FabSwingers.com forum: Need a woman

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please. "

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I have have been on this site for over a year women a d couples all want younger guys.

But if you are offering?? Lol.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nice of you to offer OP. Hope you find someone. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another Man claiming to be an oral expert zzzz

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please. "

On Amazon there is a nice blow up doll you can get called Fatty Patty she has 3 working holes.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"No I have have been on this site for over a year women a d couples all want younger guys.

But if you are offering?? Lol. "

There are older couples and women that are looking for similar aged men. There are just less of them.

Very kind of you to offer but I'm far more than a semen receptacle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't knock it until you have tried it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am sure you are, no offence meant

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You might have needs, but putting it like that makes it sound like you think that someone is obliged to give you that. Unfortunately they're not.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Thanks but let's keep things on the thread pls OP.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I am sure you are, no offence meant"

I'm not offended, I just think you need to maybe treat people as more than that, not many people just want to be treated like they are just another hole.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You are so witty, cheers.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app. "

Hi op

People do use it to date and find partners and some use it for nsa sex

I think what they mean is that your post sounds like its all about your needs being met and most women want some mutual fun when they have got to know someone and established trust,rather than from a post like this.

Hope you find what you seek.

Miss

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app. "

It is what people want it to be. We all use fab in different ways for our own satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I never expected any miracles but please if you aren't interested, save the sarky comments please

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app. "

Those comments seem quite immature to us.

This site isn’t about finding a partner for sex. It is a swinging site.

It is called Fabswingers NOT Findafuck.

Most people know the difference.

There are so many people chuck a few words in and expect free sex, yet have absolutely nothing to offer.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Id love to have my clit " liked" lol

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"Id love to have my clit " liked" lol"

We saw that too.

Funny.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your mature responce

Amazing how brave the keyboard warriors are on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Typo but I do like a clit

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"Thank you for your mature responce

Amazing how brave the keyboard warriors are on here"

Keyboard Warriors.

Where.

We just see honest comments.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I never expected any miracles but please if you aren't interested, save the sarky comments please "

I'm not interested, but my comment stands. How you present yourself matters. If you present yourself as needing sex, rather than, say, seeking mutually enjoyable experiences with like minded people, you're unlikely to win people over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I take your point and thank you for a mature responce.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And my original comment was a honest plea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Miss

Thank you, I get a lot out of giving as much as recievin.

But again point taken.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app. "

Honestly, judging by your responses, your attitude is your problem. You asked for help then just disregard it all and start getting arsey.

People use the site in different ways and contrary to your belief, women are not just there to be used to fuck. Try treating people like living, breathing beings instead of inanimate objects to stick your cock into.

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app.

Honestly, judging by your responses, your attitude is your problem. You asked for help then just disregard it all and start getting arsey.

We thought it was his desperation coming through.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A few messages gave sound advice and the Arsy comments came my way before I replied with (arsy) replies.

Have lost a partner of 28 yrs so I do know how respect works, but thank you for reminding me.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"A few messages gave sound advice and the Arsy comments came my way before I replied with (arsy) replies.

Have lost a partner of 28 yrs so I do know how respect works, but thank you for reminding me. "

I don't think there were any arsey comments, you asked for help, you got given advice, just because it isn't what you want to hear, doesn't make it arsey.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Would you consider yourself interesting?

If so, let us know.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"A few messages gave sound advice and the Arsy comments came my way before I replied with (arsy) replies.

Have lost a partner of 28 yrs so I do know how respect works, but thank you for reminding me.

I don't think there were any arsey comments, you asked for help, you got given advice, just because it isn't what you want to hear, doesn't make it arsey."

Some of the comments were possibly curt, but given the content (and the number of times we've seen it) it's not surprising.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"A few messages gave sound advice and the Arsy comments came my way before I replied with (arsy) replies.

Have lost a partner of 28 yrs so I do know how respect works, but thank you for reminding me.

I don't think there were any arsey comments, you asked for help, you got given advice, just because it isn't what you want to hear, doesn't make it arsey.

Some of the comments were possibly curt, but given the content (and the number of times we've seen it) it's not surprising. "

Yeah, I've probably been blunt, but like you say, we see this all the time.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please. "

Now that does sound desperate. What stops you finding a woman and why do you think anyone will go and meet your needs? There is nothing wrong with your age - different women have different age preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app. "

I'm here for my needs to be met so only meet people who's needs gel with mine, I'm definitely not on here so any man can get his end away ... that is seriously not fun!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app.

