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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Either I just get ignored or no one ever seems to be interested so I have to in a if it's my profile or if im just that repulsive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going to a local club or social to get your feet on the ladder

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Posting more than one topic on the same thing.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury / Lee on solent

There's loads of guys looking for young fellas like you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not working here just give it a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here 2 months OP.

What were you expecting?

This is not instashag.

Most single guys are on here at least six months before they get even a hint of the possibility of getting a meet.

The ratio of men to women here is MASSIVE. Something like 100 men to every woman. Yes, it really is that big a gap.

Women often get utterly bombarded with messages, often more than they can cope with.

They're only likely to reply to the ones that really catch their interest and, more importantly, those from people that they would actually consider meeting. That means that they have to fancy the person sending the message.

Check out the site FAQ's, where it specifically states that nobody is entitled to a reply and that a non response should be taken as a 'no, thank you'

Let me ask you, would you feel better with an inbox full of 'Thanks but no thanks' messages? I doubt it.

What you have to consider is this.

You're messaging people who YOU fancy, yes?

What are the chances of someone that you fancy, fancying you in return?

It's just the same as in the real world.

Yes, it happens, but you also have to consider that people have lives outside of fab too.

Your lack of responses is in no way a reflection on you as a person. It doesn't mean that you're ugly. It just means that you haven't sparked anyones interest yet. That's all.

Here's something to think about.

Do you phone up all the takeaways that post menus through your door just to tell them that you're not interested.

You may love pizza, but prefer to get your pizza's elsewhere.

Keep your chin up. It'll happen eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either I just get ignored or no one ever seems to be interested so I have to in a if it's my profile or if im just that repulsive "

Im afraid your more likely to get some at your local nightclub! Then on fab.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Bed waiting


"Either I just get ignored or no one ever seems to be interested so I have to in a if it's my profile or if im just that repulsive "

You should have took the red pill

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