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By *ogi69booboo OP   Couple
over a year ago

conwy

how often does everyone chat to one another b4 a meet every time we chat for the wk when ot comes to the day never happens what we doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average about 7 days before a meet

Not usually any longer except the one FB I'm with now.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

I think you just get a feel for it. I’ve had socials and meets within 24 hours of first contact, and some that half taken months to come to fruition. Do you do phone or video chats before hand? That often sorts out the wasters.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

It all depends on the person I tend to go to phone calls fairly quickly if there is a spark as you not only get the words but you can get far more of an idea through tone and the instant reply in a conversation then it can be anything from 48hrs to a couple of weeks it just depends on free time.

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By *ogi69booboo OP   Couple
over a year ago

conwy

u had many let downs always happen to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to me to. I talk to people getting on well we even become friends on here then after a while they suddenly stop and that’s it...gone!!!

I’m getting a bit disheartened on here x

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By *oodstaminaMan
over a year ago

London

Unfortunately I haven't met anyone in this website yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies. I have been chatting with someone over the past year and not met, but have also met others within 24hrs of first message. Personally, providing I am free, I am happy to meet for a social early on as it doesn’t take much of my time. From a woman’s perspective, I imagine a lot of time could be wasted on socials as they probably have much more opportunity.

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends. I've spoken to some ladies/couples for a couple of months before a meet and some a week or so.

I tend to a club or go to socials as you get a better feel for people and you can see their personalities etc.

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Oh I love to chat with the right person. Which takes some time to establish. Then I love the build up and it’s easier for me to see if we are on the same wavelength. The chat makes the meeting explosive. I always phone call and video chat prior to meeting. I think if you come out out of a video chat feeling even more excited than the meet has a good chance of being amazing! Just my two cents worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found a lot of people do ghost people all of a sudden with no warning.

Also there are a lot of time wasters who just want a quick play online.

Don't take it to heart. Anyone would be lucky to chat to you

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

I like chatting. Puts me off people with no chat

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"how often does everyone chat to one another b4 a meet every time we chat for the wk when ot comes to the day never happens what we doing wrong"

For me the chatting is the main part of being on Fab, if it leads to something then even better. I’ve chatted to some for over a year before a meet and some a couple of days.

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