FabSwingers.com forum: Is my profile negative

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks. "

I wouldn't say negative my friend I would say people on here don't give a shit about profiles more about dick inches

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I don’t read it as negative, just a bit tentative and perfunctory.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

I wouldn't say negative my friend I would say people on here don't give a shit about profiles more about dick inches "

Hmm

Maybe it is some peoples ways of saying I can't see how big your cock is lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t read it as negative, just a bit tentative and perfunctory. "

Ah, okay

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don’t think it comes across as negative

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks. "

It doesn't say much does it??

We are surprised that so many people ask for advice, when with a couple of words typed in to the search box would give all the advice required?

Plus, it would show some kind of effort rather than a little.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?"

I hardly if ever recieve a first message. So I can't say the forums are helping in that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile crap aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?

I hardly if ever recieve a first message. So I can't say the forums are helping in that way. "

From what I gather I don’t think many do. I’ve been here over 2 years and I’ve never sent one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

It doesn't say much does it??

We are surprised that so many people ask for advice, when with a couple of words typed in to the search box would give all the advice required?

Plus, it would show some kind of effort rather than a little."

What else should I say?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It's your profile and gives an accurate version of who you are, it's not negative. But as already been commented plenty of advice threads on the forums. Even the best written profiles don't guarantee a meet.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Its not negative Micky but do lose the first paragraph .....

Who cares about a 'friend' telling you about this site and you just having a look out of 'curiosity' .......

You're not a NUN you don't have to say three hail Mary's to everyone for joining up ........

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

It doesn't say much does it??

We are surprised that so many people ask for advice, when with a couple of words typed in to the search box would give all the advice required?

Plus, it would show some kind of effort rather than a little.

What else should I say? "

Like we said, we have seen loads of great advice about profiles for single guys.

Have you taken a look?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?

I hardly if ever recieve a first message. So I can't say the forums are helping in that way. "

Welcome to the club!

That's why you must be proactive and seize the initiative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't seem negative, doesn't seem particularly exciting either, maybe add something that you like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not negative Micky but do lose the first paragraph .....

Who cares about a 'friend' telling you about this site and you just having a look out of 'curiosity' .......

You're not a NUN you don't have to say three hail Mary's to everyone for joining up ........ "

Absolutely this. I've seen it many times. Who cares? Oh and short and sweet is great but does need personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?"

I would agree with Chill out..

Be a little creative with your pics and say a little bit more about yourself. Have look at the bottom of my bio for some great advice for single guys on fab.. It's worked wonders for some of my friends on here.

Happy Fabbing

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?

I would agree with Chill out..

Happy Fabbing "

Good to see you friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks. "
its not negative but it lacks info the women need to see something to be interested enough to chat put some personality into it get them chatting

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

There’s a lot to improve. Consider it as a opportunity to sell yourself and what you bring to any prospective fab party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent strategy Mickey, a great way to get chicks to your profile. Respect kid

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think it's negative but agree about the first bit. Maybe replace it with a bit about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say negative but it's not exactly enticing. There's nothing there that would grab my attention.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No its not negative.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I wouldn't say negative but it's quite cold and I don't come away feeling like I know anything of your personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks fine to me, clearly says what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?

I would agree with Chill out..

Happy Fabbing

Good to see you friend!

You too Mr California. Hope you're doing ok buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not at all negative.

Juat as others have said comes across a bit robotic.

You should try and get your personality across a bit(assuming your not a robot).

Sell yourself a bit.. dont BS but let people know what your like a bit more.

I know its easier said than done with a bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think it's at all negative op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its not negative Micky but do lose the first paragraph .....

Who cares about a 'friend' telling you about this site and you just having a look out of 'curiosity' .......

You're not a NUN you don't have to say three hail Mary's to everyone for joining up ........

Absolutely this. I've seen it many times. Who cares? Oh and short and sweet is great but does need personality

The person who writes it cares.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say negative but it's quite cold and I don't come away feeling like I know anything of your personality. "

That's what chatting is for.. But I get the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks. "

I'll not sugar coat this.

"I've not been to" or "I haven't done" are negatives. So I would say yes your profile is negative.

With the current pictures and text your sort of a dull matt grey colour blending into the back ground.

You need to take another look at what you want out of fab because right now you will just get depressed and go woh is me, Nobody loves me blah blah blah etc. etc.

So. If you want to be apart of the community you need to step up to the plate show your personality, show your fun side be the colours of the rainbow....

Then get your ass out and meet people. Local social events are great. Network. Be seen. Grow the confidence.

Mistress Amelia

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'm of the opinion that a persons first try at a profile is the real "them", so hesitate to give advice.