I'm here for my needs to be met so only meet people who's needs gel with mine, I'm definitely not on here so any man can get his end away ... that is seriously not fun! "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If you use reply and quote OP, we will know who you are replying to when you post here, thanks. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. "
lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mrs slowcum

I don't know about interesting but have lived a little.

Had to reply on here as I am to old to talk on your status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app.

I'm here for my needs to be met so only meet people who's needs gel with mine, I'm definitely not on here so any man can get his end away ... that is seriously not fun! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you use reply and quote OP, we will know who you are replying to when you post here, thanks. X"

Thanksx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Mrs slowcum

I don't know about interesting but have lived a little.

Had to reply on here as I am to old to talk on your status. "

You mean she has applied mail filters to reflect her age preferences. Why are you inboxing people instead of replying on this thread to them? That's the whole point of starting a forum thread, for posting on here, not sending unasked for or unwanted messages surely?

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"And my original comment was a honest plea. "

Question

Do you think that this is the right site for pleading for sex?

Is that what you think this site is for??

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By *arry1200Man
over a year ago

St athan

Umm well that was interesting reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have been on here a year where is your profile? There is virtually no info.Look at some of the advice in the forum's as you definitely need it. And no it's not a dating site but people still need to know more than just your oral skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the spirit of this man's post, but perhaps slightly less of a requirement for sex, may I ask for some input please. Due to me being into hotwifing, my partner has met a toyboy on here that suits all our fun times (Thanks Fab). However, she has given me a pass to try and perhaps meet someone and see how it goes. I am not actually after anything sexual, and would be nice to perhaps have a chat and meet someone for a drink and see where it goes. However for the few people I have mentioned this to, because I want to be honest about my situation, it appears to put them off. I have asked my wife to perhaps do a verification, just to show I am legit and not being a sneak. Would this put you off, knowing someone is in an open kind of relationship? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK cheers

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"In the spirit of this man's post, but perhaps slightly less of a requirement for sex, may I ask for some input please. Due to me being into hotwifing, my partner has met a toyboy on here that suits all our fun times (Thanks Fab). However, she has given me a pass to try and perhaps meet someone and see how it goes. I am not actually after anything sexual, and would be nice to perhaps have a chat and meet someone for a drink and see where it goes. However for the few people I have mentioned this to, because I want to be honest about my situation, it appears to put them off. I have asked my wife to perhaps do a verification, just to show I am legit and not being a sneak. Would this put you off, knowing someone is in an open kind of relationship? Thanks"

I'm only looking for completely single men so for me, yes it would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to be awkward, more for my own education (still a newby) would we be best served pursuing other avenues? Thanks for the reply though, does help loads.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not to be awkward, more for my own education (still a newby) would we be best served pursuing other avenues? Thanks for the reply though, does help loads."

There are plenty of women who do meet attached men, especially since you have permission from your wife. It might take some time but it's it's not impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I have have been on this site for over a year women a d couples all want younger guys.

But if you are offering?? Lol. "
erm no i dont think she was

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't remember asking you

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Don't remember asking you"

It's a public forum, you kind of asked everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A mistake I won't repeat you will be pleased to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the response. I do appreciate it.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Thanks for the response. I do appreciate it.

No problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a bit lemon mate. Have to agree, you asked the question.

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

We are sure that keyboard warriors were mentioned early.

Sending abusive messages by PM then blocking is the behaviour of the brave...

Sad, nearly as sad as pleading for a sympathy fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm allrite Jack should be the name of this forum

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

" Would this put you off, knowing someone is in an open kind of relationship? Thanks"

You will find all sorts here. I'm poly, so have more than one partner, my partners have other partners too (eg one is married, one is in a long term relationship). Different people are looking for different things, some want single, some will play with attached-with-permission, and some don't care even if you're cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok interesting. I suppose it's finding someone that is happy to go along with what the situation is and happy with the arrangement. Thanks also for the response, it is appreciated.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I'm allrite Jack should be the name of this forum"

You asked a question in an open forum, people have responded with their points of view. Don't understand why you are being sarcastic with your posts tbh.

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I'm allrite Jack should be the name of this forum

You asked a question in an open forum, people have responded with their points of view. Don't understand why you are being sarcastic with your posts tbh. "

Maybe he is upset that no one wants to give him free sex or a sympathy fuck.

It is a site for free sex isn't it??

Well the OP thinks it is.....

Shocking really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must be a quiet day on your forum

FFS.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Must be a quiet day on your forum

FFS. "

"Your" forum?

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

Sad post.....

