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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning guys, I’ve been on and of the site for a while, an old female colleague introduced me to the site whilst at work.

I’ve had a couple of meets on my old profile, I’m in the Southampton area, Hampshire. Seems a little dead around here for swinging.

Any advice is much appreciated, looking for quality over quantity, feel free to get in touch

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

The 420 bit in your user name will make many pass you by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The 420 bit in your user name will make many pass you by."

Thanks for the feedback, I did think this, maybe a little bit more subtle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

420 puts us off.

And, for me, Vamp, the name is a bit crass, but, that’s just me.

As I am considering meeting alone soon, it is a ‘No’ from me. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All your username will put a lot off even looking at your profile.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Agreed. It sounds immature.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Any mention of drugs is an instant block from us, whether it's on a profile name, in profile text or a status.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

How many cock pictures is too many Op ? Especially if they're your only pictures. There's guys on here who really make an effort with their pictures and profile, check them out and get some ideas, but don't copy.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Nothing but cock pics?

Drug references?

Inappropriate use of apostrophes?

Can’t accommodate without explanation?

Clumsy, shallow, information-lite text?

Congratulations, you’ve won shit profile bingo

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

PS, I was in Southampton/Eastleigh/Bishopstoke last week. It didn’t look like there was a lack of action to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A poor profile and the drugs reference in your name just says walk away to me sorry but you did ask.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"The 420 bit in your user name will make many pass you by."

100% agree with this statement.

Hello OP. Southampton has never been a swinging dessert as far as we remember, so perhaps it's just your experience.

The advice you have already received above is pretty much generic advice given on all these threads. Why not go and read a few and do your own research?

However, your starting points are definitely that you have far too many cock pics, drug references and no substance to your profile text. I'm sorry, but we would pass you by.

Take a step back, read your profile out loud, and ask yourself does it really reflect you and what you offer to others.

Good luck

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"The 420 bit in your user name will make many pass you by."

Same for me its a definite negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 420 bit in your user name will make many pass you by.

Same for me its a definite negative. "

As soon as we read the profile name it's a no.

It's a double edge sword though tbh I'd rather the drug reference stays in the username that way it acts as a warning to fabbers who don't meet drug users.

KJ x

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

What baffles me is why admin do not block profiles with clear references to illegal activity.

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