FabSwingers.com forum: Really hard to get dates on this site

By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

And when I mean hard I mean impossible!! I am here for more than 3 year! Never got a slightly chance of meeting someone! All the people have the expectations to read miles long profile descriptions, ask for secret passwords, for face pic and what they give in return?! A deleted message, a view or worse, nothing!!

My dear ones human relationships work on mutual respect, an exchange in both ways! Stop asking for face pictures, no time wasters (and what I mean are those people please read all, which I do) and the only one who has his time wasted is me, reading the same shit over and over!!

The most dangerous and bad thing about this site is that, trough this behaviour some may fell very unattractive, which can be very bad for some men, frustration and the thinking that they may repulse everyone!! When the fact is this site is full of self absorbed, arrogant, egotistical people!!

I’ve had more success on male escorts sites, and there I’m well seen and paid!! I’ll continue to stay on this site to follow the social events!! Soon I’ll make my profile very, very unattractive, dick pics everywhere, bad description full of bullshit and lies!!

Over and out! My dear fellow men, don’t waist any more minutes on this site trying to get the attention of ungrateful people, look for social parties, swing clubs, go to pubs, go to work and pay a lady, all of this is way better than “seducing” all this horny egos, that’s what needs to be filled/inflated here, egos, not holes, some holes in dark souls!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It not a date site its a swingers site join a date site and stop moaning

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"And when I mean hard I mean impossible!! I am here for more than 3 year! Never got a slightly chance of meeting someone! All the people have the expectations to read miles long profile descriptions, ask for secret passwords, for face pic and what they give in return?! A deleted message, a view or worse, nothing!!

Strange.

Have you been rejected or something?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Oh dear

if you're going to parties/socials, messaging for over three years and still not getting anywhere I have to wonder - what on earth are you saying?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

It’s a site where you express you desires and look for a partner to do it! It’s easier than a dating site!!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

On this site?!? Every time!

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

Hmmmm sounds like someone isn't feeling the love....not everyone fancies everyone else.

It is a swingers site not a free for all and having a chip on the shoulder certainly won't help.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear

if you're going to parties/socials, messaging for over three years and still not getting anywhere I have to wonder - what on earth are you saying? "

Think we've just seen a glimpse of it

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Oh dear

if you're going to parties/socials, messaging for over three years and still not getting anywhere I have to wonder - what on earth are you saying? "

Now that, that is a very good question.

Here's the thing, not everyone I'd like to fuck, would like to fuck me.

It's a bit of a cunt really....but there you go.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

You are right, that’s why I won’t bother anymore!! I’ve been in other countries to their swinger sites, like I said it’s simple, you say what you want, you have proposals then you pick (of course is decent to let the other ones know they didn’t passed)

P.s. I’ve had plenty of success there!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

"No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!"

I'm afraid that seems to be what a lot of guys think. As a Lass said to me once...it ain't bloody dial a shag!!

Get yourself to socials and parties so people get to know you.

There are a couple of Ladies I meet regularly who ignored my intial messages but when we chatted at a social they decided that I was actually someone they wanted to play with (obviously need to brush up on my opening messages!!).

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"You are right, that’s why I won’t bother anymore!! I’ve been in other countries to their swinger sites, like I said it’s simple, you say what you want, you have proposals then you pick (of course is decent to let the other ones know they didn’t passed)

P.s. I’ve had plenty of success there!"

Am I reading this and your profile correctly, you've been here 3 years and have been to socials?

Your profile is showing not meet verified?

If you're going to socials and not getting verified I do wonder what you're doing and saying and how you're presenting yourself.

I'd have said going to socials for 3 years and not getting a single veri was next to impossible.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yikes.

Anyone can ask for whatever they like. No one owes you interest let alone anything else. The fact that we're often openly looking for casual sex doesn't mean that we aren't still valuable or able to set standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you offered tea and cake?

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

What a t----you reap what you sow in life ..simples to quote OP .. ,can imagine the arrogant messages he would send ,

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Hey, that’s great, you see! Because they didn’t bothered so much in the first place (they want attention but they don’t give) they almost lost a good catch! You succeeded “offline” I’m happy to hear that! Good luck

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you want to be a good catch, OP, you need to sell yourself as such.

If you don't, the women who don't reply will just move on. Or not. And will have lost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear

if you're going to parties/socials, messaging for over three years and still not getting anywhere I have to wonder - what on earth are you saying? "

I agree with this, good looking Gym guys like him don't normally struggle on here from what i can tell! X

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

No! You reading it wrong! I will stay on this site to follow the social meets and parties! From now on, I’ll check the site only for that sole purpose, no more trying to impress 1-2 individuals! Doesn’t work!

Less online fuss! More offline!

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Delete your profile...easy peasy!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"What a t----you reap what you sow in life ..simples to quote OP .. ,can imagine the arrogant messages he would send ,"

That’s the problem maybe! I’m not arrogant enough!!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"If you want to be a good catch, OP, you need to sell yourself as such.

If you don't, the women who don't reply will just move on. Or not. And will have lost nothing. "

Please, if you want, have a peak at my profile and say an opinion! If you want! Thx

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Delete your profile...easy peasy! "

Nope thank you!! I’ll keep it for the swinger clubs and social parties!! Thx for the suggestion

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Oh dear

if you're going to parties/socials, messaging for over three years and still not getting anywhere I have to wonder - what on earth are you saying?

I agree with this, good looking Gym guys like him don't normally struggle on here from what i can tell! X"

I’ve spent 3 years on the online aspect, from now on I will attend parties and swinger clubs!! Thx for the foot review on the physical look

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Have you offered tea and cake?"

No!! Have to admit, I didn’t think about that!! Thx for the tip!!

P.s. I usually, when a meeting is arranged, I show up with some flowers and a chocolate, as a surprise!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"If you want to be a good catch, OP, you need to sell yourself as such.

If you don't, the women who don't reply will just move on. Or not. And will have lost nothing.

Please, if you want, have a peak at my profile and say an opinion! If you want! Thx"

Ok. Pics are a bit samey, text comes across as arrogant and all about what you want. Nothing about what you can offer at all. There's lots of advice threads and advice on my profile should you wish to use it, good luck.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Mmmmmmm I don't understand. Your profile is very well written but your OP isn't really. I wonder if you had some help writing it but don't with your messages and come across as a different guy..

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Oh dear

if you're going to parties/socials, messaging for over three years and still not getting anywhere I have to wonder - what on earth are you saying?

Think we've just seen a glimpse of it

You can think again! Or not, your choice, like my choice to express my opinion (frustrated on not) about the experience on this site!

