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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Ok, I'd be really interested to hear from females or couples, if there is anything good, bad or ugly on my profile - what works & what doesn't for you?

I know everyone's taste is different.. but hey.. feedback is how we improve isn't it lol.

Be kind - or not

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am female trapped in a malish body so I am taking the liberty to answer your thread.

The way your hold your phone when you take a picture of you is dodgy

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I am female trapped in a malish body so I am taking the liberty to answer your thread.

The way your hold your phone when you take a picture of you is dodgy "

Well I didn't expect that lol.. what do you mean? The angle, distance, or can you tell I'm holding it with 2 fingers and a thumb?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile with lots of information and a decent selection of photos.

Personally, I find it all a bit cock heavy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am female trapped in a malish body so I am taking the liberty to answer your thread.

The way your hold your phone when you take a picture of you is dodgy

Well I didn't expect that lol.. what do you mean? The angle, distance, or can you tell I'm holding it with 2 fingers and a thumb?!"

We'll try to.hold it at 67 angle because the way you hold it, in roany it means that you crossed a rainbow

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"A profile with lots of information and a decent selection of photos.

Personally, I find it all a bit cock heavy though.

"

Thanks for the positive

Fair shout .. sometimes it does get away with itself.. duly noted x

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I am female trapped in a malish body so I am taking the liberty to answer your thread.

The way your hold your phone when you take a picture of you is dodgy

Well I didn't expect that lol.. what do you mean? The angle, distance, or can you tell I'm holding it with 2 fingers and a thumb?!

We'll try to.hold it at 67 angle because the way you hold it, in roany it means that you crossed a rainbow "

That's where I'm going wrong, was holding at 65 degrees... Will get the protractor out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am female trapped in a malish body so I am taking the liberty to answer your thread.

The way your hold your phone when you take a picture of you is dodgy

Well I didn't expect that lol.. what do you mean? The angle, distance, or can you tell I'm holding it with 2 fingers and a thumb?!

We'll try to.hold it at 67 angle because the way you hold it, in roany it means that you crossed a rainbow

That's where I'm going wrong, was holding at 65 degrees... Will get the protractor out "

You are welcome x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

1. All your pics are dick pics, except a couple of your shorts. Dull, boring, and not needed. Keep them private, and take a different pic for your public gallery. Also, action shots can put some people off, especially the bareback pic when you have 'safe sex' as an interest.

2. Very demanding profile text. Too long. Didn't read it. If it doesn't engage the reader within the first sentance, you've lost them. Start again.

3. Your status with your kik address. I seriously doubt that anyone will look at that and think 'yes please'.

4. Men vastly outnumber women here, so you need to stand out, for the right reasons, and not for being a knob.

So, my advice for your Fab experience could be summed up in three words:

Expectations

Profile

Effort

Good luck.

(Gosh, I was kinder than usual here! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we get a message we go through our protocol with my self first checking things then my wife.

1.... read the profile

2.... check the pictures

3.... read the verifications

4...... have they read our profile

5.....face pic

Obv apart from your face pic your profile seems ok to me but as already stated maybe a bit cock heavy, one is good 3,475 is too many as most people really do know what a cock looks like but hey I’m not bi but I’d be proud to watch my wife ride on yours.

Hope this helps.

Tony

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"1. All your pics are dick pics, except a couple of your shorts. Dull, boring, and not needed. Keep them private, and take a different pic for your public gallery. Also, action shots can put some people off, especially the bareback pic when you have 'safe sex' as an interest.

2. Very demanding profile text. Too long. Didn't read it. If it doesn't engage the reader within the first sentance, you've lost them. Start again.

3. Your status with your kik address. I seriously doubt that anyone will look at that and think 'yes please'.

4. Men vastly outnumber women here, so you need to stand out, for the right reasons, and not for being a knob.

So, my advice for your Fab experience could be summed up in three words:

Expectations

Profile

Effort

Good luck.

