FabSwingers.com forum: Rate my profile

By *ordo320 OP Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

Hi,

Thank you for taking the time to read this and hopefully reply too.

I’m not very good about wiring about myself and was looking for some pointers and help.

So, what do you think of my profile and how could I improve it?

Gord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your wording gives the impression you're not very selective. That might put people off

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You have emphasized the point that you are open to exploration but it leaves the impression with me that I'm uncertain what you really love or want.

Your profile is your key tool to sell yourself here, so ideally visitors will feel confident that you are the type of guy who will have a great time with them - and vice versa - as you have common mutual tastes and you have the type of personality that they will get on with.

Having an open mind is great. Showing the type of person that you are will draw people to you, or let those unmatched pass by. As there are lots of single men here, if someone becomes someone who in real life they could have explored things with a few more questions, on Fab they'll be more likely to read the other umpteen messages that they have instead. Once you are in full dialogue, each side will then ask and explore more. Your goal is to have people who you are interested in, to sense they understand and like you enough to follow through.

A lot of people also view single men that fit their outline preferences - they'll not have had contact from you, so aim for your profile to give a great understanding.

You'll not need it to be perfect and you can continue to modify it over time as you get experience and ideas. It's not terrible now but you seem decent and you may as well get the best from the site. Don't take one piece of feedback to mean that you must do it a certain way - it's your profile, reflecting you. I suggest you look at a lot of mens profiles, seeing how others do it, to get a feel for what may be better and worse. Just don't copy anything. Good luck!

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By *ordo320 OP Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

Thank you both. I’ll take it on board, have a think and see how I can improve it

My intention isn’t to put anyone off, I don’t need to explore kinks further and really enjoy vanilla fun too.

I love chatting and meeting people I wouldn’t normally meet in my normal life. That’s surely one of the main reasons we’re all on here!

Will hopefully post a improved version in a couple of days.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Its not the worst on here but you do need to add more photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seconded you need more photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Thank you for taking the time to read this and hopefully reply too.

I’m not very good about wiring about myself and was looking for some pointers and help.

So, what do you think of my profile and how could I improve it?

Gord"

It’s not a bad profile, for me personally I get a bit fed up with males who imply they want me to offer them experiences, who imply they want to try things but never say what.

I’d love someone to take me on a sexual adventure or two, rather than the other way round.

I think sometimes men are afraid to say what they’d like to do in case it puts ladies off, I prefer my men more assertive.

I’m well aware not every woman feels the same

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Hi,

Thank you for taking the time to read this and hopefully reply too.

I’m not very good about wiring about myself and was looking for some pointers and help.

So, what do you think of my profile and how could I improve it?

Gord

It’s not a bad profile, for me personally I get a bit fed up with males who imply they want me to offer them experiences, who imply they want to try things but never say what.

I’d love someone to take me on a sexual adventure or two, rather than the other way round.

I think sometimes men are afraid to say what they’d like to do in case it puts ladies off, I prefer my men more assertive.

I’m well aware not every woman feels the same

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too many guys want to be led rather than being open with what they’re looking for in a meet.

Also you want to meet couples and do what with them ? A couple inviting a single guy will have plenty of choice on here, but what if they’re Bi, how far are you willing to experiment.

A profile is very organic, if it isn’t working change it, but make sure it’s informative enough to attract others to respond to your message or to actually send one to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone rate mine?

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By *ordo320 OP Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

A few changes added tonight. Hopefully for the better! Anyone want to help me take a couple of photos for my page

Thank again for everyone’s help and taking the time out of your busy days to do so. I really appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its still not that appealing it comes across as though you are not selective and not open and honest but thats just my first impression.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Good luck, it doesn't look like you've taken my points on, however it's your profile and really should be left as you want it

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By *ordo320 OP Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

Thank you, any ideas on which bits are giving you this impression. Then I can have a look at those bits and see if I can improve it further

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By *ordo320 OP Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

That’s not what I meant to do, which bits do you have a issue with and I’ll do my best to fix them. I’d like it to be the best it can. I’m just not that good with words unfortunately.

I really appreciate everyone’s help and I’m not meaning to ignore your help. I’m willing to change things and improve

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

There’s a lot of hedge betting on your profile, and I don’t mean the switch thing. It reads a little desperate. Try and be more assured about what you want, and then seek out women and couples who match you. That way they’ll find a profile that matches their’s. You really can’t please all the people all the time. Much better to distil and refine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any chance of anyone giving me some feedback on my profile please?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"Any chance of anyone giving me some feedback on my profile please?

Please start your own thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I do that? And what’s the point when we’re all here in this one doing the exact same thing on this thread?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"How do I do that? And what’s the point when we’re all here in this one doing the exact same thing on this thread? "

Just hit “post new thread”. This is someone else’s thread and it’s rude to just hijack it. Moreover it just becomes a clusterfuck of different advice to different people. Imagine if everyone who wanted advice posted to the same thread.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"How do I do that? And what’s the point when we’re all here in this one doing the exact same thing on this thread? "

Imagine you started a thread asking for advice, the first person to reply then also asks for help, with their profile. You get no help but the other guy gets loads of replies. It'd piss you off wouldn't it ?

Start a new thread then you'll get some help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hows mine think i need help

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"Hows mine think i need help"

FFS!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Hows mine think i need help"

No it's fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hows mine think i need help

No it's fine

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thankyou ive not had any meets so i just wasnt to sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zzzzzzz

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

"Hows mine think i need help

FFS!"

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