FabSwingers.com forum: Hello everyone, feedback welcome!

By *rustratedgiver OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Hi there everybody,

Very new to this and this site so any and all feedback welcome.

I understand my profile will not be for everyone and I’ve only got the one public picture so far, which I am working to address.

Also I messaged one beautiful lady whose profile seemed to match mine and made it very specific but the message is still unread after several days.

I understand you single ladies are a rare breed on here; is the fact it hasn’t been read a symptom of the volume of messages you receive and is it a good sign it hasn’t been deleted outright?

Any comments, feedback or pointers on etiquette here all greatly appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married and here without permission might put a single person off ....Just saying

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By *rustratedgiver OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

I appreciate that and that fact narrows the pool further.

However it is the truth and I’m not messaging anyone whose profile states they don’t want contact from married men.

Hopefully that is the respectful balance to strike?

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"I appreciate that and that fact narrows the pool further.

However it is the truth and I’m not messaging anyone whose profile states they don’t want contact from married men.

Hopefully that is the respectful balance to strike?"

I like that your respectful with telling us but I really cant see you getting far here this is a swingers site not a place to get sex and a lot of wemon on here despise cheats

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Hi there everybody,

Very new to this and this site so any and all feedback welcome.

I understand my profile will not be for everyone and I’ve only got the one public picture so far, which I am working to address.

Also I messaged one beautiful lady whose profile seemed to match mine and made it very specific but the message is still unread after several days.

I understand you single ladies are a rare breed on here; is the fact it hasn’t been read a symptom of the volume of messages you receive and is it a good sign it hasn’t been deleted outright?

Any comments, feedback or pointers on etiquette here all greatly appreciated!

You’ve been open and upfront op which is a start. There’s someone for everyone out there, on here though it will take a lot of time and you’ve only been on the site a few weeks. With the message unopened it could be the volume of messages she has, or many people, mostly ladies view in stealth mode so she’s looked at your message, checked your profile and decided to not open the message. Easiest thing to do is delete the send messages, then if you get a response it’ll be a surprise for you rather than checking if she has opened it. All the best.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Your chances of getting a meet are virtually nil. I've had a meet a few years ago but accept that it was probably a one off and is unlikely to happen again. Most guys should accept that too i reckon.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’ve only got the one public picture so far, which I am working to address.

How long do you estimate it will be before you are able to post another pic ?

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

OP if you found the women you wrote to attractive then chances are at least 30 others did the same day and 30 every day since . Realistically it is unlikely your message will now be read and you must move on .

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By *rustratedgiver OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Just to give an update, I sent her a further respectful email and got a reply! My original message was lost in the volume of other messages. We’ve since had a social and are arranging a more intimate meet.

Thanks for all the advice and to those who have grown a bit cynical, chin up and happy fabbing x

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