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm allrite Jack should be the name of this forum

You asked a question in an open forum, people have responded with their points of view. Don't understand why you are being sarcastic with your posts tbh.

Maybe he is upset that no one wants to give him free sex or a sympathy fuck.

It is a site for free sex isn't it??

Well the OP thinks it is.....

Shocking really."

But only for men "needing" women. Women of course do not have needs and have no right to choose.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Don't remember asking you"

Very sociable.

Women are forming an orderly queue.

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I'm allrite Jack should be the name of this forum

You asked a question in an open forum, people have responded with their points of view. Don't understand why you are being sarcastic with your posts tbh.

Maybe he is upset that no one wants to give him free sex or a sympathy fuck.

It is a site for free sex isn't it??

Well the OP thinks it is.....

Shocking really.

But only for men "needing" women. Women of course do not have needs and have no right to choose. "

Of course.

According to certain men on here women should be here for guys who need sex.

Like we said.

Sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In no way wishing to be offensive, but if that is what you are looking for maybe consider an escort or similar

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please. "

Having looked at your profile, your post, and the way you have conducted yourself on this thread, I don’t think it’s your age turning women off. We’ve heard about your needs but nothing about what you’re offering a woman. Can you think of a reason why a woman should agree to fulfill your needs?

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

He wants sex though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So no one fancy a coffee and a slice of cake this morning then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With that attitude towards the people who tried to give you some advice and constructive criticism - you gotta help yourself, OP.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"In no way wishing to be offensive, but if that is what you are looking for maybe consider an escort or similar "

Not offensive, probably a good solution if he went to the right site for that. Having said that, escorts are allowed preferences and to say no too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"So no one fancy a coffee and a slice of cake this morning then."

Yup, I have both, a home made Victoria sponge actually.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please. "

Sorry; I'm not into charity fucks.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

There are quite a few over 65 year old men on here that do extremely well meet wise, maybe it's not the age thing putting people off.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"There are quite a few over 65 year old men on here that do extremely well meet wise, maybe it's not the age thing putting people off."

Sadly, I don't think it is with tbh.

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By *lienrockMan
over a year ago

Fife

"Id love to have my clit " liked" lol"

I'd like to like your clit! Your boobs are very liked!!

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By *havedbearMan
over a year ago

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please. "

Hiya fella. I am not a spring chicken either but I found that going to clubs and talking to people has always been the best way to get what you're after. Not only that you meet great people who become good friends.

Also there is always the chatroom option.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Mrs slowcum

I don't know about interesting but have lived a little.

Had to reply on here as I am to old to talk on your status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

Sorry; I'm not into charity fucks."

that is a brilliant response fair play. Sorry OP but you asked in a forum and you don't like the answers people have given you. Personally I think you should get Pamela and her 5 daughters and be happy with that yourself. It's the same thing in life nothing is given for free you have to put something in to get something out and from what people are saying you are not selling yourself very well. Trust me there a lot more men than ladies on here and they get bombarded by stupid horrible messages from guys. It is hard on here yes but show people respect, don't expect every lady/couple to reply to you if you have messaged them and also take on board what people say instead of getting in a grump because you don't like their response to you, your not helping yourself with the replies. Anyway good luck to you in finding what you are looking for

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Id love to have my clit " liked" lol"

I could "fab" it if you like - just.... cant..... quite.....see it

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Also there is always the chatroom option. "

Going by the OP's chat in this thread I'm not sure he'd be any more successful in the chatrooms really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please. "

I have been enjoying the popcorn while reading all of this. Very entertaining.

Now.. Mr OP.

I commend you for having such a wonderful long lasting relationship. It is a very rare in modern society.

However, you have been brought up on old school relationships and have not been in the dating game for a long time.

Things have changed. ALOT!!

You need to take a step back and think about your approach because presently you are making an arse of it.

Perhaps you would be better looking to local social events or clubs. I would suspect chatting to others would allow your prospective to change slightly.

Desperation will get you a swift kick in the verbal nuts from the forums and chat rooms.

On A side note. Your profile though honest is not enticing and will get you nowhere fast.

Again take a step back. Find local socials and network.

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By *teveNW81Man
over a year ago

wigan

You've had a nightmare here mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs slowcum

I don't know about interesting but have lived a little.

Had to reply on here as I am to old to talk on your status.

Then the "reply privately" option on all the threads is utterly redundant?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you, constructive criticism I can't argue against

Lessons learnt over the last 24hrs

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Mrs slowcum

I don't know about interesting but have lived a little.

