FabSwingers.com forum: profile/veri advise

By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

I've had a profile for a while but just started recently to dip my toes into the world of fab. Any advise on improvement at the moment I'm lucky to get any response at all. I'm not great with a camera and my photos never get a fab from you lovely ladies. I'm struggling to get a verification, I've been on cam and chatted but alas no veri. Any advice would be much appreciated.

Mart

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

Hi. Just cast my eyes on your profile. It seems fine to me. Maybe put in a little more about yourself /what you're looking for. Truth is, it's rare for a lady to make first contact, so you will have to message ladies frequently, hope this will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some everyday photos and beef up the profile a little but it's definitely above average when you look at some of the guys on here. Maybe browse some men's profiles for some ideas and just be honest with what you have to offer and what you bring to the table. Also start getting some messages out there as nothing will just fall in your lap.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think you have too many similar pics.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

"I think you have too many similar pics. "
that

Also get yourself to organised social or club, that could be good starting point.

Good luck mate

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By *ycallMan
over a year ago

Dorking

Try and put a bit more of your personality into your text. It reads fine and makes sense but doesn’t convey much that will grab a woman’s attention. You can always go scientific, experiment and change it up every few days to see what gets the best results.

My current profile is stupid and just takes the piss but I do seem to get messages from women or couples fairly regularly.

Also the photos do look quite camp, would possibly change them if you don’t want to attract the wrong gender.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP

To me this line reads different to your intended meaning: "If you would like to know more about me please feel free to get in touch". The only thing you wrote before this says that you are a single man that wants to meet women or couple.

So essentially your profile says 'I'm single and want to meet women and couples but either I can't be bothered to write anymore about me or I don't want to, so it's up to you to come to me'.

Clearly that wasn't your intention, and it is open to interpretation, but you asked for honest feedback and so you can choose what to do with that feedback now.

Couples and single women are far less likely to make the first approach on here than single men, and so if you want them to approach you then you really do need to give them something to work with. Tell them about you, what you want, what you offer, what your limits are, what makes you the man you are etc etc.

You should also consider your photo's a little more. They are all (bar one) the same photo, by which I mean the same pose in the same place, and that place has an old duvet cover hung up as a backdrop. If you want to go with the theme of posing in your cycling gear then why not get on your bike and take some outdoor pics somewhere in the countryside?

Good luck

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By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

Many thanks for the input, I will give it another go. Think I need a photographer lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I can’t see any pics that the status mentions.

Too much text for me

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Much improved.

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By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

a few new photos added

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By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

i've put a couple of photos on

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By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

cheers mate

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By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

thanks fella

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By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

thanks for the advice

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By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

thanks mate

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Looks ok you just need to add a few more photos.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Lol if you can't get any interest with your profile then I would say no one will.

I met two couples on here about 2 years ago. Been trying for 6 months now and nothing. Must have written to at least 50 or 60 couples with no success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to touch on your comment about ladies not fabbing your photos, the women of fab are far less inclined to fab pics than men are. Don't ask me why, but it's just the way it is.

You've only got to look at the 'Top Photo's' page to understand this.

Look at how many fabs the pics on the first page have, then select the filter to show mens pics and see how many fabs the highest placed men have.

It may also have something to do with the ratio between men and women here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive improvement text wise. When you are out and about get that camera out for some different selfies. Just add them as you go.

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By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

cheers fella, think i need a lady photographer for outdoor shots

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By *Electricity OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

added a few more today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines still a work in progress but hope to get some good cheeky ones on here soon.

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