Someone who matches, sounds a bit obvious , but by the number of people who dont who have contacted me, i,ll clarify the word match, it means what i look for , they want to do, and what i do , they are hoping to find, Also , i find i fit someone who is extrovert , ( im introvert) , someone , who answers a question with , get this, information, humour and sensitivity, These things are important to me and so if these aspects of a person are present in their profile, then im likely to feel comfortable if and when a meeting takes place, If someone doesnt describe themselves in any of these ways , ill just gawp at the cock pics and say yes to everything they ask and not bother with ,say their approach being ,Hi !” or ,”where you?”, Much as i admire an earthy ,direct pick up , a word or two describing something of a persons true nature is necessary to enjoying being in someones vicinity, if its not there , you wont feel comfortable and if you dont feel comfortable , you wont meet ! A physical self description tells you a lot about someone, But a description of how they treat other people or will treat someone they meet , says a lot more! Lots of things without going into too much detail, so more is better id say , if someone wants a same sex meeting , then you would expect their profile to support that by their identity, and orientation , ( as opposed to being sat in the living room facing the telly). Finally if you post a pic, tidy up first, try to make the pic show a something of who you are. Outdoorsy , sport loving, or sensuous and tactile, Giving little away about yourself will exclude you from opportunity , unless of course anonimity is what you expect. , in which case a blank profile is preferable ! God i went on one there ! Sorry about that. |
