FabSwingers.com forum: Swing or not

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Believe these too much faffing about too get a meet these days , some couples have very little time we understand as we have to arrange childcare ourselfs,

But most couples have either been watching the only way is Essex too much and want the perfect looking couple or just get off on message people .... thoughts

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Easier to go out to a Swinger's Club, have a good night out and see who you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely go to a club,you will have a blast!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Agree with others 're going to a club...especially where you live.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Some of the couples who get off on messaging are most likely single guys, and I myself like to chat for a bit before arranging anything. Got to k iw we all get on and like each other. A good way to sift out alot of time wasters is if you like a couple, and get on after a few messages, just ask for a chat on cam with them both together. Any genuine couple would understand that as I same boat as yourselves. But like above, clubs and socials is the best way. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may be watching only way is Essex they may not but people have the right to choose who they are attracted to and then if to meet or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us swinging is a pleasure, not a desperation, tick box or competition to show how many meets we had. We have our preferences and if a couple (or part of it) don't match them - we won't take things further. It's about having fun and enjoying ourselves, not settling for someone who isn't a match just for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Believe these too much faffing about too get a meet these days , some couples have very little time we understand as we have to arrange childcare ourselfs,

But most couples have either been watching the only way is Essex too much and want the perfect looking couple or just get off on message people .... thoughts"
they want people they fancy so that means both of you bet you want that to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Believe these too much faffing about too get a meet these days , some couples have very little time we understand as we have to arrange childcare ourselfs,

But most couples have either been watching the only way is Essex too much and want the perfect looking couple or just get off on message people .... thoughtsthey want people they fancy so that means both of you bet you want that to

I think that's the stumbling block here they do but don't think others should have the choice to be fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do clubs a lot and there are a lot of "watchers" , depends what you are looking for really, singles, couples, bi nights, we have gone to clubs and had a great time and gone some nights and its been quite awful leaving one of us quite dejected.

Its a long journey to find what it is you really want x

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Folk have the right to have a preference with anyone they see online i take it ur not getting any msgs and ur blaming a tv show, i think ur expectations of this site is v wrong no one owes anyone anything! If a couple think ur hot u will recieve a reply if not they arent interested no need to blame

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

My partner leaves me to do all the messaging, and if we exchange numbers.... Hay presto!!! no show lol....

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think this aspect of the scene is where swingers clubs and parties come into their own. Rather than sending back and forth messages to no end result, the club scene is an open market to find available (now) consenting play mates. Plus with the added advantage of possibly making connections for future adventures outside of the club/party. You just can't substitute being able to meet people face to face with the possibility of taking things futher then and there should you all fancy it.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Bang on,

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Bang on,

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