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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not whinge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx "

Not being harsh here mate genuinely trying to help, my advice would be get a decent haircut

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx

Not being harsh here mate genuinely trying to help, my advice would be get a decent haircut"

This

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx "

Be patient. Not everyone wants to play with married people. Respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx "

Am sure your wife has noticed you on here.. trust me she knows!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Further limit your chances by announcing that you are married on the forum

Hey you never know there might be a married woman who'd be interested?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Further limit your chances by announcing that you are married on the forum

Hey you never know there might be a married woman who'd be interested?

But surely by being upfront about it he allows those who don't like it to make an informed decision?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Create a thread about married men, stand back and watch the bun fight!!

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

Not be a married man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have any other hobbies or talents that might make you a little more interesting?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx "

You've been meeting and going to clubs, what more do you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have any other hobbies or talents that might make you a little more interesting? "

Harsh

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx "

Ask your wife she might know!

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Get a divorce maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is every monday like this in the forums? It’s made for fantastic reading across some of these posts.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Pretty much. Try a Thursday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx "

Divorce if not in an open relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx "
youve just done it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why does your wife want sex with other men but not you ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Why not play together as a couple OP? Your marriage can't be that sexless if you are both playing with others. It may even help things between you. Good luck to you both, whatever you decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guessing he wishes he’d never started this....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No need to comment on the OP's appearance. Not nice.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"No need to comment on the OP's appearance. Not nice. "

Agree it’s just down right rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No need to comment on the OP's appearance. Not nice. "

You’re totally right

Out of order

Who ever did that should not have done it

And I’m sorry I found it funny

Seriously, you’re right, nobody would like that.

I’m sorry OP

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Op you look fine to me and I like your hair why are people commenting on his looks?

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

Bloody hell you can see why people get intimidated by the forums. Shocking.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Just be yourself, be sociabl, pro active, try organised social events and clubs, get yourself noticed.

And OP....please do ignore the rude, offensive and unneccesary comments others have made in this thread. People are harsh and quick to judge without knowing facts.

Take no bloody notice.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Bloody hell you can see why people get intimidated by the forums. Shocking."

Particularly nasty comments from some on various threads today. Don't know why.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Just be yourself, be sociabl, pro active, try organised social events and clubs, get yourself noticed.

And OP....please do ignore the rude, offensive and unneccesary comments others have made in this thread. People are harsh and quick to judge without knowing facts.

Take no bloody notice."

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

"Bloody hell you can see why people get intimidated by the forums. Shocking.

Particularly nasty comments from some on various threads today. Don't know why. "

Yes I’ve read a few also.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Nobody reads the profiles, everybody knows that.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Nobody reads the profiles, everybody knows that. "

But you should before making comments about someone

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Nobody reads the profiles, everybody knows that.

But you should before making comments about someone "

Yes, you really should. And before messaging them.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Blimey when was the fire sale on pitchforks??

Judgemental much!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Nobody reads the profiles, everybody knows that.

But you should before making comments about someone

Yes, you really should. And before messaging them. "

This isn’t about people messaging you, it’s about people making derogatory comments to the OP, making assumptions without reading and just being damn right rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody reads the profiles, everybody knows that.

But you should before making comments about someone

Yes, you really should. And before messaging them.

This isn’t about people messaging you, it’s about people making derogatory comments to the OP, making assumptions without reading and just being damn right rude "

I couldn't agree more it shows who the hyenas are on this forum sadly.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

This place can be really nasty at times

To the people who want to attack others/ be personal/ be abusive, please read the rules before you do, it may save a ban

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Nobody reads the profiles, everybody knows that.

But you should before making comments about someone

Yes, you really should. And before messaging them.

This isn’t about people messaging you, it’s about people making derogatory comments to the OP, making assumptions without reading and just being damn right rude "

Not having a pop at you. I’m saying nobody reads the profiles. This includes (men) sending messages.

I’m agreeing we all should, but the reality is that nobody does.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Nobody reads the profiles, everybody knows that.

But you should before making comments about someone

Yes, you really should. And before messaging them.

This isn’t about people messaging you, it’s about people making derogatory comments to the OP, making assumptions without reading and just being damn right rude

I couldn't agree more it shows who the hyenas are on this forum sadly."

It does and seem to be out in force today... Monday madness !

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Back to the OP

To the OP, your relationship with your wife is no one else's business, I hpe you don't feel the need to reply to the questions/ accusations.

To your question, same as advice given to anyone, make sure your profile and pics are the best they can be and be patient. Some people do play with married people

Welcome to the forum, don't be put off from sticking around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing I did was read his profile, and saw straight away that he’s here with his wife’s consent. I couldn’t understand the nastiness directed at him either. Absolutely no need.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"The first thing I did was read his profile, and saw straight away that he’s here with his wife’s consent. I couldn’t understand the nastiness directed at him either. Absolutely no need. "

This

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To be fair people don't need to read profiles to post a comment but to be so nasty when they do comment is really not pleasant.

Either way, lets get back to the OP please and get him some advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx "

Take no notice of the hyenas you have a valid question and if they can't read and look at your profile before commenting.

Ok its not just a madrried man issue talk to all men on here and they struggle for replies. There are various reasons but in general women get less hassle if they don't reply if they are not interested.

So what you need to do is make yourself interesting to people make them take notice and that's through pictures and the text on your profile. Ignore those who say people don't read profiles people do or most do (only the dimwits don't) you have to get their attention so profile and first message counts. The expression first impressions count is very apt to fab so make sure you make a good first impression. Good luck OP hope things pick up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what way do you want to get noticed?

