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By *tt15 OP   Man
over a year ago

harlow

Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance "

Roses are red

I am a swinger

If I come to yours

Fancy a finger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance

Roses are red

I am a swinger

If I come to yours

Fancy a finger?

"

Yep that’s the ticket!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the profile and pitch your message round that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's different but reading the profile is always a good start

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

The subject line doesn’t matter too much to us.

But the message needs to reflect that they’ve done more than just look at our pictures.

Although messages commenting on our pictures are nice too!

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance

Roses are red

I am a swinger

If I come to yours

Fancy a finger?

"

That’ll do!!

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By *tt15 OP   Man
over a year ago

harlow

Lol I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance "

1/Read someone's profile for clues.

2/Make it personal not one message to send to all.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance "
people could write anything but if the profile from the sender is not up to scratch then the message will probably get ignored and or deleted op.

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By *tt15 OP   Man
over a year ago

harlow


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance people could write anything but if the profile from the sender is not up to scratch then the message will probably get ignored and or deleted op. "

Thanks do you think I need some more pictures on my profile?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance people could write anything but if the profile from the sender is not up to scratch then the message will probably get ignored and or deleted op.

Thanks do you think I need some more pictures on my profile?"
you’ve not asked directly for profile feedback op so can’t advise.

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By *tt15 OP   Man
over a year ago

harlow


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance people could write anything but if the profile from the sender is not up to scratch then the message will probably get ignored and or deleted op.

Sorry didn’t realize. But thanks for the other advice

Thanks do you think I need some more pictures on my profile? you’ve not asked directly for profile feedback op so can’t advise. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read the profile and dont be a dick

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By *sgigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Tell half a joke and hope they ask for the rest. ...

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Write a paragraph not one word. Introduce yourself. Refer to the profile of the person you are writing to. Suggest how your profile indicates similar interests.

The key thing is that you want the lady to believe you are interested in meeting them, and not sending the same message to 50 other ladies.

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By *tt15 OP   Man
over a year ago

harlow

Thank you everyone the advance is really appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi this is me etc would you like a chat . There's far to many people on here senting .

Hi or hello or you like.

I normally say if sending to a female.

Hi sorry for mailing am Stacy am just pasting by with a sort mail as I know that you are getting loads.

But am just saying hello and I liked your profile nice photos etc.And then a wee bit about me.

And at the end. I say something like . Oh if am not what you are looking for. take care have fun keep safe

Stacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never included sex in a first message. That’s the quickest way for a delete in a lot of people’s eyes. You’ll still have to work chatting up etc as if this is the real world. Just do what you would do flirting with the pretty girl in the office at work. You wouldn’t steam roll in talking about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance "
dear sir stroke madam literally

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier


"Hi all am just curious as the best way way to start a message. What is good to put as the subject. I’ve just bin putting hello but seems a bit lame. Any advice would be great.

Thanks in advance

1/Read someone's profile for clues.

2/Make it personal not one message to send to all. "

Cora has the right advice.

Happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do as I do I say

Hi Im Ron

Im blessed with a fully working cock

Alas I don't have a garage so can I park it on your foof oner evening.

Its bloody effective too!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

my god I get pissed off when guys don't bother to read your profile, or think they have, but brain and keyboard don't connect!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my god I get pissed off when guys don't bother to read your profile, or think they have, but brain and keyboard don't connect!!!!"

This.

Guys it's not difficult. Read the profile, determine a potential compatibility. Send a polite message.

Simple.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Best message I ever got was an insult, however it was obviously humorous in its delivery. Certainly got a reply just as discourteous back but it did start a dialogue between us.

Being inventive and humorous will always be a treat when receiving a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell half a joke and hope they ask for the rest. ..."

Genius in the house.

That's actually brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone the advance is really appreciated "

I actually messaged a couple for the first time tonight. I read the profile 3 times and rewrote the message about 5 times to make sure I got it right. Although my message was only two paragraphs I mentioned how fun and interesting they seemed. Also talked about our shared interests and personalities etc... They are currently offline but fingers crossed.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"my god I get pissed off when guys don't bother to read your profile, or think they have, but brain and keyboard don't connect!!!!

This.

Guys it's not difficult. Read the profile, determine a potential compatibility. Send a polite message.

Simple."

And accept that as a single straight man we are playing a game of optimism over experience, but optimism is an attractive trait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my god I get pissed off when guys don't bother to read your profile, or think they have, but brain and keyboard don't connect!!!!"

I know you are not meeting or chatting with anyone through your profile so I will take this opportunity to say you are absolutely stunning.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profile - make sure you meet their criteria. Be sure in your mind that they actually appeal to you (i.e. not just because they are female and you are desperate to get your end away.)

Write a personalised message to that person. It still might end up “unread, deleted” but at least you tried and you won’t have sent another junk email to every female in your target area.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It doesn't bother me too much what is in the subject line because I always look at profiles first. I'm more likely to reply if they are localish to me whether I'm interested or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone's different but reading the profile is always a good start "

Great advice.

But some profiles are so limited in what they say. For example I think there should be a ban on "will fill in later" it's a lazy excuse. And means that the people with a decent profile just get bombarded with messages.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I don't know the best, but pretty sure I have had all the worse, but top tip, don't just write hi, how are you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear ........

For formal introductions

Hi .............

For informal introductions

Mistress Amelia

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I want to offer my love and respect to the end

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