P.s. for 3 years I stayed on the online part of this , from now on I’ll go to parties and swingers clubs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If you want to be a good catch, OP, you need to sell yourself as such.

If you don't, the women who don't reply will just move on. Or not. And will have lost nothing.

Please, if you want, have a peak at my profile and say an opinion! If you want! Thx"

I did, and my opinion stands.

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By *ictoriaathomeTV/TS
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Hmmm, egotistical did you call people on here, really??

Pot and kettle spring to mind!

Good luck.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"If you want to be a good catch, OP, you need to sell yourself as such.

If you don't, the women who don't reply will just move on. Or not. And will have lost nothing.

Please, if you want, have a peak at my profile and say an opinion! If you want! Thx

Thx for the advice, I’ll make sure to check your profile for more tips!! As for arrogant, I try to not come as one (but maybe trying to much makes it that way)!

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Your profile sounds a little arrogant Op. Maybe it`s just my opinion but worth while seeing what others think. Also some grammar that needs correcting. Good luck & keep trying.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Mmmmmmm I don't understand. Your profile is very well written but your OP isn't really. I wonder if you had some help writing it but don't with your messages and come across as a different guy.."

All the writing is mine, didn’t had no help! And I think i don’t know what OP means, sorry!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Hmmm, egotistical did you call people on here, really??

Pot and kettle spring to mind!

Good luck. "

Thank you I stand my point until I’ll be proven the contrary!!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"If you want to be a good catch, OP, you need to sell yourself as such.

If you don't, the women who don't reply will just move on. Or not. And will have lost nothing.

Please, if you want, have a peak at my profile and say an opinion! If you want! Thx

I did, and my opinion stands. "

Thx

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Your profile sounds a little arrogant Op. Maybe it`s just my opinion but worth while seeing what others think. Also some grammar that needs correcting. Good luck & keep trying."

Thank you for your input! I really need to learn how not to be arrogant, because I’m not arrogant at all in real life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outsider looking in. You have the term I or I've about 50 odd times in your profile. It appears you are very much in it for you only. And seem to offer very little out. Plus on the pic front maybe hide the sticky out tongue one, ditch the Nike shorts that don't fit and take pics in a cleaner room. I'm not trolling at all, don't take this to heart. Your current profile seems like you are expecting floods of women, but they ain't coming. Give it a rethink and start over. Best of luck

"Your profile sounds a little arrogant Op. Maybe it`s just my opinion but worth while seeing what others think. Also some grammar that needs correcting. Good luck & keep trying.

Thank you for your input! I really need to learn how not to be arrogant, because I’m not arrogant at all in real life!"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You've got a few ideas you've passed on to others, such as clubs , events and partied and I assume you use them too.

A swinging site is ideally for many as a supplement to the broader lifestyle, which didn't start on the internet.

Single men here are in such abundance that people narrow the offers down to the personalities and looks that do it for them. Some men struggle more.

If you have the choices, including people elsewhere and believe that you have now done your best, then it's your choice how you spend your future time.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The forums are a great way of getting to know people with no pressure. Yet having been on here for over three years you have only ever contributed to this one thread. It seems to me like your not using the site to it's full advantage.

However, how you use the site and what you do on it is up to you. But if you find yourself having a rant about it then maybe you need a break. It's supposed to be fun, not a trial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not doing yourself any favours really are you.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Outsider looking in. You have the term I or I've about 50 odd times in your profile. It appears you are very much in it for you only. And seem to offer very little out. Plus on the pic front maybe hide the sticky out tongue one, ditch the Nike shorts that don't fit and take pics in a cleaner room. I'm not trolling at all, don't take this to heart. Your current profile seems like you are expecting floods of women, but they ain't coming. Give it a rethink and start over. Best of luck

Thank you !"

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

How many blocks you think he got himself with this? Lmao

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Not doing yourself any favours really are you.

The best learning is from mistakes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not doing yourself any favours really are you.

The best learning is from mistakes!"
very true .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great site do have amazing times I'm single 4 years and I've regular meetings every week sometimes 2 in a week it's great go me ????????????????

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"The forums are a great way of getting to know people with no pressure. Yet having been on here for over three years you have only ever contributed to this one thread. It seems to me like your not using the site to it's full advantage.

However, how you use the site and what you do on it is up to you. But if you find yourself having a rant about it then maybe you need a break. It's supposed to be fun, not a trial.

I definitely need a break! And like I said. I’ll focus more on the party/swinging clubs sections!!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"How many blocks you think he got himself with this? Lmao "

Sometimes you need to fall to see how much you’ve have climbed!!

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!"

3 years and never thought to visit a club or party or social gathering?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!

3 years and never thought to visit a club or party or social gathering?

Yeah, I know. It’s bonkers, but I’ve dedicated the time and money to some personal matters! I hoped it will be easier to make friends this way (never wanted quickies), and have fun! Not traveling from venue to venue.. chat on here, get to know each other more then maybe something more!!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"I think it's a great site do have amazing times I'm single 4 years and I've regular meetings every week sometimes 2 in a week it's great go me ????????????????"

Happy for you and good luck so on...

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

"I think it's a great site do have amazing times I'm single 4 years and I've regular meetings every week sometimes 2 in a week it's great go me ????????????????"

You have 1 veri from a tv/ts

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I think it's a great site do have amazing times I'm single 4 years and I've regular meetings every week sometimes 2 in a week it's great go me ????????????????

You have 1 veri from a tv/ts"

True

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"I think it's a great site do have amazing times I'm single 4 years and I've regular meetings every week sometimes 2 in a week it's great go me ????????????????

You have 1 veri from a tv/ts"

Pam Pam Pi Bam!!! ??????????

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Don't understand your issue if you get great success on male escort sites and get well paid. Damn those sexy ladies who want to give it to you for free

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

"I think it's a great site do have amazing times I'm single 4 years and I've regular meetings every week sometimes 2 in a week it's great go me ????????????????"

Another "straight" guy who isn't even looking for TVs but has a TV verification but won't display it

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Don't understand your issue if you get great success on male escort sites and get well paid. Damn those sexy ladies who want to give it to you for free

They are more successful than here but not to satisfy the sex drive!

And with this said I do see a bit of an arrogant pattern, as some stated above!! Not a very big one tho!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!"

Maybe stop shouting to start with. Going to events and clubs is always good, so you are on the right route here. However... You will meet pretty much the same people there whose profiles you refuse to read or to whose request not to waste their time you take exception. Maybe you are just in the wrong lifestyle? Especially when you can go elsewhere and even get paid? What is the issue here?

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By *obandsue 69Couple
over a year ago

north Cornwall

P.s. I’ve had plenty of success there!

