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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton

Been on fab ages now , without luck in sight , or even chats , why is my inbox dry -- ' I reach out respectfully ... gimme a clue guys and gals

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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton


"Been on fab ages now , without luck in sight , or even chats , why is my inbox dry -- ' I reach out respectfully ... gimme a clue guys and gals"

On my 4th adaptation of my profile nothing seems to spark interest or conversation

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

I met ppl but not verified me met 2 cpls tvts met guys but go into chat rooms an forum an just chill it will happen dont rush

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Why not go and read the pointers made on the other post on same topic you did.

As pointed out on that, you dont need to state not being into men, use the message filter. No pictures no reply, again theres a filter for that (not 100% reliable).

My profile is mega ranty to purposely repel, I read yours and thought ha no! Most dont need to be told to be their self

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

All of this advice exists in multiple threads, but for ease....

Lose the cockshots.

Spend some time taking and editing the best photos you can. Look at what other guys and women have done and take inspiration.

Make your profile text about what you can offer. Distil it down so that it says something unique and interest-piquing. At the moment it’s full of rules and inspirational phrases, but not really anything which says “I’m different from every other guy on here”

Don’t put any caveats into your text.

Up your game when you message. It’s your best and perhaps only chance of grabbing attention.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" why is my inbox dry -- ' I reach out respectfully ... gimme a clue guys and gals"

How can you believe you reach out respectfully when your profile pic is your cock out in the kitchen ?

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By *traight up guyMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

You're a single guy in here, the odds are stacked against you and you haven't taken the advice on the other numerous threads on this subject!

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


" why is my inbox dry -- ' I reach out respectfully ... gimme a clue guys and gals

How can you believe you reach out respectfully when your profile pic is your cock out in the kitchen ? "

This. It would be an instant no from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because you’re a smoker?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Or because you say "no picture no reply" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trade lonsdale for calvins

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

have you tried going to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks pal .there's hope for us all.you ain't the only one .....just rem_mber its a swingers site.as a group we come in third place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a massive difference between being a single man who is looking for sex and a male swinger. Successful men have made the effort to learn how to approach and talk to people. They have also made their profile appealing. Plenty of tips on the forums of what to do, but it will require effort and most men are adverse to that.

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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton


"Why not go and read the pointers made on the other post on same topic you did.

As pointed out on that, you dont need to state not being into men, use the message filter. No pictures no reply, again theres a filter for that (not 100% reliable).

My profile is mega ranty to purposely repel, I read yours and thought ha no! Most dont need to be told to be their self "

taken on board

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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton

put all photos public and re done my profile ...

gotta be a 5th time lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile

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By *nvisible Curious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bridgnorth


"There’s a massive difference between being a single man who is looking for sex and a male swinger. Successful men have made the effort to learn how to approach and talk to people. They have also made their profile appealing. Plenty of tips on the forums of what to do, but it will require effort and most men are adverse to that. "

Hit the nail on the head there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not go and read the pointers made on the other post on same topic you did.

As pointed out on that, you dont need to state not being into men, use the message filter. No pictures no reply, again theres a filter for that (not 100% reliable).

My profile is mega ranty to purposely repel, I read yours and thought ha no! Most dont need to be told to be their self "

Lol I had to have a brief skim over yours to see what you were ranting about. What on earth is ‘knotty’?

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Been on fab ages now , without luck in sight , or even chats , why is my inbox dry -- ' I reach out respectfully ... gimme a clue guys and gals"

You seem very sad in your

pictures.

The dickpics aren't great.

I'm 420 friendly occasionally and your doobie photo was off putting to me.

You moan about men messaging you and how you don't like it instead of adjusting your filters, that spells, ego and a touch of homophobia.

If you were a woman, would you meet you?

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Is it because you’re a smoker?

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If he is, he is.....pointless changing it to say he is not....as he will only get found out on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can do all you can profile wise but if people are not attracted then they are not attracted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos do not do anything for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go along with others you need new photos.

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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton

Don't really have many photos I could put on here, need to take some new ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can do all you can profile wise but if people are not attracted then they are not attracted. "

It’s that simple sometimes, try and enjoy the chase and don’t let it get you down it’s just a website!

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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton

I've found some photos of me smiling but they ain't the best

Added em to profile

.. I really do dislike how I look when I'm smiling I'm not sure why

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