FabSwingers.com forum: Constructive criticism/advice/help please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Fabbers. I'm looking for some help/advice please. This is my 2nd time on this site and unfortunately it's no different from my first time, sending out messages and not getting any form of response, only ignored and deleted pretty much straight away. I've set up a new profile, completely Re written. And I've changed my approach to the way I word my messages. I'm polite, friendly and respectful! But yet, so very unsuccessful! I honestly don't understand where I'm going wrong.

So some help/advice would be much appreciated. Is it my photos? Or the way my profile is written?

2nd time on here and it's still hopeless, even with the changes that I've made. So something is clearly wrong! Perhaps I should call it a day and give up? Lol

But on a serious note, any advice would be much appreciated. Thank you

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

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Firstly, it’s only week one. Do you honestly think that your profile is enticing? If you do, great. Do you think you’ve put all the effort you can into your photos? If you’re happy with them, fantastic. Maybe allude to why you can’t accommodate.

What are your expectations of the site? Tricky to give advice when we don’t know what you’re hoping to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here before OP

And got verifications

Perhaps do what worked the first time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Firstly, it’s only week one. Do you honestly think that your profile is enticing? If you do, great. Do you think you’ve put all the effort you can into your photos? If you’re happy with them, fantastic. Maybe allude to why you can’t accommodate.

What are your expectations of the site? Tricky to give advice when we don’t know what you’re hoping to achieve. "

Thanks. I'm not very creative to be completely honest. I never really know what to write about myself. And the reason why I can not accommodate is personal and I don't wish to shout it out to the world! And if I'm absolutely honest, a photo is a photo, what kind of 'effort' can I put into a photo? Travel around the world and take exciting photos in different locations/backdrops perhaps? Lol. A photo is a photo and I am who I am, can't change my appearance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabbers. I'm looking for some help/advice please. This is my 2nd time on this site and unfortunately it's no different from my first time, sending out messages and not getting any form of response, only ignored and deleted pretty much straight away. I've set up a new profile, completely Re written. And I've changed my approach to the way I word my messages. I'm polite, friendly and respectful! But yet, so very unsuccessful! I honestly don't understand where I'm going wrong.

So some help/advice would be much appreciated. Is it my photos? Or the way my profile is written?

2nd time on here and it's still hopeless, even with the changes that I've made. So something is clearly wrong! Perhaps I should call it a day and give up? Lol

But on a serious note, any advice would be much appreciated. Thank you"
some can hack it here some can't.......... the required skills are patience in abundance, looks, tenacity, skin like leather, tatts or ink as its affectionately referred to, down and out beard, age, personality in a text message oh and moobs if you have these you may have a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, as you said, it is not your first time on the site and you just 'can't keep away'. However, from the way you talk in your forum posts, it looks like you've learned nothing from your previous experience. You sound arrogant and entitled, and don't seem to understand that, as a single male, you are just one tiny fish in a pond brimming with other fish. And people choosing the fish have got loads to choose from, and they can be picky.

Remember that not everyone is attracted to everyone, and that you are not entitled to a reply from anyone, even if you think your profile/message fits exactly what they are looking for. Why don't you try and get yourself to an organised social or a club near you, where your personality could shine? As I'm sorry, OP, but your online personality is very unattractive. And I'm not talking about the way you look, before you take my post totally the wrong way, like you did with some of the previous ones.

Anyway, OP, good luck and happy fabbing.

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