfield,Wolverhampton

im genuine...but struggling to get replies...apparently due to the few nutters on here,so majority of ladies sticking with established friends...how to get past this? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im genuine...but struggling to get replies...apparently due to the few nutters on here,so majority of ladies sticking with established friends...how to get past this? xx"

Well, you don't say nak all about yourself really in your profile for a start... and the pointless legal warning is like double the amount of words you have invested to talk about what you are like and what your want in your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You having no luck is nothing to do with "nutters" on here and women keeping to established friends... it's all about how you sell yourself on here within your profile and messages you send.

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Everyone is going to say it, but when you have a longer warning than actual profile, most people will just ignore you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and not being able to accommodate will make many think your possibly married and cheating away from home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you seriously think that you are going to be a success on here with a profile that poor you are very much wrong. As for expecting people to wink you, just smacks of laziness and you get out what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also go to socials and talk to people in chat x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"im genuine...but struggling to get replies...apparently due to the few nutters on here,so majority of ladies sticking with established friends...how to get past this? xx"

Absolutely nothing to do with "nutters". There is absolutely no information on your profile, plus you're looking for couples...ff couples. Good luck with that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it takes time mate. Been here 7 month and slowly getting to know people. Building up friends and trust takes time. Im still learning. Just enjoy chatting and the meets will come with time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I concur, your profile has a couple of lines stating you work nights. Not much to go on there is there? What can you offer? What do you like? What are you looking for? What type of person are you looking for? What don't you like? Maybe a bit of humour and show some personality? Add some pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I concur, your profile has a couple of lines stating you work nights. Not much to go on there is there? What can you offer? What do you like? What are you looking for? What type of person are you looking for? What don't you like? Maybe a bit of humour and show some personality? Add some pics "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap to what previous posters have said.

You do have pics up that are the kind people go for so no problem there, but in terms of insight into you, your profile says sweet nowt.

Use your imagination mate!

Plus you have had meets, and those are the just the ones that have actually verified, plenty of meets don't and a lot come and go, the majority of my veris have disappeared when folk I have met left the site. Therefore your messages must be half decent at least which means its entirely down to the lack of people contacting you, I get over half my meets from these. Have a look at the profiles that seem to do well on here and see if you can spy the differences between theirs and yours?

Good luck mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nutters? You do know we are allowed out once in a while dont you?

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By *jrodes338 OP   Man
over a year ago

wednesfield,Wolverhampton

thanks to all those that have posted...will look to address the lack of insight on my profile and take it from there...will let you know how it goes....

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By *jrodes338 OP   Man
over a year ago

wednesfield,Wolverhampton

hows it looking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The son bit is good as it explains why you cant accommodate xx

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By *jrodes338 OP   Man
over a year ago

wednesfield,Wolverhampton

so far so good....3 winks and one message and one marriage proposal,...which i politely declined...so far so good xxx

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"Everyone is going to say it, but when you have a longer warning than actual profile, most people will just ignore you."

It doesnt matter whta you put in your pofile, most head straight for pics. Everyone has had the wink/friend invite scenario. Its about if it looks good and its close enough sadly...the British are lazy.

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins

Are yuo rich, are you willing to drive half way round the country to be told to leave cos you have the wrong shirt on lol. There are some complete idiots in this scene. Info is useful but most surf pics and wev all had the long convo that ends with....can you come to us!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It doesnt matter whta you put in your pofile, most head straight for pics. Everyone has had the wink/friend invite scenario. Its about if it looks good and its close enough sadly...the British are lazy. "

Disagree. My lengthy and pictureless profile gets enough attention to keep me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree too. Granted most will probably look at my pics first and make a decision on whether they find me attractive.

But apart from what I have written in my profile showing that I do possess at least half a brain, it will attract attention from those with imagination and those who like to indulge in the fantasy side of sex like myself.

It also makes for a great ice-breaker for ladies and couples who contact me.

So I consider a well written profile essential under the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To attract men you need pics as they are visual but to attract a woman you need an imaginative profile as we are cerebral

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