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By *rank40 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Looking just for someone who looking for nsa fun not really into the messaging back and forth I’m not here to make friends lol just fun

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

But you're profile says you're open to making friends

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Looking just for someone who looking for nsa fun not really into the messaging back and forth I’m not here to make friends lol just fun "

With that attitude you'll probably fare better down your local redlight area.

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Looking just for someone who looking for nsa fun not really into the messaging back and forth I’m not here to make friends lol just fun

With that attitude you'll probably fare better down your local redlight area."

There are some people who think this site is a substitute for a red light area but without paying.

Sad..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fun is only fun with people I know I can trust. Messages help me figure that out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You'd probably do ok in a club op. Lots of people on the forum want more than just a quick fuck although some are ok with it. Your best bet is to seek out profiles that are looking for the same as you and take it from there.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe this is the wrong site for what You're looking for OP ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe this is the wrong site for what You're looking for OP ? "

Why do you say that?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I only have fun, with people I'm friends with

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Welcome to the forums, hope you find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe this is the wrong site for what You're looking for OP ?

Why do you say that?"

Ti#der might be better ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe this is the wrong site for what You're looking for OP ?

Why do you say that?

Ti#der might be better ? "

I think there are more people looking for casual hook ups on fab than the forum would suggest. I think there's a place for every type of person here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think there are degrees of casual hookup. It's something I do. But I certainly don't do it without establishing minimal rapport for my piece of mind and safety. Some women might, but being unprepared to have a friendly chat and/or meet in a pub to show you're not an axe murderer... will narrow your options significantly.

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

Even as a guy I prefer to meet for a social before committing to anything .This normally involves messaging a few times at least .each to there own but personally I enjoy the social side of swinging almost as much as the sex

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"You'd probably do ok in a club op. Lots of people on the forum want more than just a quick fuck although some are ok with it. Your best bet is to seek out profiles that are looking for the same as you and take it from there.

Good luck "

this OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are degrees of casual hookup. It's something I do. But I certainly don't do it without establishing minimal rapport for my piece of mind and safety. Some women might, but being unprepared to have a friendly chat and/or meet in a pub to show you're not an axe murderer... will narrow your options significantly. "

Totally agree..I’d never meet a total stranger if we’d not even exchanged lots messages at the very least, as well as a phone call and a social...Stranger danger isn’t just for kids !

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People will generally need a few message interchanges, to ensure compatibility and also as many won't be available to meet instantly or have the trust needed to go offsite to get ready, after receiving a cock pic. It's ala less likely that the best matches for each other are always on the site at the same times.

Men are in abundance here and have to expect to invest great effort, to get success and meets. That could include meeting at clubs and I think most of us prefer to meet socially for coffee etc, before knowing if others are a match for sex.

Instashag is a different site

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We meet socially at least once but it doesn't mean everyone has to. Plenty of people have sex in clubs without knowing the person's name even. There's room for everyone

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"We meet socially at least once but it doesn't mean everyone has to. Plenty of people have sex in clubs without knowing the person's name even. There's room for everyone "

I like to think there is room for everyone.. we all have different needs.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet socially at least once but it doesn't mean everyone has to. Plenty of people have sex in clubs without knowing the person's name even. There's room for everyone

I like to think there is room for everyone.. we all have different needs."

"We meet socially at least once but it doesn't mean everyone has to. Plenty of people have sex in clubs without knowing the person's name even. There's room for everyone

I like to think there is room for everyone.. we all have different needs."

Agreed.

We are not fans of endless message ping pong we are here purely for the hot sex!

Fab is not a find a friend service for us at least, although we have invariably made a few friends along the way we all fucked each other senseless first.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking just for someone who looking for nsa fun not really into the messaging back and forth I’m not here to make friends lol just fun

With that attitude you'll probably fare better down your local redlight area.

There are some people who think this site is a substitute for a red light area but without paying.

Sad.."

This. Nsa instant delete.

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By *rank40 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


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Agreed.

We are not fans of endless message ping pong we are here purely for the hot sex!

Fab is not a find a friend service for us at least, although we have invariably made a few friends along the way we all fucked each other senseless first.

KJ x

"

Atleast someone gets it, but I guess it’s just security for women they are to many guys on here, so I guess the couples and females have to filter down a few things

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By *rank40 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


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This. Nsa instant delete. "

What isit about nsa you don’t like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Agreed.

We are not fans of endless message ping pong we are here purely for the hot sex!

Fab is not a find a friend service for us at least, although we have invariably made a few friends along the way we all fucked each other senseless first.

KJ x

Atleast someone gets it, but I guess it’s just security for women they are to many guys on here, so I guess the couples and females have to filter down a few things "

As a couple my wife feels safe because I'm there as her protector I can imagine it's very different for a single lady they will naturally need to have more communication to assess if the person is safe to meet.

That's why a social in a public place is important for single female swingers. As a couple I the male chat to and vet the single males and if I feel OK and my wife's happy then we have played on the first meet before.

Meeting at clubs is a good way to stay safe but also potentially be able to meet just for fun rather than building some level of relationship first.

KJ x

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Looking just for someone who looking for nsa fun not really into the messaging back and forth I’m not here to make friends lol just fun "

Trying to imagine what "not making friends just fun" looks like.

Nah.

There are devices for that sort of thing.

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Looking just for someone who looking for nsa fun not really into the messaging back and forth I’m not here to make friends lol just fun "

Your profile says you want to make friends OP.

Changed your mind now??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too true

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By *rank40 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"

Your profile says you want to make friends OP.

Changed your mind now??"

Hahah yeah kinda well I didn’t structure it properly I mean a little friendship needed in terms of needing to get along with the person I just mean I don’t want to be involved with your life outside of fab

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