FabSwingers.com forum: Do people meet any where other than clubs

By *usic-manMan
over a year ago

Biddenham

Hi there!

As a single guy myself I do understand your problem, as in many cases we tend to be treated as lepers by some couples and single ladies because of an obvious lack of focus by some.

Unfortunately it's arrogant self centred guys who give ALL single guys a bad name through their stupidity and insensitivity!

The secret is.... MAKE AN EFFORT when writing an introductory message. One liners, text speak and inane "Hi! How are you" type communication is an instant turn off for them.

I've been quite successful developing connections which have lead to long lasting, positive meets with couples and ladies simply because I've enjoyed writing a decent introduction that includes something uniquely relevant to the person/people you're writing to . This is a clear indication that your message is NOT a quick cut and paste too!

Also .... before writing to anyone make sure you READ ALL of their profile notes as often there'll be a key word or phrase at the end of their intro that you must include in your message title or somewhere in the first line of the text body to prove to them that you have indeed read all of their notes.

Don't waste your or their time by chancing your arm when you clearly don't fit their criteria ok.

All the best and happy hunting.

Music-man.