Am I reading this and your profile correctly, you've been here 3 years and have been to socials?

Your profile is showing not meet verified?

If you're going to socials and not getting verified I do wonder what you're doing and saying and how you're presenting yourself.

I'd have said going to socials for 3 years and not getting a single veri was next to impossible.....

For someone who has been on here gir 3 years your profile is only a year old!!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!

I’m in the swinging life style since I was 18 years old!

I read everyone’s profiles, because I like to make a first impression before messaging someone!!

Yes I said I’ve had more success on sites that I get paid compared with here, but that doesn’t mean is very often to satisfy someone’s sex driver!!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

P.s. I’ve had plenty of success there!

Am I reading this and your profile correctly, you've been here 3 years and have been to socials?

Your profile is showing not meet verified?

If you're going to socials and not getting verified I do wonder what you're doing and saying and how you're presenting yourself.

I'd have said going to socials for 3 years and not getting a single veri was next to impossible.....

For someone who has been on here gir 3 years your profile is only a year old!!

First of all they say OVER a year ago, by my photo verification was on 6.October.2016, some of my first pictures were uploaded on 4th of October 2016, and take into consideration that i didn’t uploaded in the first day!! So yeah, 23rd of September 2019 it makes almost 3 years

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!

I’m in the swinging life style since I was 18 years old!

I read everyone’s profiles, because I like to make a first impression before messaging someone!!

Yes I said I’ve had more success on sites that I get paid compared with here, but that doesn’t mean is very often to satisfy someone’s sex driver!!"

So what is the issue? This is not a site to satisfy anyone's sex drive - that would be between you and whoever you are spending time with. The site is an excellent tool for initial contact and also for finding out about events. It does not supply sex. As others have said, you get out what you put in. Judging by what you have put in so far, your prospects are not the best. Maybe delete the profile and create a new, better one with no negativity? Just a suggestion.

And stop shouting.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!

I’m in the swinging life style since I was 18 years old!

I read everyone’s profiles, because I like to make a first impression before messaging someone!!

Yes I said I’ve had more success on sites that I get paid compared with here, but that doesn’t mean is very often to satisfy someone’s sex driver!!

And stop shouting."

Maybe reading all the thread will give you a fair idea on what my issue about this site! (Wanting to be read all the bio, but not reading it when it comes your turn)

And trust me a swinger site is a sex site, don't try to sugarcoat it (and there's no shame in searching to satisfy your fantasies)! That's how it was when I started, that's how it is in most places!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha spot on. I've only priory used the site today. I've politely messaged over 100 people I wouldn't look at twice in the street and all I have got back is impoliteness.

One sent me a huge questionnaire. She was a dominatrix. I felt like that was punishment enough as when I'm out of work. I do not want to fill in another report. Anyway, after that and a bit of WhatsApp messages when she asked for my number..I got rejected haha.

To be honest, this morning I felt a bit horny. But by the time the say has gone on I'm just tired and jaded.

If I was gay though , I'd have pulled about 10 today. I'm guessing there are ten times the number of men than women on here.

I tried messaging a few escorts off a different big popular website. One that you can select to search for people who are available. I even chatted to a few on the phone briefly as they also had their numbers on. They all told me they weren't available and gave me office hour times during the week to rebook. I could even pay for company today.

I even downloaded tinder and swiped.riht on everything and got ten matches who didn't talk to me and then when they did they didn't believe me when I told them my Jo title etc.

All in all. I have learned I can't charms woman online or pay for sex. I do okay in real life, down the pub etc. It's just I'm pushed for time, so I thought online would be easier. But it's not. It's difficult.

I think I've put in 12 hours worth of work today and got nothing in return. If I had just have watched PornHub when I woke up. I'd have a lot more satisfying day hahaha..I wouldn't have spent a day learning that I'm lacking in all areas according to the women online

Anyway,

Long rant over.

Cliff notes : man tries to get laid, using three apps and two escort websites, can't even pay for sex. Works out masturbation is a lot easier. Lies down and rots lol

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Haha spot on. I've only priory used the site today. I've politely messaged over 100 people I wouldn't look at twice in the street and all I have got back is impoliteness.

To be honest, this morning I felt a bit horny. But by the time the say has gone on I'm just tired and jaded.

If I was gay though , I'd have pulled about 10 today. I'm guessing there are ten times the number of men than women on here.

I even downloaded tinder and swiped.riht on everything and got ten matches who didn't talk to me and then when they did they didn't believe me when I told them my Jo title etc.

Anyway,

Long rant over.

Cliff notes : man tries to get laid, using three apps and two escort websites, can't even pay for sex. Works out masturbation is a lot easier. Lies down and rots lol"

It becomes unhealthy this online stuff, everybody is looking for friends and when you ask them to be friends they lack the ability to make connection and they blame it on profiles!!!!

You know what people, you can take my profile to a social meeting, or in bedroom, I'll sit here at home and moan like some people stated above.....

SWINGING IS NOT A SEXUAL MATTER!!!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Haha spot on. I've only priory used the site today. I've politely messaged over 100 people I wouldn't look at twice in the street and all I have got back is impoliteness.

To be honest, this morning I felt a bit horny. But by the time the say has gone on I'm just tired and jaded.

If I was gay though , I'd have pulled about 10 today. I'm guessing there are ten times the number of men than women on here.

I even downloaded tinder and swiped.riht on everything and got ten matches who didn't talk to me and then when they did they didn't believe me when I told them my Jo title etc.

Anyway,

Long rant over.

Cliff notes : man tries to get laid, using three apps and two escort websites, can't even pay for sex. Works out masturbation is a lot easier. Lies down and rots lol"

How about not contacting those you would not look at twice in the street? Your idea of beauty has no bearing on people's preferences.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!

I’m in the swinging life style since I was 18 years old!

I read everyone’s profiles, because I like to make a first impression before messaging someone!!

Yes I said I’ve had more success on sites that I get paid compared with here, but that doesn’t mean is very often to satisfy someone’s sex driver!!

And stop shouting.

Maybe reading all the thread will give you a fair idea on what my issue about this site! (Wanting to be read all the bio, but not reading it when it comes your turn)

And trust me a swinger site is a sex site, don't try to sugarcoat it (and there's no shame in searching to satisfy your fantasies)! That's how it was when I started, that's how it is in most places!! "

Stop shouting.

I have read the thread.

You do not have to read my profile as it would have become clear by line 5 that you are not what I am interested in.

A swingers' site is a site for swingers (and sexually liberated individuals) to establish contacts and do with that as they please. Nowhere in the site FAQs does it say that the site promises or guarantees you sex. Your sex life is your own responsibility. If this site is not working for you, something else will. As I said, going to events is an excellent idea.

