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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Afternoon All

I've noticed a few profiles that state they won't answer messages which start with anything like

"hi how are you!" Or "Morning and their name"

How can you start things off otherwise? Or do you just dive straight in to compliments and what you like about them and details of yourself?

Thanks

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

You could read a person's profile and comment accordingly.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

*sigh*

"Hello, my name is Xxx. I live in Yyyy. I have read your profile and noticed that you like aaaa. I also enjoy aaaa because..."

Etc., etc.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Xxx, I don't know where Yyy is, give me the post code and I'll make it worth your while.

Not a stalker.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

It's a bit of a lottery but there are ways to improve your chances

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Write about their profile. Particularly the text.

Why are you messaging? Tell them that.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Afternoon All

I've noticed a few profiles that state they won't answer messages which start with anything like

"hi how are you!" Or "Morning and their name"

How can you start things off otherwise? Or do you just dive straight in to compliments and what you like about them and details of yourself?

Thanks

"

I totally ignore the overly perverted, demanding, entitled and lazy messages. If they shown they read my profile and have something to offer, I'm more likely to reply. If they really polite and i don't fancy their profile, i always send a polite message saying no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question should be what you write as a first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really lol I just tried it got an instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best bet is to read someone's profile and find out what they are looknig for and structure it that way. Lets be honest people are not stupid here and when someone sends a generic message it tells them you are only half interested so tend not to reply.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Best bet is to read someone's profile and find out what they are looknig for and structure it that way. Lets be honest people are not stupid here and when someone sends a generic message it tells them you are only half interested so tend not to reply. "

"Hi how are you" reads like "you're female, and I can message you. Copy-paste!"

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By *oxy180511Man
over a year ago

Basildon in essex

I have a how . . seen a profile with a video attached . how can you do this??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I have a how . . seen a profile with a video attached . how can you do this??"

There are lots of threads about this. Search around. It's a trial.

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By *oxy180511Man
over a year ago

Basildon in essex

I have . even asked the profile that has it . no joy though

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By *artinsureMan
over a year ago

acton

I’m always very polite in my messages I always make a point of reading the women’s profile first so I can point out any interesting things they say about themselves but still 99% of my messages get deleted, however I feel I’ve got a lot to offer both mentally and physically and I have a lot of experience behind me so yeah it’s a bit disheartening but it is what it is, there loss really, never judge a book by the cover as the saying goes

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I have . even asked the profile that has it . no joy though "

There are probably hundreds of threads in the forum on this topic. This is not one. Hijacking is rude.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" I’m always very polite in my messages I always make a point of reading the women’s profile first so I can point out any interesting things they say about themselves but still 99% of my messages get deleted, however I feel I’ve got a lot to offer both mentally and physically and I have a lot of experience behind me so yeah it’s a bit disheartening but it is what it is, there loss really, never judge a book by the cover as the saying goes "

Lots of men say the same. It's a tough market.

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By *artinsureMan
over a year ago

acton

It is indeed lol Hopefully soon I have better luck

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