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By *lwaysWilling OP   Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading

Do people look at age and make the decision or still look for an attraction regardless of age!!.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Extremes of age do matter yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course she is important.

Are there really folk out there looking to meet others in their 80s 90s ?

99?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is very important to me, as I've noticed a certain pattern. Like most of the time, men below 35 may have all the talk but none of the walk. They are porn-educated, believe every woman is dying to be pounded with their cock for hours and foreplay is the F word. So I prefer older men, 35+, and have a regular FWB who is 60.

Also, OP, are you 100% sure it's your age holding you back? I'd say the main reason may be elsewhere, but because you didn't ask for profile advice, I can't give any.

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By *lwaysWilling OP   Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading


"Age is very important to me, as I've noticed a certain pattern. Like most of the time, men below 35 may have all the talk but none of the walk. They are porn-educated, believe every woman is dying to be pounded with their cock for hours and foreplay is the F word. So I prefer older men, 35+, and have a regular FWB who is 60.

Also, OP, are you 100% sure it's your age holding you back? I'd say the main reason may be elsewhere, but because you didn't ask for profile advice, I can't give any. "

It was just a curious question. A separate conversation at work. Just wondered what the thoughts were on here. Thank You, and I'd love your advice on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is very important to me, as I've noticed a certain pattern. Like most of the time, men below 35 may have all the talk but none of the walk. They are porn-educated, believe every woman is dying to be pounded with their cock for hours and foreplay is the F word. So I prefer older men, 35+, and have a regular FWB who is 60.

Also, OP, are you 100% sure it's your age holding you back? I'd say the main reason may be elsewhere, but because you didn't ask for profile advice, I can't give any.

It was just a curious question. A separate conversation at work. Just wondered what the thoughts were on here. Thank You, and I'd love your advice on my profile. "

Have a look on my profile, there are some links to great advice there. Also, simple forum search would bring tons of advice, too.

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By *lwaysWilling OP   Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading


"Age is very important to me, as I've noticed a certain pattern. Like most of the time, men below 35 may have all the talk but none of the walk. They are porn-educated, believe every woman is dying to be pounded with their cock for hours and foreplay is the F word. So I prefer older men, 35+, and have a regular FWB who is 60.

Also, OP, are you 100% sure it's your age holding you back? I'd say the main reason may be elsewhere, but because you didn't ask for profile advice, I can't give any.

It was just a curious question. A separate conversation at work. Just wondered what the thoughts were on here. Thank You, and I'd love your advice on my profile.

Have a look on my profile, there are some links to great advice there. Also, simple forum search would bring tons of advice, too. "

Thank You. Will take a look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the individual! We all like different things. Some ladies like older men and some like younger. Personally I think you need to be able to hit it off on every level if you are having a long term fb. If not and it’s a one off then maybe it’s not so important!

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

Yes it’s pretty important to me. I love to meet guys between 21 and 28. But don’t particularly find guys over 45 attractive x

Kiki x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure it matters but then you know that already as you have age perimeters on your own profile OP.

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By *lwaysWilling OP   Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading


"Sure it matters but then you know that already as you have age perimeters on your own profile OP."

Very true. It was more to do with a discussion had at work. I feel looks and personality are as important. But can see both sides. Thank You x

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By *lwaysWilling OP   Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading


"Yes it’s pretty important to me. I love to meet guys between 21 and 28. But don’t particularly find guys over 45 attractive x

Kiki x"

Unlucky for me then lol. Thank You X

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Do people look at age and make the decision or still look for an attraction regardless of age!!. "

It must matter to some degree or there wouldn’t be profiles with age discriminations on.

There wouldn’t be the ‘magic 40’ number if you’re a guy.

To me, as everyone, it’s personal preference.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Do people look at age and make the decision or still look for an attraction regardless of age!!. "

On here. Yes.

I have absolutely no desire to meet anyone who could possibly be a friend of my sons, or a former pupil!

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By *lwaysWilling OP   Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading


"Do people look at age and make the decision or still look for an attraction regardless of age!!.

On here. Yes.

I have absolutely no desire to meet anyone who could possibly be a friend of my sons, or a former pupil! "

Imagine that haha. Great profile by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh we don't as a rule meet anyone under 26 but that isn't to say we would know that in a club environment and we wouldn't rule it out. Everyone is different and that goes for maturity too and experience. If we click and are attracted then why not enjoy life while you can.

