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"I mean how does this even happen? And does it help? " get yourself to the townhouse... mild Monday or one of their other events that welcomes singles. Not sure if they still do their newbie nights x | |||
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"When you meet someone with a green tick, they indicate that they've met you and say something about you. I gather it can help, but it isn't a guarantee of anything. " Has it helped you? Or made a difference? | |||
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"When you meet someone with a green tick, they indicate that they've met you and say something about you. I gather it can help, but it isn't a guarantee of anything. Has it helped you? Or made a difference? " I'm not the one to ask, Fab is a very different proposition for women. | |||
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"I mean how does this even happen? And does it help? get yourself to the townhouse... mild Monday or one of their other events that welcomes singles. Not sure if they still do their newbie nights x" What they have special nights and meet up places? I have so much to learn. Lol | |||
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"We won't arrange a meet with anyone unless they are verified by a meet. The logic being they are less likely to be a time waster or nutcase." Can I ask what the difference between proving they are real via like cam or actually met someone from the site? Does that have a negative impact? | |||
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"You get veris from meets. You get meets by having respectful profiles, not misogynistic, homophobic rants. " I'm not homophobic in the slightest... but they wouldnt stop someone in the street and ask can I blow them so why would people message it? That's disrespectful | |||
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"We won't arrange a meet with anyone unless they are verified by a meet. The logic being they are less likely to be a time waster or nutcase. Can I ask what the difference between proving they are real via like cam or actually met someone from the site? Does that have a negative impact?" A cam proves they are prepared to sit in front of a camera. A verification by meet means they actually met up with another person face to face. Which to us at least and therefore others also, we presume, in this world are very different. | |||
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"We won't arrange a meet with anyone unless they are verified by a meet. The logic being they are less likely to be a time waster or nutcase. Can I ask what the difference between proving they are real via like cam or actually met someone from the site? Does that have a negative impact? A cam proves they are prepared to sit in front of a camera. A verification by meet means they actually met up with another person face to face. Which to us at least and therefore others also, we presume, in this world are very different." Right ok that makes sense.. I get the fact people will waste others time.and clearly there is a lot of that otherwise people wouldnt be so cagey about it. But how do new people get onto this path if they dont get a chance until verified? | |||
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"You get veris from meets. You get meets by having respectful profiles, not misogynistic, homophobic rants. I'm not homophobic in the slightest... but they wouldnt stop someone in the street and ask can I blow them so why would people message it? That's disrespectful " So is your profile. Just block guys from messaging you like every other straight guy. Your a wet dream to a lot of gay men. Take it as a compliment and move on without being nasty. The women that you seek won’t appreciate it, and the guys will just keep sending those pics to piss you off n | |||
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"You get veris from meets. You get meets by having respectful profiles, not misogynistic, homophobic rants. I'm not homophobic in the slightest... but they wouldnt stop someone in the street and ask can I blow them so why would people message it? That's disrespectful So is your profile. Just block guys from messaging you like every other straight guy. Your a wet dream to a lot of gay men. Take it as a compliment and move on without being nasty. The women that you seek won’t appreciate it, and the guys will just keep sending those pics to piss you off n" I appreciate your comments and I've removed them and blocked single men. I didnt mean to offend anyone and I hope I havent done so. | |||
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"We won't arrange a meet with anyone unless they are verified by a meet. The logic being they are less likely to be a time waster or nutcase. Can I ask what the difference between proving they are real via like cam or actually met someone from the site? Does that have a negative impact? A cam proves they are prepared to sit in front of a camera. A verification by meet means they actually met up with another person face to face. Which to us at least and therefore others also, we presume, in this world are very different. Right ok that makes sense.. I get the fact people will waste others time.and clearly there is a lot of that otherwise people wouldnt be so cagey about it. But how do new people get onto this path if they dont get a chance until verified? " Go to a swingers club or some form of social. Either that or be prepared to wait and get lucky, if you think your profile says enough about you to be enticing enough to others. | |||
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"I mean how does this even happen? And does it help? " Know that thread you started a few days ago asking for advice, pop back and have a read through. The answers you seek are all in there. Hope that helps.  | |||
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"We won't arrange a meet with anyone unless they are verified by a meet. The logic being they are less likely to be a time waster or nutcase. Can I ask what the difference between proving they are real via like cam or actually met someone from the site? Does that have a negative impact? A cam proves they are prepared to sit in front of a camera. A verification by meet means they actually met up with another person face to face. Which to us at least and therefore others also, we presume, in this world are very different. Right ok that makes sense.. I get the fact people will waste others time.and clearly there is a lot of that otherwise people wouldnt be so cagey about it. But how do new people get onto this path if they dont get a chance until verified? Go to a swingers club or some form of social. Either that or be prepared to wait and get lucky, if you think your profile says enough about you to be enticing enough to others. " Maybe I will work on the profile since I seem to be getting a lot of negative comments about it. Back to the drawing board for me ... who knew it would be so hard | |||
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"I mean how does this even happen? And does it help? Know that thread you started a few days ago asking for advice, pop back and have a read through. The answers you seek are all in there. Hope that helps. "Really I thought it was taken down I couldnt find it ?  | |||
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"When you meet someone with a green tick, they indicate that they've met you and say something about you. I gather it can help, but it isn't a guarantee of anything. Has it helped you? Or made a difference? " It definitely helps.... proves that you’re reliable & genuine, or it has in my case. | |||