Good luck.

And stop shouting.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"No! I will start to go to parties!! I’ve never been! I was thinking is more easier here!

I’m in the swinging life style since I was 18 years old!

I read everyone’s profiles, because I like to make a first impression before messaging someone!!

Yes I said I’ve had more success on sites that I get paid compared with here, but that doesn’t mean is very often to satisfy someone’s sex driver!!

And stop shouting.

Maybe reading all the thread will give you a fair idea on what my issue about this site! (Wanting to be read all the bio, but not reading it when it comes your turn)

And trust me a swinger site is a sex site, don't try to sugarcoat it (and there's no shame in searching to satisfy your fantasies)! That's how it was when I started, that's how it is in most places!!

Stop shouting.

I have read the thread.

You do not have to read my profile as it would have become clear by line 5 that you are not what I am interested in.

Good luck.

And stop shouting. "

I'm not shouting, I'm very chilled! I didn't viewed your profile! You mean this site is for people to connect, how can they connect when they don't reply to one message, that's my issue, and it's not with the site (the site is great, with a great structure) the people on the site are the problem!! Some have astronomical expectations from others that have to lower themselves for an ignore! In my eyes that's very lowering that someone has to expose while others don't even bother for a reply! That exposure screams desperation and it's a very big turn off, as i said in my eyes!!

Ciao and goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about not contacting those you would not look at twice in the street? Your idea of beauty has no bearing on people's preferences."

Ok so i thought I'd be friendly and hat to everyone. From real life I can have laugh and banter with almost anyone.

My idea or beauty is mostly biological.in nature which is a mixture of physical and personality. You know when you are interested hahaha

Who knows about the preferences of others?

All I know is I probably spent a months worth of gym membership in money and a year's worth of gym membership in time and honestly I'd have been better going to the gym today.

Online just seems to be an echo chamber that resembles real life.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Exclamation marks after every sentence = shouting.

You won't change people's expectations. What you can change is your attitude. You have some excellent ideas, so act on them. Stop blaming others for what you think is wrong, do what is right for you instead.

Buona notte.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

How about not contacting those you would not look at twice in the street? Your idea of beauty has no bearing on people's preferences.

Ok so i thought I'd be friendly and hat to everyone. From real life I can have laugh and banter with almost anyone.

My idea or beauty is mostly biological.in nature which is a mixture of physical and personality. You know when you are interested hahaha

Who knows about the preferences of others?

All I know is I probably spent a months worth of gym membership in money and a year's worth of gym membership in time and honestly I'd have been better going to the gym today.

Online just seems to be an echo chamber that resembles real life.

Fair enough. All in the eye of the beholder. My and my friends' experience has been very different.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Exclamation marks after every sentence = shouting.

Buona notte."

Sorry, I knew that capital letters means shouting, not "!!!!"

No one is changing, everybody is evolving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single man who uses this site must be a pervert/ deviant.

Who wants to meet a sexual inadequate?

But this is the interesting question.

Why do women use this site. That leads men to think women are only using it to massage their egos

Please feel free to prove me wrong

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

3 years ffs,lol Am only been 4 months and Thought that was bad,Sent umpteen messages offering for social 1st, Had few replies saying no Thank you, one from escort, one from porn site,Was chatting to 2 for a few days then they suddenly blocked me !!know I should go to CJS but looking for discreet fun,But am not giving up ladies, lol xx

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Haha spot on. I've only priory used the site today. I've politely messaged over 100 people I wouldn't look at twice in the street and all I have got back is impoliteness.

This speaks volumes about you.

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

An attitude of sexual entitlement is a bit niche - lowers your chances of success dramatically. Most women find it desperately unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on and off fab for years, as a man you need to realise we outnumber the women on here significantly. You've got to try and be a little unique and pay attention to detail and most of all be patient!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This speaks volumes about you. "

I am on a social app so I thought I'd say hello and have a chat with as many people as possible and give everyone a chance. So yes it does speak volumes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An attitude of sexual entitlement is a bit niche - lowers your chances of success dramatically. Most women find it desperately unattractive. "

Wise words..I'll think on this and adaot. Thank you

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Haha spot on. I've only priory used the site today. I've politely messaged over 100 people I wouldn't look at twice in the street and all I have got back is impoliteness.

This speaks volumes about you. "

Agree 100%

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

"An attitude of sexual entitlement is a bit niche - lowers your chances of success dramatically. Most women find it desperately unattractive.

Wise words..I'll think on this and adaot. Thank you "

You're welcome (was just a general tip tho, not aimed at you in particular so I hope it didn't come across that way)

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ive been on and off fab for years, as a man you need to realise we outnumber the women on here significantly. You've got to try and be a little unique and pay attention to detail and most of all be patient! "

And not rely on the online for the solution to all your problems. Men who are successful have taken themselves out there and been meeting people in person. Which was the OP's initial idea, pity about the complaining that came with it.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Every single man who uses this site must be a pervert/ deviant.

Who wants to meet a sexual inadequate?

But this is the interesting question.

Why do women use this site. That leads men to think women are only using it to massage their egos

Please feel free to prove me wrong "

1) To expand their circles and meet nice people

2) To find out about events

3) To keep in touch with the people they met previously

What else?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Exclamation marks after every sentence = shouting.

Buona notte.

Sorry, I knew that capital letters means shouting, not "!!!!"

No one is changing, everybody is evolving. "

Really? And what does the exclamation mark mean then if not an elevated tone of the voice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really a dating site though. Try another site dedicated to dating.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

"Haha spot on. I've only priory used the site today. I've politely messaged over 100 people I wouldn't look at twice in the street and all I have got back is impoliteness.

To be honest, this morning I felt a bit horny. But by the time the say has gone on I'm just tired and jaded.

If I was gay though , I'd have pulled about 10 today. I'm guessing there are ten times the number of men than women on here.

I even downloaded tinder and swiped.riht on everything and got ten matches who didn't talk to me and then when they did they didn't believe me when I told them my Jo title etc.

Anyway,

Long rant over.

Cliff notes : man tries to get laid, using three apps and two escort websites, can't even pay for sex. Works out masturbation is a lot easier. Lies down and rots lol"

This is exactly the sort of attitude that gives men on here a bad reputation. You arrogantly seem to think that contacting people you wouldn`t look at in the street just for sex is a fair thing to do & You somehow believe that your futile efforts give some sort of entitlement. This is not an easy lay sex site, It is however a great place to interact with like minded swingers. You will not be missed.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Haha spot on. I've only priory used the site today. I've politely messaged over 100 people I wouldn't look at twice in the street and all I have got back is impoliteness.

