FabSwingers.com forum: Actual Meet Now reality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know my profile is not very attractive publicly but often see profile updates of Females or MF couples that I’d like to meet posting updates wanting to meet now but not even open your message.

I’m trying to stay discrete but new to this also so still not had any interest.

I didn’t think it was gonna be such massive competition.

I want to experience exiting adventurous fun

If anyone local fancies coming to cheer me up.

I’m sad but don’t fall for my sob story lol

Give a new lad a chance instead I don’t think il disappoint

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By *orth_hantscplCouple
over a year ago

camberley

It’s not blind date, that’s the reality for most on here. Guys that don’t have pics or don’t send them early on seem to be more hard work than guys that do have pics

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By *atthuMan
over a year ago

carnforth

I'm looking for a meet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for a meet now"

Good luck

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Theres being discreet and then theres zero effort expecting maximum reward. Theres soo soo soo many more that are discreet yet get what they want. Most check a profile before opening a message, would you really open a message from yourself op?

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By *heplayerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

A good way to meet is go to a local club , socialise be yourself being a single male on here is hard but once people realise your a nice guy and are on here for the right reason you will get more meets , sending 100 random messages will get you no where.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 days ago you posted a thread where you were advised a simple thing - put pictures on. You're still in the same position now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics? Why would anyone want to meet you?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Thinking it’s a boo boo !

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I know my profile is not very attractive publicly but often see profile updates of Females or MF couples that I’d like to meet posting updates wanting to meet now but not even open your message.

I’m trying to stay discrete but new to this also so still not had any interest.

I didn’t think it was gonna be such massive competition.

I want to experience exiting adventurous fun

If anyone local fancies coming to cheer me up.

I’m sad but don’t fall for my sob story lol

Give a new lad a chance instead I don’t think il disappoint"

7 days ago you asked for advice and took none of it.

Here you are a week later asking again.

Whilst you're not obliged or compelled to take the advice your proffered, it does seem like a rather pointless waste of time.

If you're hoping someone will take pity on you and meet, it's highly unlikely.

Pop into the lounge and look through threads with 150+ posts.

Look at the male profiles, the overwhelming majority will have at the very least an avatar pic.

The overwhelming majority will have an informative biog.

The overwhelming majority will be verified by meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear OP, you are just one of thousands of single men on here. In order to stand out, like you have been told before on more than one occasion, you need to make your profile look enticing. To do that (again, I'm repeating the advice you have already been given), you need photos and proper bio. Regarding photos- you can still remain discreet yet have photos on your profile. Nobody's asking you to put face pic there for everyone to see, but do be creative and show us how you look like- body, bum (sorry, I am a bum person lol), chest etc?

Bio- tell us why we should meet you, what you can offer that others can't. Just claiming the size of your cock is not enough.

You are the master of your own luck on here. If you put no effort in, you can't expect rewards.

And it is possible your messages were read and then marked back as unread.

Good luck and hopefully you will take some of the advice on board.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"I know my profile is not very attractive publicly but often see profile updates of Females or MF couples that I’d like to meet posting updates wanting to meet now but not even open your message.

I’m trying to stay discrete but new to this also so still not had any interest.

I didn’t think it was gonna be such massive competition.

I want to experience exiting adventurous fun

If anyone local fancies coming to cheer me up.

I’m sad but don’t fall for my sob story lol

Give a new lad a chance instead I don’t think il disappoint"

I think you are confusing a couple of things.

Meet now does not mean meet anyone, they are not desperate for sex, just short of time.

You wanting to meet them does not make them want to meet you. We all have to have something to offer. If we don't then we will be rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would never even consider someone reluctant to supply a pic , can't put it any simpler than that , there are plenty of guys on here prepared to make the effort , you have to remember you're not doing anyone a favour OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know my profile is not very attractive publicly but often see profile updates of Females or MF couples that I’d like to meet posting updates wanting to meet now but not even open your message.

I’m trying to stay discrete but new to this also so still not had any interest.

I didn’t think it was gonna be such massive competition.

I want to experience exiting adventurous fun

If anyone local fancies coming to cheer me up.

I’m sad but don’t fall for my sob story lol

Give a new lad a chance instead I don’t think il disappoint"

It's not all about you

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I know my profile is not very attractive publicly but often see profile updates of Females or MF couples that I’d like to meet posting updates wanting to meet now but not even open your message.

I’m trying to stay discrete but new to this also so still not had any interest.

I didn’t think it was gonna be such massive competition.

I want to experience exiting adventurous fun

If anyone local fancies coming to cheer me up.

I’m sad but don’t fall for my sob story lol

Give a new lad a chance instead I don’t think il disappoint

It's not all about you"

OCH !

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I know my profile is not very attractive publicly but often see profile updates of Females or MF couples that I’d like to meet posting updates wanting to meet now but not even open your message.

