FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey, hi & hello...

So I'm posting a how's you and howdy n how'd you do to everyone xx

Any advice is welcome, constructive criticism too....

So. What am I doing wrong? I've been on here a couple of months and I either get no replies or 'sorry, ur not my type' replies to the messages I inbox people.

I'm polite, thoughtful and well mannered but I've not been able to achieve a single meet yet, from a bucketful of messages I've sent out I only have a few conversations that have struck up, and they seem to go cold after a few days.

Please review my profile and advise..

Thank you in advance for any ideas and inputs, sincerely, because even though I read all the profile, look at the pics and try to message something thoughtful, relevant, witty and kind when I inbox, generally I'm getting shunned. What's up with people? Are my pics wrong somehow? Or my bio? My approach too aggressive or arrogant? I don't send dick pics and I'm respectful of no answers.

I just want some fun too...!

Any advise gratefully received. Thank you, happy fabbing ppl xx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women out number men

For many attraction counts so not every likes everyone regardless of fab intentions. Who suits one won't suit another

Your profile needs to stand out..

You state nothing different than any other person.

Find your niche.

Mine.. I'm arsey n don't give two hoots.

It's trial n error

Good luck.

By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I think you look damn fine. Maybe a more smiley pic would help? Your profile is polite but a little short and serious. Perhaps reveal more personality in it and add a little humour.

You seem to be doing everything else right. But same advice I’d give to any single guy struggling here - attend clubs and socials. It gets you known.

Good luck