Reading the posts on here, I get the feeling that people see the forums as a sort of "golden bullet"v to getting meets, via messages from threads.

Hate to burst your bubble folks, but I'm pretty confident that the best way (especially for single guys) to get meets is to go to socials and clubs, network and make friends...so your profile is pretty irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

I'll not sugar coat this.

"I've not been to" or "I haven't done" are negatives. So I would say yes your profile is negative.

With the current pictures and text your sort of a dull matt grey colour blending into the back ground.

You need to take another look at what you want out of fab because right now you will just get depressed and go woh is me, Nobody loves me blah blah blah etc. etc.

So. If you want to be apart of the community you need to step up to the plate show your personality, show your fun side be the colours of the rainbow....

Then get your ass out and meet people. Local social events are great. Network. Be seen. Grow the confidence.

Mistress Amelia

Yes good points. I could write something amazing about myself, however anyone can have an amazing way with words and I could take pictures that would make me look good or dick pics where I look huge (it's all about the angles lol) but I feel all this wouldn't truly be representing myself and I don't like to pretend to be something I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

I'll not sugar coat this.

"I've not been to" or "I haven't done" are negatives. So I would say yes your profile is negative.

With the current pictures and text your sort of a dull matt grey colour blending into the back ground.

You need to take another look at what you want out of fab because right now you will just get depressed and go woh is me, Nobody loves me blah blah blah etc. etc.

So. If you want to be apart of the community you need to step up to the plate show your personality, show your fun side be the colours of the rainbow....

Then get your ass out and meet people. Local social events are great. Network. Be seen. Grow the confidence.

Mistress Amelia

Think of it this way... I wont walk into a shop and by the grey dull candy.. but oh the rainbow drops look good.

Your profile is a shop window. Entice people in. Blend into the background. Shut up shop and go watch bland TV...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negative? No. Boring? Yes.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"I wouldn't say negative but it's quite cold and I don't come away feeling like I know anything of your personality.

That's what chatting is for.. But I get the point. "

However, you have to leave someone wanting to chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

I wouldn't say negative my friend I would say people on here don't give a shit about profiles more about dick inches "

I don’t care about inches- I care if people are assholes, and entitled and sulking men are the biggest turn off. To lump all women together like that isn’t going to win any over.

OP it’s not overly negative, maybe change the last line to say “I’m always happy to get messages” rather than “just happy to get a message” it’s a bit less eeyore, but that’s the only negativity I see. -Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

I wouldn't say negative my friend I would say people on here don't give a shit about profiles more about dick inches

I don’t care about inches- I care if people are assholes, and entitled and sulking men are the biggest turn off. To lump all women together like that isn’t going to win any over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst not exactly negative there are quite a lot of negatives in there but it's definitely not positive ...

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?

I hardly if ever recieve a first message. So I can't say the forums are helping in that way. "

You sometimes receive a first message? You are doing well!

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Hi OP. I read a lot of ‘not’/ n’t’ in your profile. It is subliminally negative. But you are getting some reasonable feedback, which I suggest you consider. Good luck.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?

I hardly if ever recieve a first message. So I can't say the forums are helping in that way. "

We rarely do either tbf. Active on forums mostly and tried to write a relatively detailed profile but not much interest

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

It's not negative but maybe a little more detail would help?

I've seen some proper ranty ones. And some I can't even read yours isn't like that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks. "

Nothing wrong with your profile mate,a lot of members will like you're mature approach in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rewrote my one was told it sounded desperate so edited it,Any better now???

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By *urly1234ukMan
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

I think mine is boring but I don’t know what to do could anyone help me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you fab my pics a FAQs page on the most successful profile write ups comes your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't negative bit as others have said it doesn't say anything about you

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

I wouldn't say negative my friend I would say people on here don't give a shit about profiles more about dick inches "

Someone is still not getting it.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Why didn't you say anything about what you told me? You could get additional interest.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"Why didn't you say anything about what you told me? You could get additional interest."

Additional interests, you mean... I like gardening, baking and French films

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not negative but there isn't much there to make it stand out from the crowd. At least you're active on the forums, so i'm sure that helps?

I hardly if ever recieve a first message. So I can't say the forums are helping in that way. "

I have never sent a first message so I wouldn’t read into that too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not really negative but its not a great read and not one you would go wow at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told my profile is full of negativity.

What is your opinion about it and what should I change?

Any advice will be very appreciated, thanks.

I wouldn't say negative my friend I would say people on here don't give a shit about profiles more about dick inches "

No,no,no....that's not how it is,only a small minority look for that.

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