To be honest, this morning I felt a bit horny. But by the time the say has gone on I'm just tired and jaded.

If I was gay though , I'd have pulled about 10 today. I'm guessing there are ten times the number of men than women on here.

I even downloaded tinder and swiped.riht on everything and got ten matches who didn't talk to me and then when they did they didn't believe me when I told them my Jo title etc.

Anyway,

Long rant over.

Cliff notes : man tries to get laid, using three apps and two escort websites, can't even pay for sex. Works out masturbation is a lot easier. Lies down and rots lol

He is UNLOS already. Us ugly women have run him off the site.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Exclamation marks after every sentence = shouting.

Buona notte.

Sorry, I knew that capital letters means shouting, not "!!!!"

No one is changing, everybody is evolving.

Really? And what does the exclamation mark mean then if not an elevated tone of the voice?"

“Exclamation marks were originally called the "note of admiration." They are still, to this day, used to express excitement. They are also used to express surprise, astonishment, or any other such strong emotion. Any exclamatory sentence can be properly followed by an exclamation mark, to add additional emphasis.”

I may not use it properly, but it doesn’t say nowhere that marks an elevated tone.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"It's not really a dating site though. Try another site dedicated to dating."

Like what?!

And all statuses like “looking for 1 (couple/woman/man) to join us tonight for.....!”

At a hotel who wants to join us

Very horny need 10 man.....

And so on,

What all those statuses with invitations to meet/date means?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Every single man who uses this site must be a pervert/ deviant.

Who wants to meet a sexual inadequate?

But this is the interesting question.

Why do women use this site. That leads men to think women are only using it to massage their egos

Please feel free to prove me wrong "

Yeah that’s why is not a 2 way mutual respect!

Another thing they ask so many times no cock pics (in the profile, in messages, blah blah blah)(I get it, at some point you may receive so many of those pictures that it becomes frustrating, or manny they just crave it so much but are afraid to go get it that they reject it all in all), to get back to the point, they don’t want cock pics from various reasons, but when you check most of the women/couples profiles you see pictures of pussy and cock so close to the phone/camera, that sometimes you ask “they use that phone as a vibrator?”

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Thx for your opinion!

I think 3 years it’s a sigh of being patient! All in all online has died, time to go back in the real world....

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By *ouplexFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We been on this for less then a month and have already meet a few lovely people and had some fun encounters. Maybe try socialising and expanding your network of friends

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Thx for your opinion!

I think 3 years it’s a sigh of being patient! All in all online has died, time to go back in the real world...."

If I was 31, gym fit, good looking, living in London - I would either be dating lots! Or looking to settle down. London is a great city for dating OP.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"An attitude of sexual entitlement is a bit niche - lowers your chances of success dramatically. Most women find it desperately unattractive. "

How does an attitude of sexual entitlement looks like and why almost all of the profiles I checked look for dominant men? (Women dominant man to be used like..... couples look for bulls...) not all profiles, but most of them! What’s de difference? Where does the dominant (filled of confidence, manly) attitude starts and finishes and where the sexual entitlement and arrogance begins?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"We been on this for less then a month and have already meet a few lovely people and had some fun encounters. Maybe try socialising and expanding your network of friends "

That’s what I’m messaging the first time to all the people, I don’t text straight away to the sex stuff! First I make an invite to socialising and making new friends! You can’t socialise when you get no reply!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Thx for your opinion!

I think 3 years it’s a sigh of being patient! All in all online has died, time to go back in the real world....

If I was 31, gym fit, good looking, living in London - I would either be dating lots! Or looking to settle down. London is a great city for dating OP. "

I may have a curse on me!!! ????????????

Being a foreign man i find it very difficult to connect to the London way of dating works! To be honest, if I go in pubs I scare away so many ladies because I don’t drink alcohol, not one drop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, entitled much?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Wow, entitled much?

Looks like, very much.

????

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

My ego isnt inflated.

I dont assume everyone will like or want me just as I wont like everyone.

I think if I were to judge you solely on this post I'd have blocked and moved on but people are more than they post.

Swinging isnt for everyone so maybe it's just not for you OP?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

My ego isnt inflated.

I dont assume everyone will like or want me just as I wont like everyone.

I think if I were to judge you solely on this post I'd have blocked and moved on but people are more than they post.

Swinging isnt for everyone so maybe it's just not for you OP?

That’s true, your’s may not be, if I say “most people” doesn’t mean I want to generalise either, there’s 10% of nice people here as well!!

I don’t assume that everyone would like me and they shouldn’t (nobody is liked by everyone)! But from 1-200+ people texted no one to answer, not to be liked by nobody, that’s pretty brutal/savage!!

That’s what I’m thinking as well! Hey I like that person physically, it has some good points, but all in all his post is one of a “arrogant” (how I was described), nah I’ll not bother to get to know him because HE MUST BE A DICK! That’s what most of the people think around here!! Not me, I see some flaws in someone’s profile but I still try to get to know him better, nobody is perfect!

I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

"An attitude of sexual entitlement is a bit niche - lowers your chances of success dramatically. Most women find it desperately unattractive.

For me, a key sign is the whiney tone of 'it's not fair' that helps to id the entitled, male or female. You are right as well ...a lot of wannabe doms are actually entitled idiots trying to cover up their arrogance by calling themselves dom. The incel movement has this written all over it.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"An attitude of sexual entitlement is a bit niche - lowers your chances of success dramatically. Most women find it desperately unattractive.

You didn’t understand. You got back to hitting the male gender! I asked why are so many female/couples looking for dominant man??

What’s the difference between a arrogant, entitled man a real dom and a wannabe dom?

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

"An attitude of sexual entitlement is a bit niche - lowers your chances of success dramatically. Most women find it desperately unattractive.

You didn’t understand. You got back to hitting the male gender! I asked why are so many female/couples looking for dominant man??

What’s the difference between a arrogant, entitled man a real dom and a wannabe dom?"

Arrogant and entitled: They don't listen and see what they want to see? Think it is up to other people to do all the hard work for them?

Dominant does not equal arrogant and entitled. Not at all. Arrogant and entitled is weak.

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

Anyway, there's someone for everyone on fab. It's just, in my personal opinion, a bit niche cornering the entitled child market. Lots want real doms, you are right.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"An attitude of sexual entitlement is a bit niche - lowers your chances of success dramatically. Most women find it desperately unattractive.

You didn’t understand. You got back to hitting the male gender! I asked why are so many female/couples looking for dominant man??

What’s the difference between a arrogant, entitled man a real dom and a wannabe dom?

Arrogant and entitled: They don't listen and see what they want to see? Think it is up to other people to do all the hard work for them?