Had to reply on here as I am to old to talk on your status.

Then the "reply privately" option on all the threads is utterly redundant?"

Cant argue with that!

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

OP I see lots of men in swinging clubs your age and older enjoying sex with women and couples. Everybody has their age preferences but your age isn't necessarily the reason why you can't find a woman on here. I'd suggest you go to a club or a social, just chat and get to know people and see if anything clicks. But don't go there with the expectation of guaranteed sex. Just get to know people and if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't. But its definitely not just down to your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I have been enjoying the popcorn while reading all of this. Very entertaining.

Now.. Mr OP.

I commend you for having such a wonderful long lasting relationship. It is a very rare in modern society.

However, you have been brought up on old school relationships and have not been in the dating game for a long time.

Things have changed. ALOT!!

You need to take a step back and think about your approach because presently you are making an arse of it.

Perhaps you would be better looking to local social events or clubs. I would suspect chatting to others would allow your prospective to change slightly.

Desperation will get you a swift kick in the verbal nuts from the forums and chat rooms.

On A side note. Your profile though honest is not enticing and will get you nowhere fast.

Again take a step back. Find local socials and network.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just snooped your profile and it literally just feels like it says: men stay away. Fair point. But what about your interests, your introduction,there isn't much there and it feels ranty. You wrote such a nice message on this forum. Involve your wife,write her profile name with something like feel free to contact her and verify x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Mrs slowcum

I don't know about interesting but have lived a little.

Had to reply on here as I am to old to talk on your status.

Then the "reply privately" option on all the threads is utterly redundant?"

No. I'm guessing it's there if people do want to discuss something in private.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

OP Guess we all need one of them....!!!!

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

We are of the opinion that some single guys are on here for the wrong reasons and have no idea what the lifestyle is about.

Some think being on here results in free sex.

They are sorely mistaken.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Thank you, constructive criticism I can't argue against

Lessons learnt over the last 24hrs"

Your profile is much better now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tha k you x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"There are quite a few over 65 year old men on here that do extremely well meet wise, maybe it's not the age thing putting people off."

I don't seem to do too badly for someone nearly 70yo. Plus I am not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my nan needs a bingo partner she isn't a looker though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So no one fancy a coffee and a slice of cake this morning then.

Yup, I have both, a home made Victoria sponge actually. "

Of course only home made in my kitchen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs slowcum

I don't know about interesting but have lived a little.

Had to reply on here as I am to old to talk on your status.

Then the "reply privately" option on all the threads is utterly redundant?

No. I'm guessing it's there if people do want to discuss something in private. "

Of course, but it manifests in the form of a private message, which presumably contributors know, understand and might expect...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple of recurring themes to replies in threads like this.

One is the "sense of entitlement" attack. Someone for sure will choose to say that the OP, by virtue of expressing a need or desire for sex, is acting like they are entitled to it. That they believe someone should give them what they want. Sorry. Doesn't follow. Expressing a desire and feeling entitled to having that desire satisfied are not inextricably linked.

Second is the "they don't understand 'the lifestyle' " tosh. WTF is that all about (stands back and awaits being told that I don't get the lifestyle either). This isn't a cult, or religion, or some higher cultural ideal. It's a bunch of folk with a shared interest in various liberal sexual proclivities.

Don't be so ready to judge.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People have preferences, so it's great when others make it clear that they are not for us. It's a really tough site for all single men, so the best thing to do is to use other forum threads that have tons of advice detailing how to sell and promote yourself well. Include clubs and socials, engaging minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People have preferences, so it's great when others make it clear that they are not for us. It's a really tough site for all single men, so the best thing to do is to use other forum threads that have tons of advice detailing how to sell and promote yourself well. Include clubs and socials, engaging minds"

Good advice. And you're quite right. If one reaches this sort of age without realising that we just aren't everybody's cup of tea, in real life and well as in fab, then they just haven't been paying attention.

IRL, as here, rejection is the norm, not the exception. Doesn't mean to give up though. As car dealers say: there's an arse for every seat. Equally there's at least one someone for everyone. Doesn't mean they'll be easy to find tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app. "

It isn't a dating app. But the overwhelming majority of women like to be treated as if they're more than just fulfilling a basic need for you. Different approaches fire their synapses, without which they're going to be in no mood whatsoever for anything sexual.

You don't have to woo them as if you're proposing marriage, but there's no element of seduction in your post and no hint of what they may get out of it, which after all is what a woman will consider.

