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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are new to the site and have been updating our profile as we go. Could we ask for someone to review and advise on anything we could improve on? We are not immediate face pic senders and we know that’s not inviting to people. We have found 1 couple in few weeks that appear genuine and serious, barring that it’s fake profile central on here. Any help and tips are appreciated on how we can better converse, find and get in contact with likeminded couples. Thanks

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Profile text is good, though I skimmed it. But photos of you both together would be good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good point on the together pics, thanks

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Why do you think they are fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile is not perfect by anyway shape or form. What we picked up on on yours, your limiting thecage your looking for by having just a ten year window. The text is generally good but you have repeated a couple of points. You could also go on some socials or go to a club, xtasia or klub kink are quite good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No verification etc you can tell and we have been on here a matter of weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Too much text, if you could reduce it by 1/3-1/2 that would help. The Sydney University stuff is bollocks (see the site FAQs), get rid. And most people won't want to waste their time taking to prime without face photos in case there's no attraction, so I'd rethink your policy on that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Points taken, thank you. our boundaries will remain the same on faces, although appreciate we may have to be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say like-minded what do you mean specifically? Your interests don't state soft swing or full swap (or safe sex for that matter which is what many swingers will look for) so it's a little unclear. Are you brand new to this lifestyle?

Jx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a club. Great way to meet other couples. Clubs are super discreet and a great way to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No verification etc you can tell and we have been on here a matter of weeks"

The staff at the club's will normally be happy to verify new members and if you meet and get on with anyone they will probably verify you too.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"No verification etc you can tell and we have been on here a matter of weeks"

No veris does not mean they fakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No verification etc you can tell and we have been on here a matter of weeks"

If someone hast been verified and has been here 3-6 months I tend to not Message them as I believe they could be fake or pic hunters not that my pics would be any value to them

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"No verification etc you can tell and we have been on here a matter of weeks

If someone hast been verified and has been here 3-6 months I tend to not Message them as I believe they could be fake or pic hunters not that my pics would be any value to them "

I totaly get that, and cause to maybe be weary but there are lots of people on here who dont have veris and Many chose not to show them at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As in a secure couple looking to speak other secure couples, not FWB and happy to chat first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No verification etc you can tell and we have been on here a matter of weeks

If someone hast been verified and has been here 3-6 months I tend to not Message them as I believe they could be fake or pic hunters not that my pics would be any value to them

I totaly get that, and cause to maybe be weary but there are lots of people on here who dont have veris and Many chose not to show them at all. "

No harm in having verifications from socials though surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The minimum should be they are verified at the very least with fab. A pic with your name on ain’t hard, unless they are just super wary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Genuine verifications are fine. Thanks for all your responses, points taken and actioned (well some)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The minimum should be they are verified at the very least with fab. A pic with your name on ain’t hard, unless they are just super wary"

I got stung when I first joined by someone who I arranged a meet with. Suddenly blocked with no explanation!! I was naive but you learn to spot the fakes fast on here.

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