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By *lwaysWilling OP   Man
over a year ago

Nr Reading


"Tbh we don't as a rule meet anyone under 26 but that isn't to say we would know that in a club environment and we wouldn't rule it out. Everyone is different and that goes for maturity too and experience. If we click and are attracted then why not enjoy life while you can."

So very true. Thanks for your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very important to me. 30 is an absolute minimum for me. Younger than that doesnt cut it. My upper age limit is a little more flexible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so. We like them to be closer to our age then early twenties. But that being used if we meet someone in a club and we all get on it's not out of the question.

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Age doesn't matter to me,Ive met females of 18 an stiil do an have met females older then me also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is part of peoples preference nothing is going to change that

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Age doesn’t matter to me

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Age doesn't matter at all. Remember we all get that bit older each day. Live life to the full. You don't get any second chances at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is very important to me, as I've noticed a certain pattern. Like most of the time, men below 35 may have all the talk but none of the walk. They are porn-educated, believe every woman is dying to be pounded with their cock for hours and foreplay is the F word. So I prefer older men, 35+, and have a regular FWB who is 60.

Also, OP, are you 100% sure it's your age holding you back? I'd say the main reason may be elsewhere, but because you didn't ask for profile advice, I can't give any. "

Nice to hear you prefer older. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I can't have sex with a man old enough to be my grandad or near to his age.

Although, I don't mind men of my dad's age (58).

Two years ago I met someone who was then 19 yrs old. I knew him from a different site so we met up. Best sex I've had yet from a meet! That said, I won't meet anyone else that age or anywhere near to it. I met that chap because it was him and not that I have a thing for much younger...I really don't!

On the other side of it, I could never date a younger guy. We would have nothing in common apart from sex! What would I have to talk about with a guy born from a different decade?! I can't stand gaming for one thing. Or anyone too obessed with playing footy every weekend etc.

So Yes I think age does come into it under different scenarios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes age matters to me. I chose my age range for a reason.

I'm just not into younger guys.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Alot of people make a big deal about age on here.

Some are steadfast in their choices but some are more care free.

I've met plenty of couples & single fems at parties who said i was too young, and a few hours later were all in a big bed with no room left to spare

I think alot of people will throw their age prefs away if they get an attractive offer.

I've seen couples who mention they don't meet people younger than 26 because of their children being a similar age, Then they start meeting a 22year old unicorn

In the end i honestly think its just down to the person, whatever mood they are in and how they could deal with that.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Do people look at age and make the decision or still look for an attraction regardless of age!!. "
Yes and then most likely no.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Maturity counts, Donald Trump is an older man who acts like a petulant child. So I'd prefer a younger intelligent man than an older stuck in his ways manchild.

However this isn't generally the case on here, younger often can mean inexperienced as well, so it's a balancing act, in general a guy in his mid thirties seems like the ideal for me

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If your outside of someone's age range, then I'd say yes, it's important to them, regardless of whether it is to you.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"If your outside of someone's age range, then I'd say yes, it's important to them, regardless of whether it is to you. "

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Its not just looks, its outlooks as well & it's these that are difficult to get across on Fab.

I'm 57 & yes I'm too old for many at 57 but most over 50's are too old for me in outlook. They have grown up children etc. We have one in yr3 of primary school!

We've always found our age difference the bigger hindrance on here. Plenty of over 50's want to play, very few under 40's

Luckily we've snaffled a girlfriend off Fab & she doesn't care about age. Good Job too really. Just a shame she's so far away or we'd meet more often.

S

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Its not just looks, its outlooks as well & it's these that are difficult to get across on Fab.

I'm 57 & yes I'm too old for many at 57 but most over 50's are too old for me in outlook. They have grown up children etc. We have one in yr3 of primary school!

We've always found our age difference the bigger hindrance on here. Plenty of over 50's want to play, very few under 40's

Luckily we've snaffled a girlfriend off Fab & she doesn't care about age. Good Job too really. Just a shame she's so far away or we'd meet more often.

S"

I think you've hit the nail on the head there in many ways. I tend to have more affinity with younger people because I can relate to them better. I haven't reared a family, I don't have grandkids to coo over... And while I'm not tripping the light fantastic every weekend or having quite the lifestyle people might reasonably assume that a single, unencumbered person can, my social circle, conversations, interests and popular references rarely have much in common with people my own age, unless they are in a similar situation.

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