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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Set up this profile over a year ago but for reasons decided not to be active on the site now I am single I'm back to dip my toe in but having no joy been honest on my profile being honest in my messages not being vulgar or rude in any way but still no joy what am I doing wrong

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Right.

Profile photo is good- you have a great body. Maybe a few more?

Text.. you need to work on your punctuation (no biggie) but axe the last paragraph. It’s drivel and it made me yawn.

Remember that we single females are way outnumbered by single guys, so you do need to stand out. With a profile photo like yours, a message with a face photo would always get a response from me.

Hope this helps.

Ax

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

If you don’t want messages from men, change your filters so they can’t message you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you ladies much appreciated.

And I have taken out the last paragraph don't want anyone yawning on me. I have been sending a face picture with my messages??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would have been better deleting and re putting up many people just look at a profile a year old and unverified and come to the conclusion that the person isn't serious.

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By *hine100Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"You would have been better deleting and re putting up many people just look at a profile a year old and unverified and come to the conclusion that the person isn't serious. "

I'm thinking I might have the same problem. No one answers me now whereas before I took a break I got a couple of replies. That or maybe I'm a few months older and less appealing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think I should explain that on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I second the profile being a year old and then you say you’re new to it. Maybe add you’ve ‘returned’. Also, your profile pic makes me wonder if it’s been pinched off somewhere... that’s just me being suspicious but enough to make me skip by your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank for that I'll give that a go and the picture has definitely not been pinched it is me but in a strange way I will take that as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling too I'm pretty new here. Dont know what I'm doing wrong tbh Haha. My profile isnt great I know but Is that what's off putting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also great arse but did you pinch that picture from somewhere else

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By *lueEyedMischiefMan
over a year ago

Norwich/Leicester

Hi everyone I've been on here a while now and I'm struggling to meet people on here still waiting for my first meet. Can anyone help or give me some tips and advice as I'm worried and desperate now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been here a lil while now but only active recently. But I would urge dont get desperate as I'm sure majority of women find that off putting. Being here doesnt give is the right or the entitlement to get a meet

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi everyone I've been on here a while now and I'm struggling to meet people on here still waiting for my first meet. Can anyone help or give me some tips and advice as I'm worried and desperate now?"
no pics or text.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Also great arse but did you pinch that picture from somewhere else "
profile looks fine, some more pics would be good though.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm struggling too I'm pretty new here. Dont know what I'm doing wrong tbh Haha. My profile isnt great I know but Is that what's off putting? "

2 pics and no text is your problem. Also instantly trying to get people on Kik is off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also great arse but did you pinch that picture from somewhere else "

Far point but I have private photos. Often shown, but I’m not looking for new meets so Ive god them. If I was wanting meets I’d have more of a selection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God!!! *hid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also great arse but did you pinch that picture from somewhere else profile looks fine, some more pics would be good though. "

OP wants profile feedback, not me

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP I agree with the comments to delete the profile and start a fresh one. Then you won't have to explain why you have been here over a year with no verifications. Good luck. You have a great body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Set up this profile over a year ago but for reasons decided not to be active on the site now I am single I'm back to dip my toe in but having no joy been honest on my profile being honest in my messages not being vulgar or rude in any way but still no joy what am I doing wrong"

Have a look at the bottom of my bio. There's some great advice for single guys on here. It's a copy and paste . It's a great read and really worth putting the time in. It's worked for a few guys I know on here . Happy Fabbing mate and keep smiling

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Think of your profile as selling a car, good pictures but must be more than just the boot. A decent description of what it'll do, especially MPG and how old it is. And finally any slight issues, you know no MOT etc..

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