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By *omicNerd OP   Man
over a year ago

Northallerton

Hi all,

I keep writing my profile and to me it seems okay, there isn't anything negative on it. I don't have many rude photos, maybe one and people seem to delete messages.

My photos once I can smile probably need updating as I have recently had surgery on my nose (smiling is a tad painful)

I think my other problem is making contact, I think I am to polite with "hi, how are you?" yet in the same breath I'm not kind of person to jump in and send "fancy meeting up". I like to chat before hand.

Hope you fabbers can help me

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I know it's difficult but you need to be more imaginative with a first message. Women get loads of messages saying "hi, how are you"? every day and usually never bother to reply.

I hope you are pleased with your nose surgery and wish you success on here.

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By *omicNerd OP   Man
over a year ago

Northallerton

Oh yes really happy with the shape of it, it is a huge improvement on how it was before. Just waiting to be able to breathe fully through it, which could take a little time.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Great news.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mention something in the profile that stood out to you when you message them. Not just about photos lol. But if there is something there you like it can spark up a conversation

Good luck and have fun

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I like your profile and pictures, only slight issue is the bite comment, I hate that, but that's a personal thing.

Often what is lacking in a profile is the personality of that person, so offering a before and after of your nose, is actually quite endearing

I like your username as well, immediately attractive to someone who has a common interest.

I doubt you want to meet a 99 year old, maybe change the age, but apart from that.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Good luck with your new nose Op & im glad your happy with it. Your confidence will receive a boost & That`s a good thing.

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By *omicNerd OP   Man
over a year ago

Northallerton


"I like your profile and pictures, only slight issue is the bite comment, I hate that, but that's a personal thing.

Often what is lacking in a profile is the personality of that person, so offering a before and after of your nose, is actually quite endearing

I like your username as well, immediately attractive to someone who has a common interest.

I doubt you want to meet a 99 year old, maybe change the age, but apart from that. "

Shall take that bit out and change age range. I've not actually seen a 99 year old here yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its alight there are worse profiles on here not accommodating won't help but then nobody has a perfect profile on here so good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody has told you to go to a club yet thats a surprise!

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By *omicNerd OP   Man
over a year ago

Northallerton


"Nobody has told you to go to a club yet thats a surprise! "

I would like to, but think going alone I would find it awkward. Prefer to go with someone who been before. Yeah I know not been able to accomdate is an issue, seems most can't...student loan to pay off, cheaper to live at home to pay it all off annoyingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody has told you to go to a club yet thats a surprise!

I would like to, but think going alone I would find it awkward. Prefer to go with someone who been before. Yeah I know not been able to accomdate is an issue, seems most can't...student loan to pay off, cheaper to live at home to pay it all off annoyingly."

Most can't because their Mrs would batter them

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Im shocked nobody has told you to go to a club!

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By *omicNerd OP   Man
over a year ago

Northallerton


"Im shocked nobody has told you to go to a club! "

No one has invited me, I would be to nervous and anxious to go on my own lol.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Im shocked nobody has told you to go to a club!

No one has invited me, I would be to nervous and anxious to go on my own lol. "

P.S go to a club

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey


"Im shocked nobody has told you to go to a club!

No one has invited me, I would be to nervous and anxious to go on my own lol. "

Imagine that your invisible (it works).

Adventure only exists outside of your comfort zone

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By *asy markMan
over a year ago

rawtenstall

I have a boring profile but it works for me ??

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey


"I have a boring profile but it works for me ??"

Fairplay.. 1 coffee seven months ago, You must be proud.

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By *asy markMan
over a year ago

rawtenstall

Lol you know nothing

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have a boring profile but it works for me ??

Fairplay.. 1 coffee seven months ago, You must be proud. "

No, it means that the first time they met was socially for coffee. She does not need to write a report each time she sees him.

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By *anillaboyMan
over a year ago

london


"I know it's difficult but you need to be more imaginative with a first message. Women get loads of messages saying "hi, how are you"? every day and usually never bother to reply.

I hope you are pleased with your nose surgery and wish you success on here. "

If you don’t mind and i apologise for asking , What actually means more imaginative, can u give a short example pls?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

For example if you were messaging me you could say "I see from your verifications you have been to several different clubs. Which do you prefer" ?

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By *omicNerd OP   Man
over a year ago

Northallerton

Afternoon all, it has been a while since I hsve needed to revive this thred for profile help.

I love writing to people and always pick out something on their profile that catches my eye, maybe its something they are interested in, or I have spotted something in their photos but alot of the time my messages are just deleted with no reply, I underatand I may not be everyones cup of tea, but what happened to just good old fashioned chatting?

I just wondered if any of you delightful people could suggest some tweaks/edits for me.

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