Dominant does not equal arrogant and entitled. Not at all. Arrogant and entitled is weak.

This means I’m not arrogant and entitled at all. Every time I’ve been more than happy to work hard for all my experiences (in or out of bedroom, all of them)! I’ve never expected/wanted handouts! But if you work hard for no, not one recognition you have to the right complain a bit! That doesn’t mean someone is arrogant and entitled!

A dominant man can ACT, arrogant and entitled!

One thing is sure, I have a very different definition for entitled and arrogant then most of the people around here!

P.s. after reading all the profiles that I’ve texted (yes all of them, I care for others time and I do want to make a good impression), most of them sound arrogant and entitled!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been doing this all wrong I didn't realise it was a dating site

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By *everFullyDressedCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!! "

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Anyway, there's someone for everyone on fab. It's just, in my personal opinion, a bit niche cornering the entitled child market. Lots want real doms, you are right."

Yeah, I’ll try to find them, but through other meanings, not mailing!! I have other priorities as well, I don’t have time to waste reading profiles and composing mails, with the hope of MAYBE, I get a reply!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

Swinging on the “online market” in uk!! Not the same thing about parties and clubs! Here is filled with time wasters!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"I've been doing this all wrong I didn't realise it was a dating site "

What does Meeting means?

Maybe I don’t know so much English I thought!

What does “looking for” implies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate there are considerably more ladies than gents on here... If this is the impression you portray on your profile then I have to say that I'm not surprised... It is hard but not impossible unless you're not genuine the ladies can suss it a mile off

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Mate there are considerably more ladies than gents on here... If this is the impression you portray on your profile then I have to say that I'm not surprised... It is hard but not impossible unless you're not genuine the ladies can suss it a mile off "

Many of the ladies and couples might disagree with you! They state that there are more gents than couples and women!

What impression, of a guy being honest about his opinion and view about the people circling around here?!? Sorry, sometimes truth hurts, but who’s hurt like to say about the one saying the truth that is bitching and whining!! That’s how the socialising is this days. If you have one bad opinion that means you are a pussy!!!????????

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

Swinging on the “online market” in uk!! Not the same thing about parties and clubs! Here is filled with time wasters!"
same type people at clubs and parties , maybe the same people who don't return mails to you , so then what ?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

Swinging on the “online market” in uk!! Not the same thing about parties and clubs! Here is filled with time wasters!same type people at clubs and parties , maybe the same people who don't return mails to you , so then what ?"

As another man said on the beginning on the thread, he was having the same experiences online, but the same people that they were ignoring him, some blocked him, they meet there and had good time!!

And I’m sure it’s not all the same, plus not all the people that are here are bad, until now just the ones I contacted, maybe the good ones are on their way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear

if you're going to parties/socials, messaging for over three years and still not getting anywhere I have to wonder - what on earth are you saying?

Now that, that is a very good question.

Here's the thing, not everyone I'd like to fuck, would like to fuck me.

It's a bit of a cunt really....but there you go."

That really is a bit of a pain in the backside. Still, you would hope some of the people you want to fuck may want to reciprocate..

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Oh dear

if you're going to parties/socials, messaging for over three years and still not getting anywhere I have to wonder - what on earth are you saying?

Now that, that is a very good question.

Here's the thing, not everyone I'd like to fuck, would like to fuck me.

It's a bit of a cunt really....but there you go.

That really is a bit of a pain in the backside. Still, you would hope some of the people you want to fuck may want to reciprocate.."

Some of them do.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

As another man said on the beginning on the thread, he was having the same experiences online, but the same people that they were ignoring him, some blocked him, they meet there and had good time!!

And I’m sure it’s not all the same, plus not all the people that are here are bad, until now just the ones I contacted, maybe the good ones are on their way "

Can anyone else hear Alarm bells?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all these years of rejection, you are the common factor. If your approach isn’t working ..change it

And most women don’t want a prostitute .

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"In all these years of rejection, you are the common factor. If your approach isn’t working ..change it

And most women don’t want a prostitute ."

I changed it many times, way to many times! That’s why it’s frustrating, and plus, why should anyone change just for a chance of a reply to a bloody message!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"In all these years of rejection, you are the common factor. If your approach isn’t working ..change it

And most women don’t want a prostitute .

I changed it many times, way to many times! That’s why it’s frustrating, and plus, why should anyone change just for a chance of a reply to a bloody message! "

zzzzzzz

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"In all these years of rejection, you are the common factor. If your approach isn’t working ..change it

And most women don’t want a prostitute ."

P.s. and on this site I didn’t brag about being an escort until this thread! Plus from what I’ve seen they do want! So yeah those are people that know what they want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all these years of rejection, you are the common factor. If your approach isn’t working ..change it

And most women don’t want a prostitute .

I changed it many times, way to many times! That’s why it’s frustrating, and plus, why should anyone change just for a chance of a reply to a bloody message! "

Because you are moaning about not getting what you want

If you don’t want to change and it’s not working for you... leave.

No one is forcing you to stay and you can go stand on your street corner

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"In all these years of rejection, you are the common factor. If your approach isn’t working ..change it

And most women don’t want a prostitute .

I changed it many times, way to many times! That’s why it’s frustrating, and plus, why should anyone change just for a chance of a reply to a bloody message!

Because you are moaning about not getting what you want

If you don’t want to change and it’s not working for you... leave.

No one is forcing you to stay and you can go stand on your street corner"

I never moan, not even when I have the biggest orgasms! Saying what’s wrong with this site doesn’t mean I’m moaning!!

Why do you moan about me being here and not on my street corner! Are you jealous women pay me for sex and not you, or what! (Now I’m being a bit arrogant), mind your corner if this one bothers you, go moan somewhere else!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

Swinging on the “online market” in uk!! Not the same thing about parties and clubs! Here is filled with time wasters!"

Thousands of women on fab with thousands of verified meets suggest that we are anything but time wasters. Fab provides the tools to meet people, it isn’t to blame just because you are failing to excite or interest women. Given your unpleasant attitude here I’m not at all surprised in your inability to impress anyone.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Op are you saying you are a straight male escort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a site where you express you desires and look for a partner to do it! It’s easier than a dating site!! "

It's not easier than a dating site to meet women. This is supposed to be easier to meet women for no strings fun.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Op are you saying you are a straight male escort?

Yes!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"It’s a site where you express you desires and look for a partner to do it! It’s easier than a dating site!!

It's not easier than a dating site to meet women. This is supposed to be easier to meet women for no strings fun. "

That’s what I wanted to say! But it’s not easy....

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?"