What I mean is what is it you want to get out of this site/swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If anybody else has any personell attacts on me. For writting in the forum you are going to be reported and hopefully barred from the site x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"If anybody else has any personell attacts on me. For writting in the forum you are going to be reported and hopefully barred from the site x "

I think the moderators are on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anybody else has any personell attacts on me. For writting in the forum you are going to be reported and hopefully barred from the site x

I think the moderators are on it

Yep. Now then let's work out how to get you noticed OP.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"If anybody else has any personell attacts on me. For writting in the forum you are going to be reported and hopefully barred from the site x

I think the moderators are on it

Yep. Now then let's work out how to get you noticed OP.

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By *mc83Man
over a year ago

bridgend

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx

Not being harsh here mate genuinely trying to help, my advice would be get a decent haircut"

Absolutely!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why its up to me about my personell apearance i like the way my hair is x i shouldnt have to change xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not be a married man "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Why its up to me about my personell apearance i like the way my hair is x i shouldnt have to change xx"
I like your hair x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why its up to me about my personell apearance i like the way my hair is x i shouldnt have to change xx"

Your hair is just fine.

So in what way do you feel you want to be noticed. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Why its up to me about my personell apearance i like the way my hair is x i shouldnt have to change xx"

Just report the insults OP. No need for them, take advice from people who have been helpful. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will xx

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I don't go near married guys because I've been cheated on, and I wouldn't like to do the same to another woman.

They all say they are genuine and trustworthy, when that's obviously not the truth

I don't want to invest my time and heart in a relationship that's not going anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get that but wife is fully aware and does play herself every now and again wich we are both very fine with xx i no its everbodys cup of tea xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that but wife is fully aware and does play herself every now and again wich we are both very fine with xx i no its everbodys cup of tea xx"
you know it's everybody's cup of tea i dont drink it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol xx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Why its up to me about my personell apearance i like the way my hair is x i shouldnt have to change xx"

You don't need to change it. You wear your hair how you like it.

Ignore the childish pathetic comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not be a married man "

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"Whats a married man got to do on here to get noticed xxxx "

Be honest and if wife doesn't want that sort of relationship get a divorce. Make a choice single and play out married and pay with ur wife

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By *ugarandspice9569Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

If yous actually look before assuming hes playing away, him and his wife are on here. Bbw ckick if you look.

Ps id put better pics up

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"If yous actually look before assuming hes playing away, him and his wife are on here. Bbw ckick if you look.

Ps id put better pics up

This is true but a sexless marriage!!! Something not ringing true!

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By *ugarandspice9569Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

"If yous actually look before assuming hes playing away, him and his wife are on here. Bbw ckick if you look.

Ps id put better pics up

This is true but a sexless marriage!!! Something not ringing true! "

Theres veris tho, like just cos they dont have sex doesnt mean shes not knowing about this haha.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

To be honest, I know one of the people who verified you. I also know that she's a a very nice and popular lady.

Getting a verification from her should actually help you in the long run!

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"If yous actually look before assuming hes playing away, him and his wife are on here. Bbw ckick if you look.

Ps id put better pics up

This is true but a sexless marriage!!! Something not ringing true!

Theres veris tho, like just cos they dont have sex doesnt mean shes not knowing about this haha. "

I am not questioning wether she knows or not.. am questioning why she not having sex with him! As he says he in a sexless marriage !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If yous actually look before assuming hes playing away, him and his wife are on here. Bbw ckick if you look.

Ps id put better pics up

This is true but a sexless marriage!!! Something not ringing true!

Theres veris tho, like just cos they dont have sex doesnt mean shes not knowing about this haha.

I am not questioning wether she knows or not.. am questioning why she not having sex with him! As he says he in a sexless marriage !"

Why is that anyones business. He simply asked a question and not for his marriage, looks and profile to be disected.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"If yous actually look before assuming hes playing away, him and his wife are on here. Bbw ckick if you look.

Ps id put better pics up

This is true but a sexless marriage!!! Something not ringing true!

Theres veris tho, like just cos they dont have sex doesnt mean shes not knowing about this haha.

I am not questioning wether she knows or not.. am questioning why she not having sex with him! As he says he in a sexless marriage !

Why is that anyones business. He simply asked a question and not for his marriage, looks and profile to be disected. "

I am giving my opinion what would make me pass him by.. as an answer to his original question!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Back to the OP

To the OP, your relationship with your wife is no one else's business, I hpe you don't feel the need to reply to the questions/ accusations.

To your question, same as advice given to anyone, make sure your profile and pics are the best they can be and be patient. Some people do play with married people

Welcome to the forum, don't be put off from sticking around"

Point of order, it does matter if the relationship spills into others business, congruence is an odd concept,

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Back to the OP

To the OP, your relationship with your wife is no one else's business, I hpe you don't feel the need to reply to the questions/ accusations.

To your question, same as advice given to anyone, make sure your profile and pics are the best they can be and be patient. Some people do play with married people

Welcome to the forum, don't be put off from sticking around

Point of order, it does matter if the relationship spills into others business, congruence is an odd concept,"

It doesn't matter to people who have no intention of meeting him and are just trying to butt into his business

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Why is that anyones business. He simply asked a question and not for his marriage, looks and profile to be disected. "

He is asking why he is not having much luck, it is allowed to give him advice about why he could be struggling

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

OK as people still don't seem to be interested in helping I am going to shut this

To the OP, as I say don't be put off from posting and good luck

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