(Gosh, I was kinder than usual here! )"

Thank you! Some valid points - will have a rerhink. The profile may be a little long, but I was trying to show that 1. put in effort to be clear, 2. show Im articulate (unlike so many)..

Thanks again x

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"When we get a message we go through our protocol with my self first checking things then my wife.

1.... read the profile

2.... check the pictures

3.... read the verifications

4...... have they read our profile

5.....face pic

Obv apart from your face pic your profile seems ok to me but as already stated maybe a bit cock heavy, one is good 3,475 is too many as most people really do know what a cock looks like but hey I’m not bi but I’d be proud to watch my wife ride on yours.

Hope this helps.

Tony"

Thanks guys.. yeah, will clear up pure cock pics.. maybe 2 is enough..

It's tough!!! Lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think you have better pictures you could use as a profile pic. 7th December or 5th June. Also maybe reorder your profile so you're not opening with cock stats. I'd want to read the about me bit first.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Take out the whole of the first bit up to "Looking For" - then condense what follows and remove some of the cliches.

Being blunt it touches on arrogance in places too - you cannot "assure" someone of mind-blowing orgasms for instance - there is no guarantee that you will be sexually compatible with everyone.

Your pics aren't as bad as I thought they were going to be based on previous comments but I'd certainly give some thought to new ones that don't involve your cock, or where it is not the primary focus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does " I can definitively hit the spot" mean?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I found the cock pics too much...and off putting.

Whilst informative I found the text "mechanical"...Hard to explain, but it lacked "warmth" for me. Somehow comes across as all about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does " I can definitively hit the spot" mean?"

Takes a good penalty?

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"What does " I can definitively hit the spot" mean?

Takes a good penalty? "

Lol, I did used to be able to yeah .. but thanks for the insight - really helpful to get some feedback

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I found the cock pics too much...and off putting.

Whilst informative I found the text "mechanical"...Hard to explain, but it lacked "warmth" for me. Somehow comes across as all about you. "

Thanks - it's hard to get a balance of telling someone what you are here for, whilst not making it about you - there are lots ot profiles with little or no info which doesn't help either.

I'll try to soften and simplify..

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"What does " I can definitively hit the spot" mean?"

Was a reference to my shape for some reason manages to be just at the right angle to hit the spot.. again good feedback though as it's what I was thinking and not perhaps what people would take from it x

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Take out the whole of the first bit up to "Looking For" - then condense what follows and remove some of the cliches.

Being blunt it touches on arrogance in places too - you cannot "assure" someone of mind-blowing orgasms for instance - there is no guarantee that you will be sexually compatible with everyone.

Your pics aren't as bad as I thought they were going to be based on previous comments but I'd certainly give some thought to new ones that don't involve your cock, or where it is not the primary focus"

Cheers mate - much appreciated, yeah, I've taken a number of cock shots down - and not make them the focus of nude ones ..

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I think you have better pictures you could use as a profile pic. 7th December or 5th June. Also maybe reorder your profile so you're not opening with cock stats. I'd want to read the about me bit first."

Thank you x

It really is weird as some people if they mail me ask me the questions that are at the top.of profile - so I guess it depends what people read..

Will play around with, and same with photos/profile .. fine balance and some marmite points for sure between people x

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks for the feedback everyone.. I have had stab at an profile update - from your themes of advice x Any better?? x

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

There's nothing in there that would ultimately put us off.

Threads like this lower the value of a profile for us though, by the time you've finished it's no longer telling us about you.

We place more value on the message we receive as no-one has tweaked it.

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By *ancFB OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"There's nothing in there that would ultimately put us off.

Threads like this lower the value of a profile for us though, by the time you've finished it's no longer telling us about you.

We place more value on the message we receive as no-one has tweaked it."

Thanks... Yeah I get that, and I do out effort in to messages.. always polite and never 1 or 2 word responses.. just asking for opinions as a first impression

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By *tefanCoolMan
over a year ago

Monaghan

Very new to this.. Please check out my profile and let me know what's wrong bar the photos will get onto that when I get home this evening

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