Ironically it's the kind of post that a 19 year old guy might typically make on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terms of practical advice, the tool of "I match their preferences too" when searching profiles may improve your chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app.

You don't have to woo them as if you're proposing marriage, but there's no element of seduction in your post and no hint of what they may get out of it, which after all is what a woman will consider.

Ironically it's the kind of post that a 19 year old guy might typically make on here.

Every time someone throws this up, I wonder what exactly they are saying. Still waiting for an answer.

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app. "

The profile may have been changed, but we hope that sense of entitlement has changed as well.

It seems that some people think that this is a site where people give free sex to whoever wants it.

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Nothing to do with your age.....

It has everything to do with your crap profile!

So change it, make it better.....

Then maybe your prospects will get better too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am so sorry there was thinking that the site was to find a partner for sex I didn't realize it was a dating app.

The profile may have been changed, but we hope that sense of entitlement has changed as well.

It seems that some people think that this is a site where people give free sex to whoever wants it."

Jeez here we go with that "sense of entitlement" crap again.

There was nothing in OPs starting post to suggest any hint of a sense of entitlement. He was simply expressing a need or desire he hoped someone might help him fill.

Maybe no-one will or can, but there's nothing wrong with him expressing it.

Blinkers off peeps.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. "
this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

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By *J StathamMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Dude your profile is unique and amazing

Your honest, open and upfront u like 90% of the profiles on here.

I wish you all the best in your journey to find a woman on here and when you do give me some advise because it's hard for me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, do you message people around the same age as you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the few of you that understand the real meaning of my initial post.

No intention of entitlement or a slur on any femail that might read it.

I have received some well meant criticism and a fair amount of outright hostility.

I hope this matter can now be closed.

And I wish you all, the best.

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By *llalone300Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I have the same problem lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls "

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

Best of luck OP!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

Best of luck OP!"
I don't see how you deduced from his op that he was merely looking for someone to empty his balls into ,I think op took advice from the more positive and constructive posts , forums should be fun not degrading

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

Best of luck OP!I don't see how you deduced from his op that he was merely looking for someone to empty his balls into ,I think op took advice from the more positive and constructive posts , forums should be fun not degrading "

His profile also added to my first post and subsequent comments.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

His profile also added to my first post and subsequent comments. "
not sure what you mean here

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

His profile also added to my first post and subsequent comments. not sure what you mean here "

His profile added to my opinion that he was just wanting someone to empty his balls into.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

His profile also added to my first post and subsequent comments. not sure what you mean here

His profile added to my opinion that he was just wanting someone to empty his balls into. "
I see , so he must have quickly re wrote his profile out after the very first comments as when I looked it seemed to be quite endearing

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

His profile also added to my first post and subsequent comments. not sure what you mean here

His profile added to my opinion that he was just wanting someone to empty his balls into. I see , so he must have quickly re wrote his profile out after the very first comments as when I looked it seemed to be quite endearing "

Well that's your opinion and I had mine. Just because yours is positive it doesn't make it more valid.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

His profile also added to my first post and subsequent comments. not sure what you mean here

Well that's your opinion and I had mine. Just because yours is positive it doesn't make it more valid."
yours seemed to me like a person attack but that's just my opinion

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

His profile also added to my first post and subsequent comments. not sure what you mean here

Well that's your opinion and I had mine. Just because yours is positive it doesn't make it more valid. yours seemed to me like a person attack but that's just my opinion "

I don't know the guy and if you notice further down I told him his profile is much better. I was basing my opinions on the information at hand, that information has now changed, so has my opinion.

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

His profile also added to my first post and subsequent comments. not sure what you mean here

Well that's your opinion and I had mine. Just because yours is positive it doesn't make it more valid. yours seemed to me like a person attack but that's just my opinion "

Did you see his initial profile?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Hi guys I ain't a youngster any more but I srill have needs but because of my age no one is interested

Can anyone help please.

I don't think this post will help you, it sounds as if you just want someone to empty your balls into. this post does not suggest he's looking for someone to empty his balls

I disagree.

OP improved his profile and clearly took some of the advice given.

His profile also added to my first post and subsequent comments. not sure what you mean here

Well that's your opinion and I had mine. Just because yours is positive it doesn't make it more valid. yours seemed to me like a person attack but that's just my opinion

Did you see his initial profile?"
see my post above

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"No I have have been on this site for over a year women a d couples all want younger guys.

But if you are offering?? Lol. "

Try upping your age limit a little? I don't know if it will help nut you go 40 plus below your age and only 5 above.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you.

Ps, you are hot.

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