I’m trying to stay discrete but new to this also so still not had any interest.

I didn’t think it was gonna be such massive competition.

I want to experience exiting adventurous fun

If anyone local fancies coming to cheer me up.

I’m sad but don’t fall for my sob story lol

Give a new lad a chance instead I don’t think il disappoint"

Judy because they want to meet now, doesn't mean they want to meet you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP Did you go to the Liverpool social on Sunday ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"7 days ago you posted a thread where you were advised a simple thing - put pictures on. You're still in the same position now..."

This, and it's not blind date.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I know my profile is not very attractive publicly but often see profile updates of Females or MF couples that I’d like to meet posting updates wanting to meet now but not even open your message.

I’m trying to stay discrete but new to this also so still not had any interest.

I didn’t think it was gonna be such massive competition.

I want to experience exiting adventurous fun

If anyone local fancies coming to cheer me up.

I’m sad but don’t fall for my sob story lol

Give a new lad a chance instead I don’t think il disappoint

Judy because they want to meet now, doesn't mean they want to meet you. "

Dunno who Judy is, it should have said just.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know my profile is not very attractive publicly but often see profile updates of Females or MF couples that I’d like to meet posting updates wanting to meet now but not even open your message.

I’m trying to stay discrete but new to this also so still not had any interest.

I didn’t think it was gonna be such massive competition.

I want to experience exiting adventurous fun

If anyone local fancies coming to cheer me up.

I’m sad but don’t fall for my sob story lol

Give a new lad a chance instead I don’t think il disappoint

Judy because they want to meet now, doesn't mean they want to meet you.

Dunno who Judy is, it should have said just."

Judy has a point

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I know my profile is not very attractive publicly but often see profile updates of Females or MF couples that I’d like to meet posting updates wanting to meet now but not even open your message.

I’m trying to stay discrete but new to this also so still not had any interest.

I didn’t think it was gonna be such massive competition.

I want to experience exiting adventurous fun

If anyone local fancies coming to cheer me up.

I’m sad but don’t fall for my sob story lol

Give a new lad a chance instead I don’t think il disappoint

7 days ago you asked for advice and took none of it.

Here you are a week later asking again.

Whilst you're not obliged or compelled to take the advice your proffered, it does seem like a rather pointless waste of time.

If you're hoping someone will take pity on you and meet, it's highly unlikely.

Pop into the lounge and look through threads with 150+ posts.

Look at the male profiles, the overwhelming majority will have at the very least an avatar pic.

The overwhelming majority will have an informative biog.

The overwhelming majority will be verified by meeting.

This.

Blank or near blank profile = look at profile in stealth mode, delete message unread.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

The reality of meeting is its all about getting someone's initial interest. To do so you have to make your messages and profile interesting to people and that is all down to you. Remember there are lots of other people on here and they may appeal more to them than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your current status would not make me want to meet you now.. or later in fact.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Is there a reason why you can't put a pic up?

We all want to be discreet,but everyone can put some sort of pic up that won't identify them.

Your profile needs to sell you and attract people to you,until it does you will continue to struggle.

People have offered you advice on 2 threads,so have a look through and take some of their suggestions.

Miss

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

My reading from 'being discreet' equals untrustworthy, therefore wouldn't go there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

UNLOS no surprise their then...

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By *anmyraWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"UNLOS no surprise their then..."

He finally realised it isn't a free prostitution service!!

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Wait what !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for popping in, OP.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Thanks for popping in, OP."

Lol questions so many !!! I know u mean site but

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"It’s not blind date, that’s the reality for most on here. Guys that don’t have pics or don’t send them early on seem to be more hard work than guys that do have pics"

It really is though. I'd estimate 50% of female profiles in my catchment area have maybe a one line profile text and *very* vague photos if they have any at all, they also expect long opening letters from people with face pics only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for popping in, OP.

Lol questions so many !!! I know u mean site but

? I don't know what you mean ..

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Thanks for popping in, OP.

Lol questions so many !!! I know u mean site but

? I don't know what you mean .."

Bless you

. Think you’re lying though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for popping in, OP.

Lol questions so many !!! I know u mean site but

? I don't know what you mean ..

Bless you

. Think you’re lying though "

I honestly don't know what your reply means. Please enlighten me.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Thanks for popping in, OP.

Lol questions so many !!! I know u mean site but

? I don't know what you mean ..

Bless you

. Think you’re lying though

I honestly don't know what your reply means. Please enlighten me."

How pictures? In person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"Thanks for popping in, OP.

Lol questions so many !!! I know u mean site but

? I don't know what you mean ..

Bless you

. Think you’re lying though

I honestly don't know what your reply means. Please enlighten me.

How pictures? In person? "

I think the problem here is that one of you is speaking Yoda.

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