Yeah maybe filtering the users more and forcing people to give some kind of reply, maybe some pretexts, so people will have to reply with why they don’t want, more templates....... that way some of the guys who want to improve know where to start

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

Swinging on the “online market” in uk!! Not the same thing about parties and clubs! Here is filled with time wasters!

Why criticising the experience on here is that much of an unpleasant attitude? You don’t know me, you don’t know how i behaved! Again I say, criticism is not moaning!!

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

So if there was a button that you could press that send a message automatically that said:

"Thank you for your message but you are not my type. All the best and happy swinging"

You'd be happy with that?

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

Swinging on the “online market” in uk!! Not the same thing about parties and clubs! Here is filled with time wasters!

Why criticising the experience on here is that much of an unpleasant attitude? You don’t know me, you don’t know how i behaved! Again I say, criticism is not moaning!! "

Goodness me!!!! What's wrong with a full stop?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"forcing people to give some kind of reply, maybe some pretexts, so people will have to reply with why they don’t want, more templates....... that way some of the guys who want to improve know where to start "

So the women who get 300+ messages a day will have to reply to every single one? Even if it’s just choosing from a list? Then you’ll see many of them leave in droves. And guys that haven’t figured it out yet get help with a template that each women will spot immediately and instantly delete? (Before replying why they’ve done so of course)

The simple fact of the matter is that there will always be a lot of guys for whom this site is going to be very hard work. Some of that is to do with simple maths, some of it is because some guys just don’t understand how it works, and some will never reach the emotional maturity to attract the women they write to. No manner of site tweaks is going to alter that.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

So if there was a button that you could press that send a message automatically that said:

"Thank you for your message but you are not my type. All the best and happy swinging"

You'd be happy with that?

Still is better than complete ignorance, anything is better than that! And it’s not really about my happiness!

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By *erseysidemale100Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Can anyone tell me how to become a site supporter ?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

Swinging on the “online market” in uk!! Not the same thing about parties and clubs! Here is filled with time wasters!

Why criticising the experience on here is that much of an unpleasant attitude? You don’t know me, you don’t know how i behaved! Again I say, criticism is not moaning!!

Goodness me!!!! What's wrong with a full stop?

Curiosity!

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

" I think swinging in uk is not for me!!

We would have to agree with your view on that point.

Swinging on the “online market” in uk!! Not the same thing about parties and clubs! Here is filled with time wasters!

Why criticising the experience on here is that much of an unpleasant attitude? You don’t know me, you don’t know how i behaved! Again I say, criticism is not moaning!!

Goodness me!!!! What's wrong with a full stop?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

I said something about more filters as well. So maybe not so many messages received! And is the fact that we (me) some of the men have read (because, yes, I take the time to read profiles) all of the profiles, some days 50-100 a day, how can we read and write messages! I don’t know who sounds more entitled from this point of view!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

get over it pal.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Can anyone tell me how to become a site supporter ?"

https://m.fabswingers.com/supporters

I did it with sms, but if you go for the card payment you get more membership days! In the first year I’ve had a full year of site supporter

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

But why should people have to do that? Do you answer every email you receive? Every bit of junk mail? Do you call every restaurant that leaves a menu and tell them why you're not interested in their food? It clearly states in the sites FAQ that no reply means not interested.

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By *erseysidemale100Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Can anyone tell me how to become a site supporter ?

https://m.fabswingers.com/supporters

I did it with sms, but if you go for the card payment you get more membership days! In the first year I’ve had a full year of site supporter "
cheers mate just debating wether to get it or not tbh

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

So if there was a button that you could press that send a message automatically that said:

"Thank you for your message but you are not my type. All the best and happy swinging"

You'd be happy with that?

Still is better than complete ignorance, anything is better than that! And it’s not really about my happiness! "

Ignorance? Ignorance would be ignoring the site rules

Ignorance would be the thought that each message you have sent is entitled to a reply.

Who's happiness then? Because maybe people are happy with the way they use this site, complimentary to the club vists, parties or socials that they already attend.

Those that aren't happy with their fabswingers experience can either change the way they use the site and that means adjusting their attitude and expectations or leave the site if it's only causing them too much excitement and not in a good way (!!!!!!!!!)

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

get over it pal.

Not when I’m having so much fun!! ????????

I like with how much easiness people judge jump to judge someone they don’t know! The hypocrisy that circles this site is enormous!!

Just so you know after putt this up I’ve had some positive messages here and in my inbox! Not everyone is such a perfect being like the judges from here. Thx but I’ll stick around!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

get over it pal.

Not when I’m having so much fun!! ????????

I like with how much easiness people judge jump to judge someone they don’t know! The hypocrisy that circles this site is enormous!!

Just so you know after putt this up I’ve had some positive messages here and in my inbox! Not everyone is such a perfect being like the judges from here. Thx but I’ll stick around!"

the hypocrisy is pouring from you pal!! youv judged and insulted alot of people in your rants. tip for free here... your making yourself less attractive to possible meets with every pathetic rant you post to be careful!!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Can anyone tell me how to become a site supporter ?

https://m.fabswingers.com/supporters

I did it with sms, but if you go for the card payment you get more membership days! In the first year I’ve had a full year of site supporter cheers mate just debating wether to get it or not tbh "

From what you are reading around here, what does your instinct say?!? Follow it!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Can anyone tell me how to become a site supporter ?

https://m.fabswingers.com/supporters

I did it with sms, but if you go for the card payment you get more membership days! In the first year I’ve had a full year of site supporter cheers mate just debating wether to get it or not tbh

From what you are reading around here, what does your instinct say?!? Follow it! "

what does your instinct say to you?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

I don’t receive junk mail, I receive mails from where I register. So yes, I read “the offer” and reply!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

So if there was a button that you could press that send a message automatically that said:

"Thank you for your message but you are not my type. All the best and happy swinging"

You'd be happy with that?

Still is better than complete ignorance, anything is better than that! And it’s not really about my happiness!

Ignorance? Ignorance would be ignoring the site rules

Ignorance would be the thought that each message you have sent is entitled to a reply.

Who's happiness then? Because maybe people are happy with the way they use this site, complimentary to the club vists, parties or socials that they already attend.

You clearly didn’t read the first post, That’s what most of the people are doing here! I don’t expect every message to be answered, but in 3 year just a hand full of them! I can count them on one hand!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Can anyone tell me how to become a site supporter ?

https://m.fabswingers.com/supporters

I did it with sms, but if you go for the card payment you get more membership days! In the first year I’ve had a full year of site supporter cheers mate just debating wether to get it or not tbh

From what you are reading around here, what does your instinct say?!? Follow it!

what does your instinct say to you?"

I already have site supporter! My instinct is not that good

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

get over it pal.

