FabSwingers.com forum: Difficult to get replies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Finding it very difficult to get replies never mind verifications..

Feel as though I may be stuck in a vicious circle of being here too long to get a reply now which is only going to get worse as time goes on, anyone seeing similar?

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By *piphoneMan
over a year ago

across the universe

Yes finding it hard work

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Patience my young padawan.

Your time will present itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why take a friendly brake to refresh yourself or hit up the social events in the forums ? It is hard at times but try keep your cool and composure

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Very common for guys.

Make sure your profile presents the best version of you and you stand out. Messages, polite and personal based on profile text.

Socials and clubs are good to get verifications, although verifications are no guarantee.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

You can’t be on here too long..

We’re cautious of meeting Newbies rather than lifers.

Please take this constructively, from a couples perspective but also as someone who was a single guy on here for a long while.

You need some more pictures, interesting ones that lead people to think about what you may be like to spend time with, not multiple cock shots as some do.

You need to adjust your profile, there’s little in it really to draw people into wanting to meet you. What would people benefit from meeting you etc.

Change is always good.

Change your profile regularly, update your status.

You need to stand out.

Have fun..!

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

It really can take time I assure you .. sit back and just enjoy the view and it will happen , clubs and social events are best ..

note to self , I must visit more events

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I message occasionally and very rarely get replys; that's Fab for you.

I go to clubs so getting no response on here doesn't bother me, I get all the fun and excitement I need elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses, I'll make some further changes to my profile and see how I get on, just find it hard to talk about myself, although compared to a few weeks ago it's current state is a huge improvement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of profiles with not a lot of info. Basically those with big massive cocks or big boobies and sculptured bodies. Which are great to look at. Yes I admit to perving on a few. It’s very difficult to get the message or impression of yourself to prospective suitors. It’s laughable when guys say things like don’t treat me like an sex object. Or give double standards. Just because your genes and chromosomes is arranged in a specific order to be desirable, we all feel and hurt. Everyone find attractiveness in lots of areas. Unfortunately this is the way people meet in 21st century. Gone are the days of going out nightclubbing and meeting people in the flesh. If you was the lucky ones and good fuck at the end of the night or pair off one or more. Then again sure like most of us saw people through the beer goggles, and regretted our choice from the night before, making a swift exit or getting them out the door.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Research I say this all the time, when I first started using dating apps (as my Male self) such as Tinder etc.. I was getting nowhere. Then I did some research online, took different photos added more interesting text, suddenly I was getting more matches.

Obviously it's more difficult on here but some rules do apply, in the end this is about matching people, do the work and see the results.

Or you could go to a club

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