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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

I’m pretty new to all this and look for some advice in meeting couples and women.. looking at my profile do you think I need to edit it or change anything? Also, what’s the best way to meet likeminded couples and women on here?

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By *alistraWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Text is pretty crap tbh. Theres 4 links on my profile. Have a read of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text is all about your ex rather than you which is fine if you want people to read and surmise that you put swinging first and she wasn't into being pushed into it and left. That may not be what happened but it cab be read that way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I agree with the above, what's your ex got to do with it?

Write about you, how you want to proceed and what you can offer to the people you hope to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text is short, generic and boring. Nothing to grab your attention or interest you.

As a single man you need to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it clean untill the lady decides she's intrested and more exciting chat and introduce yourself in a message not what your looking for.... woman can smell desperation ...take it easy and enjoy yourself .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for acting on advise given as there is no ex girlfriend mentionned now.

You need to add a bit more interesting stuff to your profile. What makes you different to the other guys that are messaging ladies or couples.

Also would you really meet a 94 year old. Maybe alter your age range.

Write petsonal letters to people, not copy and paste ; but read their profile first regarding who they are looking for. No good sending superb personal messages if they only want * black * couples * insert preferences here.

Best way is to go to a social or a club. Meet 30 to 60 people all in one night , face to face .

Good luck. Be patient.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It tells me everything I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to your local swingers club. Good luck

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Like above. Get to a club or social. But lut your big boys pants in as finding so.eone to hold your hand will be hard.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Opening two threads at the same time asking for people to look at your profile comes across as attention seeking.

However, your profile has 4 pics on it, and the best one is the big smiling face that doesn't have a third of your face covered by your sunglasses. Probably the best choice for a profile pic IMHO.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Text is pretty crap tbh. Theres 4 links on my profile. Have a read of them. "

I like your profile

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