Not when I’m having so much fun!! ????????

I like with how much easiness people judge jump to judge someone they don’t know! The hypocrisy that circles this site is enormous!!

Just so you know after putt this up I’ve had some positive messages here and in my inbox! Not everyone is such a perfect being like the judges from here. Thx but I’ll stick around!

Maybe I did insult, a lot, but not all of them!!

From my experiences, it can’t get worse than this!! Less attractive than this it can’t get!!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Can anyone tell me how to become a site supporter ?

https://m.fabswingers.com/supporters

I did it with sms, but if you go for the card payment you get more membership days! In the first year I’ve had a full year of site supporter cheers mate just debating wether to get it or not tbh

From what you are reading around here, what does your instinct say?!? Follow it!

what does your instinct say to you?

I already have site supporter! My instinct is not that good

that's why your not getting replies or meets pal because your terrible attitude. i wont be engaging with you again, you cant be helped. bye

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Can anyone tell me how to become a site supporter ?

https://m.fabswingers.com/supporters

I did it with sms, but if you go for the card payment you get more membership days! In the first year I’ve had a full year of site supporter cheers mate just debating wether to get it or not tbh

From what you are reading around here, what does your instinct say?!? Follow it!

what does your instinct say to you?

I already have site supporter! My instinct is not that good

that's why your not getting replies or meets pal because your terrible attitude. i wont be engaging with you again, you cant be helped. bye"

Thx and good luck!!

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

So if there was a button that you could press that send a message automatically that said:

"Thank you for your message but you are not my type. All the best and happy swinging"

You'd be happy with that?

Still is better than complete ignorance, anything is better than that! And it’s not really about my happiness!

Ignorance? Ignorance would be ignoring the site rules

Ignorance would be the thought that each message you have sent is entitled to a reply.

Who's happiness then? Because maybe people are happy with the way they use this site, complimentary to the club vists, parties or socials that they already attend.

You mean the rant? Yes I read it.

If the majority of people have not replied to your messages in the 3 years you have been here I don't know why it's so hard for you realise that they don't have a problem if the common denominator is you.

Maybe this will help:

Start over again! Redo your profile and attend socials and gain verifications from that!! Don't post threads like this that just insult people you are trying to reach out too!!!

Stop abusing the exclamation mark!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope that helps OP. Good luck

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

At least he is getting some sort of attention. He so clearly craves it.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

So if there was a button that you could press that send a message automatically that said:

"Thank you for your message but you are not my type. All the best and happy swinging"

You'd be happy with that?

Still is better than complete ignorance, anything is better than that! And it’s not really about my happiness!

Ignorance? Ignorance would be ignoring the site rules

Ignorance would be the thought that each message you have sent is entitled to a reply.

Who's happiness then? Because maybe people are happy with the way they use this site, complimentary to the club vists, parties or socials that they already attend.

You mean the rant? Yes I read it.

Maybe this will help:

Start over again! Redo your profile and attend socials and gain verifications from that!! Don't post threads like this that just insult people you are trying to reach out too!!!

Stop abusing the exclamation mark!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope that helps OP. Good luck

Thank you for your advice! It is taken to consideration

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Seems to me that sending out 200 messages means copy and paste.

Those stand out a mile as being totally impersonal and will just get deleted on sight.

Think about what you want, be realistic, be patient and quit the scattergun approach.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"At least he is getting some sort of attention. He so clearly craves it. "

LOL! Busted!

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Seems to me that sending out 200 messages means copy and paste.

Those stand out a mile as being totally impersonal and will just get deleted on sight.

Think about what you want, be realistic, be patient and quit the scattergun approach.

Sorry to disappoint you, but no! They are not copy-paste. All the messages I send are real genuine made for each ones description.

I may be a bit arrogant (because many persons said) but a liar I’m not! From some of my friends opinion, I’m way too honest!

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Sorry to disappoint you, but no! They are not copy-paste. All the messages I send are real genuine made for each ones description.

I may be a bit arrogant (because many persons said) but a liar I’m not! From some of my friends opinion, I’m way too honest!

Why would I be disappointed in any way and where exactly did I even vaguely suggest that you are a liar?

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By *ll That Ass 67Woman
over a year ago

Kettering

....no words .....

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

This forum is nice thing! Would’ve been nice to be able to attach some screenshots with some of the messages I send, so people could make on opinion, other than the copy-paste one! Maybe some tips with what’s wrong written...

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

....no words ....."

I've just run out as well..

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Sorry to disappoint you, but no! They are not copy-paste. All the messages I send are real genuine made for each ones description.

I may be a bit arrogant (because many persons said) but a liar I’m not! From some of my friends opinion, I’m way too honest!

Why would I be disappointed in any way and where exactly did I even vaguely suggest that you are a liar?

It’s a way of saying that you think wrong. You are mistaking! By thinking that I copy-paste, when I’ve said many times that I send personalised mails to everyone, that’s a way of thinking that I’m a liar!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

I don’t receive junk mail, I receive mails from where I register. So yes, I read “the offer” and reply! "

You never get junk emails?

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

I don’t receive junk mail, I receive mails from where I register. So yes, I read “the offer” and reply!

You never get junk emails? "

in the mail box no, in the email they go to spam

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

I don’t receive junk mail, I receive mails from where I register. So yes, I read “the offer” and reply!

You never get junk emails?

in the mail box no, in the email they go to spam

Yeah, so go in your spam box and answer every one, then see how much patience you have left.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Well, I'm sure you'll get the entire site to behave the way you want.

Wish you all the best with your endeavours.

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Sorry, I pressed the wrong button and replied privately instead of in the thread. This is what I wrote:

What is wrong with this site or what is wrong with how you are perceived by its other users?

Any suggestions to improve the site then?

I don’t receive junk mail, I receive mails from where I register. So yes, I read “the offer” and reply!

You never get junk emails?

in the mail box no, in the email they go to spam

Yeah, so go in your spam box and answer every one, then see how much patience you have left. "

I didn’t registered to those (plus some of them can have malware in them that hacks your pc/phone), even some of the ones I registered to, they are with no reply (maybe I want to reply them..)

It’s not the same thing. Some people here ask for one specific word/sentence in the subject box, so there’s one filter, plus photos attached, another filter! Surely you get a lot of messages, and with this 2 filters you can sort a lot of them, you don’t even have to open them! Then the ones you open, you can ask some specific pictures. Another filter... and so on.

Many people have this

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By *entleman4Ladies OP Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Well, I'm sure you'll get the entire site to behave the way you want.

Wish you all the best with your endeavours."

No I will not! There are too many profiles for all of them to get to this, and to turn them against me

But thank you for your kind words

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