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"We won't arrange a meet with anyone unless they are verified by a meet. The logic being they are less likely to be a time waster or nutcase. Can I ask what the difference between proving they are real via like cam or actually met someone from the site? Does that have a negative impact? A cam proves they are prepared to sit in front of a camera. A verification by meet means they actually met up with another person face to face. Which to us at least and therefore others also, we presume, in this world are very different. Right ok that makes sense.. I get the fact people will waste others time.and clearly there is a lot of that otherwise people wouldnt be so cagey about it. But how do new people get onto this path if they dont get a chance until verified? Go to a swingers club or some form of social. Either that or be prepared to wait and get lucky, if you think your profile says enough about you to be enticing enough to others. Maybe I will work on the profile since I seem to be getting a lot of negative comments about it. Back to the drawing board for me ... who knew it would be so hard " We don't really see much to critique and you didn't ask, we read it more with a sense of humour rather than intent to insult. That's why we said if you are happy it says enough about you. For us if you were within our preference we'd be happy to meet with your profile as is, more so than most as you have visible face pics so we can tell there is an attraction. | |||
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"We won't arrange a meet with anyone unless they are verified by a meet. The logic being they are less likely to be a time waster or nutcase. Can I ask what the difference between proving they are real via like cam or actually met someone from the site? Does that have a negative impact? A cam proves they are prepared to sit in front of a camera. A verification by meet means they actually met up with another person face to face. Which to us at least and therefore others also, we presume, in this world are very different. Right ok that makes sense.. I get the fact people will waste others time.and clearly there is a lot of that otherwise people wouldnt be so cagey about it. But how do new people get onto this path if they dont get a chance until verified? Go to a swingers club or some form of social. Either that or be prepared to wait and get lucky, if you think your profile says enough about you to be enticing enough to others. Maybe I will work on the profile since I seem to be getting a lot of negative comments about it. Back to the drawing board for me ... who knew it would be so hard We don't really see much to critique and you didn't ask, we read it more with a sense of humour rather than intent to insult. That's why we said if you are happy it says enough about you. For us if you were within our preference we'd be happy to meet with your profile as is, more so than most as you have visible face pics so we can tell there is an attraction." I appreciate that... I did only mean it jokingly I'd never want to insult anyone but I'm a guy with humour it kind of makes the people who read it stand out in other ways to if they are offended then they have their own story or reason to act that way I appreciate that also. I'm here to make friends and experience things I dont want war with sexually frustrated people I'll lose ...  | |||
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"I mean how does this even happen? And does it help? Know that thread you started a few days ago asking for advice, pop back and have a read through. The answers you seek are all in there. Hope that helps.
Really I thought it was taken down I couldnt find it ? "One was taken down. There's still an advice on live. Just green arrow yourself, you'll see the last 35 threads you posted to. | |||
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" I did only mean it jokingly.... " How’s that working out for you? | |||
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"You get veris from meets. You get meets by having respectful profiles, not misogynistic, homophobic rants. I'm not homophobic in the slightest... but they wouldnt stop someone in the street and ask can I blow them so why would people message it? That's disrespectful " Men in general wouldn't ask women in the street if they fancy a fuck but they do on here every day, so I'm not sure a person's sexuality has anything to do with the lack of respect they show. | |||
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"I mean how does this even happen? And does it help? " makes no difference just message people who dont care about veris they are the vast majority here   | |||
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" I did only mean it jokingly.... How’s that working out for you? " Wise words Mr Jake x | |||
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"You get veris from meets. You get meets by having respectful profiles, not misogynistic, homophobic rants. I'm not homophobic in the slightest... but they wouldnt stop someone in the street and ask can I blow them so why would people message it? That's disrespectful Men in general wouldn't ask women in the street if they fancy a fuck but they do on here every day, so I'm not sure a person's sexuality has anything to do with the lack of respect they show." Or show them their cock lmao | |||
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"You get veris from meets. You get meets by having respectful profiles, not misogynistic, homophobic rants. I'm not homophobic in the slightest... but they wouldnt stop someone in the street and ask can I blow them so why would people message it? That's disrespectful Men in general wouldn't ask women in the street if they fancy a fuck but they do on here every day, so I'm not sure a person's sexuality has anything to do with the lack of respect they show. Or show them their cock lmao " I'm in total agreement. At least wait to be asked before you disappoint the women  haha | |||
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"You get veris from meets. You get meets by having respectful profiles, not misogynistic, homophobic rants. I'm not homophobic in the slightest... but they wouldnt stop someone in the street and ask can I blow them so why would people message it? That's disrespectful Men in general wouldn't ask women in the street if they fancy a fuck but they do on here every day, so I'm not sure a person's sexuality has anything to do with the lack of respect they show. Or show them their cock lmao I'm in total agreement. At least wait to be asked before you disappoint the women haha"Lmao | |||
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"I mean how does this even happen? And does it help? " Doesn't matter a fuck, I get meets, I am genuine and plenty who are verified are married cheating unreliable wankers. | |||
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"I don’t mind if they are verified or not. I will offer to do them one afterwards. I’m a bit more wary of newbies though as been stood up 4 times by people who I can only assume have lost their bottle and 3 of them times were only a social coffee meet " You got stood up!?
Wow ok that's the first shock of the day!
But I see what you mean it's hard both ways! (No filth intended)
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"Get yourself to Townhouse, it’s one of the very best. Pick an event night and be sociable. " What's town house? | |||
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"Get yourself to Townhouse, it’s one of the very best. Pick an event night and be sociable. What's town house?" Swingers club | |||
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"Get yourself to Townhouse, it’s one of the very best. Pick an event night and be sociable. What's town house? Swingers club" I have so much to learn | |||
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