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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello, first post on here and just thought I would pose the question to asertain what is wrong with my profile? Been on here a few months and only had a handful of replies to my messages I send. I am a true gent and tailor each message. Any help would be great! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome to the forum. Your profile seems ok, you chose your age range, did not tick all the interests going and have no dick pics. I would work on a few slightly more imaginative photos, but also wouldn't count just on meeting people through here. If you can, get yourself to some organised social or a club and get others to know you. Also, post on forums, that's a good way of getting some recognition, too.

Good luck.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

dark side of the moon


"Hello and welcome to the forum. Your profile seems ok, you chose your age range, did not tick all the interests going and have no dick pics. I would work on a few slightly more imaginative photos, but also wouldn't count just on meeting people through here. If you can, get yourself to some organised social or a club and get others to know you. Also, post on forums, that's a good way of getting some recognition, too.

Good luck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better pics would do. Your profile is fine otherwise. Remember it can take single guys over a year to get established and start getting regular meets through fab too.

I also cannot recommend clubs enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf, those boxers...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

It's a numbers thing here for you single guys - you outnumber everyone else, so it's tough.

Keep your profile focused on selling you, 99% and less on what you don't want.

Whilst it's useful to know who you want to meet, it's much more important for viewers to know if they'd potentially like to meet you. You pick who you message, so let them pick you too.

Pics need to do likewise. Make them support someone being able to determine if they could be attracted to physical contact with you. Think about it. Decide what they'd need to see about you to then take their decision - and then take lots of pics, picking out the better ones that fit that goal. They can't judge if you are attractive until you make it easy enough. It also shows that you have considered what they want, instead of imposing what you think they should need.

When you don't make it easy for others, they move on to the next person, until they get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awesome! Thank you all sooo much! Big hugs all round x

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

London / Leamington Spa

Mate, welcome to the life of a male on Fab.

This is a world where men (hugely) outnumber the women who have their pick of the crop and can take the cream (no pun intended).

It is also a very superficial and subjective world, so you can hold so many great qualities but they will not come through in the harsh online world.

It's a mix of:

Persistence - which doesn't mean keep badgering the same person but just keep trying with different people

Judgement - don't get desperate in your messages. Understand who you are talking to and pitch the message appropriately. Respect their pace;

Patience - Hang in there, wait to find 'that' person who wants to take a chance on you. Play the numbers by all means but no point shagging anything with a pulse (if you have standards)

Tactics - Now I haven't done this myself but, as suggested by others, get yourself known by attending socials and clubs. I do it through forums. It's basically networking, lol

In short, it needs more strategy than finding a job! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White boxers.....just saying...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A pair of underpants with a slight bulge and a chin. That's what a woman would see, so the profile text won't matter as she's moved on. Make sure you get better photos asap.

The text has some of your personality coming through, but it's still pretty generic in parts. At least there is an effort to be unique (your words)

Good luck Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily watch u hang a few shelves but u live too far away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you peeps! New pictures will be uploaded! Thanks so much!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd happily watch u hang a few shelves but u live too far away "

I have a van....

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Yup OP those boxers are not the best! Get some better more imaginative pics done. I particularly like shoulders and thighs . I also recommend a club social. If you free tomorrow daytime I'll veri you by cam if that helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup OP those boxers are not the best! Get some better more imaginative pics done. I particularly like shoulders and thighs . I also recommend a club social. If you free tomorrow daytime I'll veri you by cam if that helps. "

Oh yes please! xx

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Yup OP those boxers are not the best! Get some better more imaginative pics done. I particularly like shoulders and thighs . I also recommend a club social. If you free tomorrow daytime I'll veri you by cam if that helps.

Oh yes please! xx

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Have PM'd you hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The text is fine the photos not so I would change them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The text is fine the photos not so I would change them. "

Thank you!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup OP those boxers are not the best! Get some better more imaginative pics done. I particularly like shoulders and thighs . I also recommend a club social. If you free tomorrow daytime I'll veri you by cam if that helps.

Oh yes please! xx

Have PM'd you hun "

Awesome

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